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EXCLUSIVE: Inside Scoop on McGraw Wedding

Jay McGraw, the son of TV pop psychologist Dr. Phil, got married on Saturday in Beverly Hills to former Playboy Playmate Erica Dahm – and Oprah was a notable no-show, TMZ has learned.

If there was any doubt that Dr. Phil and Oprah are on the outs, Oprah's absence from the nuptials of the son of her onetime protégé may just have confirmed it.

As for the wedding itself, TMZ has learned that the reception was held at the swanky Beverly Hills Hotel – right around the corner from Dr. Phil's estate, where the ceremony was performed. Of the 400 guests, the best-known celeb amongst them was talk-show legend Larry King.

The musical entertainment was a highlight of the occasion – songwriter extraordinaire David Foster played piano with the wedding band, and R&B singer-producer Kenneth "Babyface" Edmonds performed three songs, which Foster had rehearsed with the band for five hours. The result, says our source, was "amazing."



Some of the toasts given on behalf of the new couple seemed a little off-key; one of the bride's sisters, for instance, said, "When we first met Jay, we thought he was a jackass – but he turned out to be this wonderful nice guy." Dr. Phil was somewhat more charitable to his new daughter-in-law, saying with glass raised, "For a lot of girls, Erica is an easy girl to hate. She's skinny and beautiful. . . In this country, there's no such thing as an arranged marriage, but if there were, we'd want to arrange for Erica to marry Jay."

During the reception, guests noshed on such treats as mini-cheeseburgers, French fries, and little root beer floats, all said to be scrumptious. Cameras were out in force, with coverage to come on Dr. Phil's syndicated talk show.

The happy couple, who met on the set of a 2004 FOX reality show, is taking their honeymoon in Fiji.

Tags: Dr. Phil, Dr.Phil, Erica Dahm, EricaDahm, Jay McGraw, JayMcgraw, Phil McGraw, PhilMcgraw

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61. What shocking news! First thing I thought was how is Robin taking this. There seems to be no common value or interest between Jay and Erica (does he think he can change her). Since Dr Phil went to Hollywood now he can become a regular guest at Heff's but Robin will probably pass on this treat. Robin will stand by her son because she is a good mother but she will probably need a lot of help from her Pharmacy to get the smile back on her face. Jay don't you feel like you betrayed a lot of your young fans with this marrage? Too bad for Robin that she has to have her good name dirtied by a daughter in law who likes to show everyone her privates. What a shame!!

Posted at 2:14PM on Aug 16th 2006 by J. Y. J.

62. Basically, it's all Hollywood.....Dr. Phil, his arrogance on his show, Robin, obsessed with her appearance and Playboy....

Posted at 7:14PM on Aug 16th 2006 by Leigher O'Hara

63. Jay McGraw's wedding with Erica Dahm made me laugh a bit at the absurdity of life and love in the pop/psycho-entertainment industry.

Dr. Phil has always preached against pornography and how perfectly fitting that his his new daugher-in-law is a playboy playmate!!! It seems his values, and Jay's, are infinitely negotiable.

"How's that work'in for ya???"

Hipocrisy is alive and well and living in our televisions.

Love it!

Posted at 3:32AM on Aug 17th 2006 by Catherine

64. ET has been showing the wedding all week. wish I could have seen the toast. Posing in Playboy is a business decision, it does not necessarily mean she is good in bed. Maybe Jay is punishing his mom for being so controlling all his life.

Posted at 9:45AM on Aug 17th 2006 by Lola

65. So what if I am a hack and my queer son married a porn slut. Its the american dream.

Money for nothing and the chicks for free.

Posted at 4:40PM on Aug 17th 2006 by Dr. Phil

66. congratulations,
is there a site i can go to see the wedding ceremony.
thank you
antoinette

Posted at 1:51PM on Aug 18th 2006 by antoinette

67. I recently saw Dr. Phil on David Letterman and he was talking about sailing around on his yacht and how Jay and his girlfriend (Erica Dahm) were not allowed to sleep together on his yacht as he is still old fashioned and had to think about his younger son. I found it ironic to find out that Jay's new bride was in playboy along with her two other sisters.

Dr Phil - How are you going to explain to your younger son (Jordan) about his new sister-in-law? Worried about them sleeping together on your yacht. What did it matter. I am sure Jordan has seen his new sister-in-law and her triplet sisters on the internet. She might as well pranced around nude on the yacht because there is nothing to show that everyone else has not already seen.

Posted at 11:59AM on Aug 19th 2006 by Nicole

68. U go Brenda! Who would have thought Phil would agree to this? A former playmate?! It is rather emmarassing for the family. You are right, How long will this last? Does Phil actually walk his talk with the prettier on the inside s***? Hmmm... rose

Posted at 2:53PM on Aug 19th 2006 by rose

69. Dr. Phil was showing his true colors with his toast to his daughter-in-law. He just revealed his own shallowness and hypocrisy; but I shouldn’t be surprised. He always talks about the importance of being physically fit and slender, so why shouldn’t he praise that attribute in his son’s wife. Though I must say, while espousing these views, he looked like a man who could stand to miss 4 meals a day for a year and still not look underfed. Also, regarding his daughter-in-law’s beauty, well beauty has always been in the eye of the beholder. However, when I look at her I don’t see beauty, just someone in need of a double cheeseburger with extra fries.

Posted at 1:59PM on Aug 20th 2006 by Lee

70. I remember watching a show where DrPhil was giving advice to a bride-to-be about her overspending for the wedding. Yet.. his daughter in-law has a 5carat diamond ring, flew to NYC just to get bridesmaids dresses.... and spent a ridiculous amount of money on the wedding.
And she's a "former playboy playmate"... I wonder how the two met?
Dr.Phil is so hypricritical!

Posted at 1:34AM on Aug 21st 2006 by Lindsey

71. Just to show you never say never, and don't give so much credit to the entertainment people......I remember one of Dr.Phil's segment about young girls pose provocatively on the net to get talent agents' attention to get into show biz; he told these young girls they do not need to do that, and he even said his son dates a lot of models and NONE of them had to do that!! Guess this segment would never be in the re-runs, huh?!

Well, look a the bright side, Dr. Phil now can put his daughter-in-law on the payroll to be the expert on many subjects that cover: use your body not you mind to get attention, how to advance in the world by posing for Playboy, find the dorky men with famous parents to get married to, life at the Playboy mansion, etc. She now can be his Sex Expert!!

If Jay was the son of the 'before Oprah' Dr Phil and not the 'Hollywood' Dr. Phil, I doubt she would even go out with him. Even her sister made that comment they thought he was a jackass. Search 'body painting' on the net and you will find the triplets' body paints photos. Their plastic surgeon did a pretty ok job, I am sure they were able to get a group rate.

Posted at 8:47PM on Aug 21st 2006 by Matt

72. Sean, Sean, Sean: you critcize LN in #45 for making a grammerical error, and yet, you make the EXACT same mistake in #56!! guffaw!!
Whadeva...we're not writing for the New York Times right?

Now on to the subject at hand. Dr. Phil was a nobody, following the big "O" around, during her trial with the ranchers she pissed off!! All of a sudden, this guy's got his own TV show. Nice!! Now he's a trizillionaire. Writing books, telling us all how we should look, feel, act, etc. Preaching about what wonderful parents he and Robin are....then his son marries one of Hef's sleazeballs.
Someone commented on how Jay was riding on his dads coat tails...i'd say that the good DR. is riding on Oprah's coat tails and he (Jay), just benefitted from the ride. Jay, let's just say that my kids won't be reading your books.

Dr. Phil loves to comment on his good friends..so and so and so and so. (name dropping at it's worst). Phil, you're from Texas..and now after just a couple of years you're calling Hollywood royalty your good friends?

Maybe Oprah will have a show, like she did with author James Frey, telling Dr Phil how much he and his son embarassed her!That did it for me with Oprah!!

Frankly, I'm getting so sick of both of them (Oprah and Phil) and their holier than thou attitudes. Time for them to retire. I think they can afford to.

Posted at 12:46PM on Aug 22nd 2006 by shry

73. Dr. phil and his playboy plastic bone skinny wife Robin. They both think they are celebrity and there not. Dr. Phil is a big showoff asshole, and Robin is country taking plastic trophy wife. There son Jay is a none talent ass, who has to have his father write boring books for him and put his ugly picture on it. Thats why he married a playboy wife. ALL OF THEM ARE FULL OF IT.THATS WHY THE PUBLIC SHOULD NOT FALL FOR DR. PHILL KNOW IT ALL BS TALK SHOW.

Posted at 2:44PM on Aug 23rd 2006 by shell

74. Dr. Phil has many sides.....one minute he is at Schuller's Crystal Cathedral and the next he is spouting profanities on his show....

Robin is self-obsorbed.....her sister is the true class in the family.....

Posted at 12:28PM on Aug 24th 2006 by Linda Coleman

75. This is rather surprising to me...I thought Jay was better than that. I do like him though and hope he will be happy with his new wife. Anytime I've seen him on Dr. Phil, he's always seemed very smart, and down to earth. I used to watch Dr. Phil a long time ago but the man just talks around in circles and is so full of b.s. And what was he thinking with his speech?! How bizarre! I remember him giving a girl advice on Oprah once, telling her that she needs to learn to keep her clothes on. Perhaps he should be giving his new daughter-in-law the same advice.

Posted at 9:32PM on Aug 25th 2006 by Erica

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