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No They Din't! Jilted Exes Dish About Brit and Buffy

9/20/2006 7:01 PM PDT BY TMZ STAFF

Jilted exes Shar Jackson and Marcia O'Brien share their tales of marital breakdown on a very special episode of "The Dr. Keith Ablow Show."

Jackson, more well known for being the ex of Kevin Federline than her appearances on various UPN shows, explains her pain of breaking up in the public eye, telling Ablow, "My oldest daughter Cassie would come home from school in tears, everybody wanted to know, 'Mommy why did Kevin do this? Why this? Why that? People were teasing me,' That was the only part that just killed me."

Shar also talks about her relationship with Britney Spears, Federline's new wife and baby-mama, saying, "She's part of our extended family." She does add, however, that she has not met their children. "I keep my distance," she says.

Also on the show is Marcia O'Brien, whose husband, Olympic skater Lloyd Eisler, left her for his "Skating with the Stars" partner and star of the film version of "Buffy the Vampire Slayer" Kristy Swanson.

O'Brien was pregnant with the couple's second child when she found out about her husband's second stint of infidelity, though Eisler claims he was not having an affair with the Swanson while partnered with her on "Skating."

O'Brien tells Ablow his claims are unfounded, calling them, "A complete lie. I have emails which he sent me where he admits to when they started sleeping together, how many times they had slept together. I went through a series of STD testing given the fact that I was pregnant."

Swanson is now pregnant with Eisler's baby, due on Valentine's Day.

Jackson and O'Brien will be joined by former supermodel Angie Everhart, Sylvester Stallone's ex-girlfriend and the ex-wife of George Hamilton's son Ashley on "The Dr. Keith Ablow Show" tomorrow.


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Are you all kidding me!!! Have none of you ever done anything wrong to judge others so harshly. Yes Brittney slept with a man she knew was attached but how much about her being pregnant did she actually know? Getting with someone who is attached is wrong but she had no obligation to Shar what so ever, that responsiblity laid on Kevin. None of us actually know the whole story so why doesn't everyone give britney a break already, she did end up saddled with that loser anyway (punishment enough) As for Shar, whose to say she is all that great of a person, he did walk for a reason, and Tiffany settling for men is no excuse there are good men out there for all races you just have to open your eyes and refuse to settle or you get stuck with k-fed's.

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Ok just because it was Britney that got her man we are supposed to feel sorry for her? How many women have had some woman take their man and leave her with kids to raise by herself? Why should we feel sorry for Shar and not the millions out there in the same situation minus the fame??

2864 days ago


I feel bad for Shar becuz not only did she love a worhtless looser it's constintley rubbed in her face becuz their always in the media. A painful brackup will stay with someone for many years even after they feel their over it, and considering she was pregnant with kaleb when he left her thats even more painful. But the constint scrutiny over Britney and her family with haunt Shar until Brit and Kevin Break up, when it is no longer rubbed in her face then she will stop talking about it. Shar keep ya head up you'll be aight. He's a worthless son of a bitch anywayz!!!!

2864 days ago

Leno is garbage    

He needs to be a father to the kids he had with her, it's disgusting seeing him on TV parading around with Britney and joining in on her stupid publicity stunts whoring her children to the media while knowing he's got 2 other babies he ain't even showin any love to. Anyway, Shar Jackson doesn't need to go around whoring herself to the media to get this attention, I'm sure there's a better way.

2864 days ago


Well, I do feel a bit sorry for Shar but we do not know the full story so its hard to assign blame. Shar did have a career before this and this will always overshadow any future project she goes after. It was still wrong for Kevin to leaver her in that situation. However, that’s the chance you take when you have kids out of WEDLOCK.

I am not making light of the situation but I think waaay too many women are over exaggerating. Like on poster said don't limit yourself to just one type and maybe be open-minded. Anyway, having kids out of WEDLOCK is probably one reason many women have problems finding a partner. Of those women you speak of how many have 1, 2 and 3 kids by the time they are 30 OUT OF WEDLOCK? That’s a huge problem and you know it! Stop having babies people, SHEESH! ( I do however support single people, gay people, or whatever adopting or making the CHOICE to have children for a variety of reasons)…not just getting knocked up by accident and then bemoaning it later.

2864 days ago


Shar, honey you weren't even married. You opened the legs for free. Nice one! Anyway seriously, he's scum and trash. You don't want to be around that. Take the kids and RUN! Just make sure you get your child support.

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First of all, Shar Jackson is making money talking about Kevin. So give her a llittle credit for that. When he walked away from her for Brittney he did her a favor. Second he most be paying GOOD money for child support. So she can work when she wants to. Crying about him is one thing. Let him go girlfriend. And #24 you are wrong. Being a black women looking for a GOOD black man in this society is very hard. Yes, I have a good black man. But I was out there looking for one to. No I don't want a thug, or a player I wanted a educated black man that has a good job and believes in God. It's hard. And it took awhile. They just are hard to fine. Yea, anyone can get a man. But a Good man is hard to fine.

2864 days ago

Mike V.    

Boo Hoo!! How much longer can this unemployed, untalented hack milk this. If she was stupid enough to fuck an unemployed, no talent hillbilly, then she gets what she deserves.

2864 days ago


Janine, most of my single girl friends are not married and are of different professions. One is a 29 year old school teacher and not only doesn't have any children, but is still a virgin.

I never said women should settle. In fact that's why they're lonely because they're not accepting less than what they feel they should have. I'm just sayin' i can relate to why its hard for her to move on. Its' not like men are lining up for black women anyway, whether they are attractive, slim and educated, or the opposite.

I'm just being realistic not trying to sugar coat. I hate when people bullshit like its not rough out there. it might be a little different from the really young girls though, but the adult women, not even close to easy.

2864 days ago


Shar, you girl. Tell it all. Obviously she is very hurt over the situation. I'm sure she loved kfed, and for him to leave her like that while she was pregnant for some someone else is just wrong. I'm sure all of you would be just as mad if it happened to you. you have no sympathy b/c you're not in her shoes. What gets me is that before brittney's kids were born, she was all over kfed's daughter. you saw them everywhere together. But now that she has her own kids it seems as though they don't spend time with the kids like they use to. Bottom line, kfed now has 4 kids not 2. He should treat them all the same. And whether or not brittney wants to own up to it or not, she has a responsibility to his other two children also. When he has to pay child support it has to come from him and brittney b/c they are married and what's his is hers and vice versa.

2864 days ago


OMFG shar is a Nobody, K-Fed is using Britany for her money and when he uses it all up shar will be laughing her butt off because Britany will be crying because she can't afford to raise her babies with silver spoons in there mouths. She'll be wishing she staid with Justin T. that was her BIGGEST mistake was letting him go. K-Fed is only after money and publicity and Birtany is so stupid to figure that out even her family see's it, Hell the more kids they have together the more he gets per child, Didn't anyone read there Pre-Nup. He aint that Dumb.

2864 days ago


Well I think she could milk it alot!!!!!! Hey he's out there spending Britney's money but Karma is something and it does come back on any and everybody in the wrong. So Shar needs tocheer up cuz one day she'll take him to cleaners(a.k.a. the bank) then he will really look like the loser grease bucket that he is.

One more thing, he needs to be seriously beat the hell up for whatever that is he calls singing.

2864 days ago


God Bless Star . . .he's a LOSER and Brittany will soon see for herself. He's just with Brittany for her money and fame. He's not cute, cannot rap and just a doner.
Star, be blessed to know, you don't have that LOSER in your bed. Brittany, wake up and smell the ROSES!

2864 days ago


Way long past the time to move on, which is what she kept saying she had done. HUH? She chose to make babies with a guy she wasn't married to and he chose not to honor committment that didn't exist, surprise! Sure, he didn't marry B. for the right reasons, but they ARE married. It is ludicrous to cry 'foul' when a guy cheats and runs on a relationship that wasn't serious enough to require the legality of marriage. Let alone when the gals to choose to make babies with these losers. Sure married guys cheat and sure, a marriage license doesn't stop someone, but even in our wacked out world, it is still taken more seriously than just ending up having kid after kid with someone who doesn't really care enough to marry you (and Shar was in the 'biz' so K-fed could have latched on to her with more committment IF he had chosen to). She has no desire to know the siblings of her children, but wants to be friends with the Daddy? It would be a cold day in .*&^% before I would want my hubby visiting with his old 'baby's Mamma'.. I do know he cheats, right?!! Besides, Shar should be counting her blessings and not crying on TV unless she has a hasbeen career to resurrect. She sounded pathetic. No sympathy here.

2864 days ago

Miss Peach    

LOL!!! I can't believe how insensitvie people on here can be! So because Shar made a decision and has had 4 children and is not married this means she deserved to be abandoned. All of you who are talking about she would not be in this situation had she not had children out of wedlock! GIVE ME A FUCKING BREAK! Most of you talking this either don't have children (because you aborted them), Have children but are in a worthless marriage (sticking and staying because of the kids) or believe this could have never happened to you. NO I'm not a fan of any of these people but what's real is, we all make decisions to do things and all live our lives everyday with sin. *Let yee who live w/out sin cast the first stone*. Remember just because you do your dirt in the dark, it will come to light!

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