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EXCLUSIVE: Inside Scoop on McGraw Wedding

Jay McGraw, the son of TV pop psychologist Dr. Phil, got married on Saturday in Beverly Hills to former Playboy Playmate Erica Dahm – and Oprah was a notable no-show, TMZ has learned.

If there was any doubt that Dr. Phil and Oprah are on the outs, Oprah's absence from the nuptials of the son of her onetime protégé may just have confirmed it.

As for the wedding itself, TMZ has learned that the reception was held at the swanky Beverly Hills Hotel – right around the corner from Dr. Phil's estate, where the ceremony was performed. Of the 400 guests, the best-known celeb amongst them was talk-show legend Larry King.

The musical entertainment was a highlight of the occasion – songwriter extraordinaire David Foster played piano with the wedding band, and R&B singer-producer Kenneth "Babyface" Edmonds performed three songs, which Foster had rehearsed with the band for five hours. The result, says our source, was "amazing."



Some of the toasts given on behalf of the new couple seemed a little off-key; one of the bride's sisters, for instance, said, "When we first met Jay, we thought he was a jackass – but he turned out to be this wonderful nice guy." Dr. Phil was somewhat more charitable to his new daughter-in-law, saying with glass raised, "For a lot of girls, Erica is an easy girl to hate. She's skinny and beautiful. . . In this country, there's no such thing as an arranged marriage, but if there were, we'd want to arrange for Erica to marry Jay."

During the reception, guests noshed on such treats as mini-cheeseburgers, French fries, and little root beer floats, all said to be scrumptious. Cameras were out in force, with coverage to come on Dr. Phil's syndicated talk show.

The happy couple, who met on the set of a 2004 FOX reality show, is taking their honeymoon in Fiji.

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76. I don't know why this marriage bothers me so much. Maybe because of Dr. Phil's self righteous show. She is a former Playmate whose flesh is all over a magazine for all men to view. She must be in love with her body and self. I have a sinking feeling for this marriage. I agree with a lot of the comments. I would be very surprised if this marriage lasted more than a few years. It will be a very expensive divorce and God forbid if they have any children. But maybe we are all wrong. Maybe this will be a happy marriage and last for ever. Who knows any more?

Posted at 1:12PM on Aug 27th 2006 by Janice

77. Who among us can control the behavior of our children, especially at age 26????? My guess is that Dr. Phil and Robin disapproved of their son's choice of a wife, but could do nothing about it. And maybe 26 year old Jay is thinking in the now like most young people and not in the future. As fans or not, all we can do is congratulate them and wait and see what happens.

Posted at 5:32PM on Sep 20th 2006 by Debby

78. Oprah wasn't there because she uses her summers for her touch up plastic surgery in Hawaii each summer.

She's had a tummy tuck and breast lift with reduction a couple of summers ago after her 50th birthday. She wouldn't tell anyone, but it was so apparent when she came back that Fall.

I remember she had John Travolta on her show just a couple of days after the new year started, and he did a double take when he came onstage....grabbed her and asked WHAT have you done to yourself! Now John is supposed to be Oprahs bested bud but even he was astounded that in 2 1/2 months Oprah had a TOTALLY FLAT stomach and her breasts were HALF there size and sitting up high on her chest by her armpits. It was hilarious because John didn't know it was supposed to be a secret and kept asking what she had done. Oprah would put him off by giggling and saying crap like she just felt good.

Now there is nothing wrong with plastic surgery, but when all those white women are out there worshiping the ground Oprah walks on and exercising their asses off only to still have a sagging hanging belly, well, she needs to tell the truth that she had her saggy belly removed with a tummy tuck.

Ever notice how last year she didn't have a double chin anymore? Amazing after all these years and all that weight that it magically disappeared. Yes, you do lose weight in your face, but when you've been that heavy the chin area hangs, and the skin on the neck will sorta hang. Oprah's neck is tight as a 20 year old.

She just needs to tell the truth. Isn't she all about the truth? Her hypocrisy with that author's lies in his book was laughable when Oprah lies about her plastic surgery.

I think she's having her arms done this summer. Wait and watch. They will be smaller.

Plastic surgery is great but she should tell the truth!

Posted at 3:32PM on Sep 8th 2006 by Deede

79. Wouldnt it just be so much better if Dr. Phil's good looking son married a really
intelligent, talented and average looking feminist? Is it me, or doesn't this make
Dr. Phil look like an even bigger phony?

Posted at 9:49PM on Sep 9th 2006 by mary

80. wow ! i bet DR PHIL didnt see that coming. wonder how and what phycological questions he thought about asking his son?

Posted at 8:29PM on Sep 12th 2006 by jessica

81. Hi Jay and erica,
im so happy fore you guys im so ubsessed of your family. you made a great discussion im confident youll make it. good luck. have fun at honeymoon

Posted at 9:57PM on Sep 19th 2006 by Joe Kizer

82. I like the whole family. I think they're great. Dr. Phil is a clear thinking best advice giving, book writing doc and we're all lucky Oprah found him for us. As for his wife....she is adorable and a great role model for women of all ages. The kids are great.....Dr. Phil can't control who Jay falls in love with. Give them all a collective break. Wish them well.

Posted at 3:00PM on Sep 25th 2006 by susannah

83. Why do people have to say rude comments about other people why don't you just give them your blessing and wish them LUCK.
As foar as for he being skinny well good for her but remember most men want a woman that has some meat on her body......right.

Posted at 4:05PM on Sep 26th 2006 by Gina

84. I am shocked that Dr. Phil used such a shallow way to express himself at what should be the most monumental and special day in his first born's life. Could he get any more superficial. (He needs to read some of his own books). A bit of preaching to himself is in order I would say.
What is up with him and Oprah? He never saw that coming, I bet.
Denise

Posted at 5:19PM on Sep 27th 2006 by denise nihill

85. I WISH THE OBVIOUSLY HAPPY COUPLE "BEST WISHES" FOR A PRESENT AND FUTURE OF LOVE AND JOY!!!! P.S. THE NEGATIVE COMMENTS FROM OTHER PEOPLE ARE BASED ON JEALOUSY---SHAME! SHAME! ON YOU ALL!

Posted at 4:49PM on Sep 26th 2006 by Donna

86. I WISH THE OBVIOUSLY HAPPY COUPLE "BEST WISHES" FOR A PRESENT AND FUTURE OF LOVE AND JOY!!!! P.S. THE NEGATIVE COMMENTS FROM OTHER PEOPLE ARE BASED ON JEALOUSY---SHAME! SHAME! ON YOU ALL!

Posted at 4:49PM on Sep 26th 2006 by Donna

87. wish them the very best,who cares what they had for dinner,they make a great couple..........

Posted at 7:08AM on Sep 30th 2006 by norma

88. Yes, what really caused Oprah 2b a no show? Since Dr. Phil has made
his fortune with Oprahs helping him up .. now would be a good time for
him to make a sizeable donation to her 'Angel Network' .. Makes me wonder
why are some men just aren't greatful for the hand up and share their wealth as their mentors? Also makes me wonder if Oprah may think she was 'used' .. could be why she's pissed.

Posted at 5:34PM on Sep 26th 2006 by Joan

89. hey dumbf*** shry at comment #72... the grammatical error of "your" was intentional (notice the comment in parentheses as in i want LN to feel comfortable in her ignorance) just as i want you to feel comfortable in your's. it's called sarcasm you dumb sh*t. and certainly let no one mistake TMZ for the New Yawk Times. but there's never an excuse for poor grammar... whether it be the Times or what you're accustomed to reading... the walls of mens' room stalls. guffaaaaaaaaaaaw!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted at 6:11PM on Sep 26th 2006 by ross

90. Playmates marry highest bidders:pop-out child, and get on the Dr.Phil dole....that's how long it will last.

Posted at 6:11PM on Sep 26th 2006 by B. Watts

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