Celebrity Justice
"Dancing" Star Claims Abuse By Sex-Crazed Hubby

Sarah Evans and Craig SchelskeNASHVILLE, Tenn. (AP) -- Country singer Sara Evans alleges in divorce papers that her husband committed adultery, was verbally and emotionally abusive, drank excessively and frequently watched pornography in their home.

Evans, 35, filed for divorce Thursday from Craig Schelske and announced through a spokesman that she was quitting ABC's "Dancing With the Stars" to "to give her family full attention at this difficult time."

The couple married in 1993 and have three children ages 7, 3 and 2. Schelske, 43, who is currently unemployed, ran for Congress as a Republican from Oregon's 5th District in 2002. He is a native of Salem, Ore. He could not immediately be reached for comment.


In the filing in state court in Franklin, a Nashville suburb where the couple has a home, Evans alleges that Schelske watched pornography on the couples' computers and has at least 100 nude photographs of himself in a state of arousal. She also alleges that several photographs show Schelske having sex with other women, and that Schelske maintains "Craigs Lists" on his computers, some of which involve requests for three-party sex and anal sex.

According to the court documents, the oldest of the couple's children confronted Schelske when he was watching pornographic material on the television in their home.

Evans further alleges that Schelske frequently threatened her and "told her that she is crazy," threatened to take the children to Oregon and "continually interferes with (Evans') possession of and parenting time" with their children.

Evans requests child custody, possession of Franklin home and child support.
Evans was among 11 celebrities who paired with professional dancers to compete on the third season of the popular ABC reality series. "Ms. Evans hopes that her fans and TV viewers who've supported her in recent weeks and throughout her music career will respect and understand her need for privacy in the face of these recent events," Allen Brown, her representative at Sony BMG Music Entertainment, said in a statement Thursday.

The Missouri native was recently nominated for female vocalist of the year honors by the Country Music Association. She made her recording debut in 1997 and her 2000 album "Born to Fly" went double-platinum. Her hits include "Perfect," "Suds in the Bucket," and "Real Fine Place to Start."

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106. Sara, You dont realize what your doing splitting up your family. Forgive him and make him change and then make him live with it the rest of his life (hehehe). More than one way to behead a chicken . LOL

Posted at 10:13PM on Oct 19th 2006 by Carolyn from INdiana

107. Sara, divorce is hard. Having been thru it for the past three years with three young sons................and a millionaire "ex" family, it's hard. Your TRUE CHARACTER will be tested......NOW AND FOREVER. Too bad we can't talk face to face.

Best wishes.

Posted at 8:51PM on Oct 19th 2006 by ebh

108. Sorry for the 'public exposure' of estranged husband and his antics. Sad, but
the truth is there are many men that would fall under this title. Minus the
trauma of the children, that is unforgivable, but the other nonsense is not too
far-fetched behavior for some males. Females cannot comprehend alot of it,
as males have about 20 times the amount of testosterone burning up their
circuits. Men and woman are different.......And some cannot handle their responsiblilities, ususally men, and that is what we see here. Play, you pay!

Posted at 9:09PM on Oct 19th 2006 by Anne Hanna

109. God will take of you and children. Keep smiling. You are a good person.

Posted at 11:02AM on Oct 20th 2006 by barbara

110. I feel so bad for Sara during this very hard and emotional time. Not only does she have to deal with the pain of the reality of what her husband is all about, but also the break-up of her family and that tears most mothers apart. To sit there and point your finger at her husband's politcal party and rip the Republicans apart as if clinton and the democratics were so honest and pure, is atrocious. Where is the sympathy towards her family and situation at this time? Certainly not in the Democratic party. never.

Posted at 10:53PM on Oct 19th 2006 by wl

111. Sara keep your head held high, from the first time i saw you perform and saw a couple of your interviews you always seemed to be very family oriented...sweetie it might have just taken some time for you to see he's just like the majority of attorneys, trained very well on how to lie and be decietful..the honest god fearing attorneys are very distinct in this day and time.....I hope it gives you inner strength and peace when you think about the (good ole boy leisure politian ) that he really is and all he's lost...just think about my favorite quote...what goes around, comes around x 10......SMILE, your a good person

Posted at 1:48AM on Oct 20th 2006 by Lib

112. Sara,

What you did took a lot of courage. You will be better off in the long run. You are a talented woman and you can survive on your own raising your kids without their dead beat dad who is unemployed and has totally taken advantage of leetching off you all these years. He knew he had it made but he blew it. He is one sick man. The grass is not always greener of the other side. Staying together for the children's sake or family just doesn't make sense. Alot of women used to do that. I am one of those that did and now I regret it it. I wished I could have been stronger in those days to leave a nonworking, gambling abuser to my children and me having to work all the time to pay the bills. I finally got the strength to leave after 27 years and I should not have wasted so many good years of my life on a worthless excuse for a husband. As a result it really messed up my family staying married to him that long. All my kids are on anti depressants now :-( You made the right choice and because ot it you will be stronger! God only gives us what we can handle. Good luck to you Sara!

Posted at 11:24AM on Oct 23rd 2006 by Lantana

113. What a fool...she's hot and smart and sexy and good mom...living off her...the list continues...he 's an a**hole.

Posted at 9:29AM on Oct 20th 2006 by gypzfaerie

114.
IF ALL IS TRUE, TAKE YOUR KIDS AND GO.
BUT FOR THOSE THAT ARE BASHING REPUBLICANS
THEIR ARE IN BOTH PARTIES. HAVE YOU FORGOT PRES.
KENNEDYAND HIS BROTHER AND SO ON. NOT MENTION
CLINTON. ALL THOUGH THEY WERE BOTH GOOD LEADERS, BUT SO IS BUSH ,

Posted at 7:20AM on Oct 20th 2006 by DOMIANO

115. What a LOSER this guy is.
Why don't people realize that this crap ruins relationships...and sex lives. Her sex life must have been crap - poor thing. Good thing she is rid of him because now she can move on and find a real man.

Posted at 7:42AM on Oct 20th 2006 by Ride Burton

116. # 97 you are an idiot.
The pics include ones of himself with other women and he's on lists for sex with others. PLUS instead of building a satisfying sex life with his wife ( sex lives are supposed to grow and continue growing) HE IS TURNING TO INTERNET PRoN INSTEAD. That is what men who choOse not to bother being good at sex do.
I guy behaving like this to his wife means he is $hit - IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH DIFFERENT BELIEFS. This guy is broken!!!

Posted at 7:42AM on Oct 20th 2006 by Ride Burton

117. Who says that it's all the husbands fault, it's the kids that will suffer from all of this. When you hear only one side of the story, it's hard to believe who. I hope that they get some help for their children.

Posted at 3:22PM on Oct 20th 2006 by Carla

118. I just adore Sara Evans. She's a down home girl with true family values and I hate that she has to go through this. I hope she gets through it okay, but I fear it's going to get nasty as that jerk she's married to is going to try to take her for everything she's got. It's not bad enough she had to support him when they were married, that he could do this to her and try to get her money AFTER they're divorced is unspeakable! Good luck Sara, we're behind you!

Posted at 4:38PM on Oct 20th 2006 by Patti

119. # 33 obviously has a LOT to learn about dealing with verbal abuse, emotional abuse, and even porn addiction (and whatever else junk he's spewing) Try verbal abuse being day in and day out "If I do not get MY way I'll walk since you are useless anyway." Emotional abuse is leaving you alone day after day while he is off doing his thing while you sit and wonder or storming off cussing you out because you didn't do something the way HE wanted it done so your "punishment" is his igoring you like you're dead for days on end other than to spew out more verbal abuse about how useless and worthless you are ..been there done that ..have a zillion T shirts.. As far as the porn thing, depends on how far he took it. Because I have severe disabilities, if my husband feels like looking at Playboy or Penthouse on the computer, I just write it off as his needing to blow off pent up steam..flat out filthy porn, I'd never tolerate (Not that the others are any better, just easier to deal with the "softer" crap ONLY because of my occasional limitations and the fact that he is HERE looking at it with the children in bed asleep) It's all where you draw the line. Why this guy would have 100 pics of himself in that "state" is bizarre to me though..what's the purpose of that? To look at them when he is 80 to show that he could do it at one time without Viagra?? (NO offence to any older gentlemen requiring those medications) I find that keeping pics of himself bizarre. On that note alone I would tell Sara to run and not look back and be sure to take those children. BTW - there is NOTHING political here so just can it about the Republican pervs crap..there's other boards for your "sicko I cannot live without politics for 5 minutes" disease. You can do better Sara... you have no physical limitations thus NO reason for your man to be looking at ANY type soft or hard porn when he has (or had anyway) a beautiful woman like you. Once they lose the beautiful wife and their children, it's only then that they "wake up" and see what their perversions cost them. Ask Christy Brinkley's soon to be ex. I'm sure he can tell you now how much he regrets his recent perversions and infidelity.

Posted at 5:10PM on Oct 20th 2006 by meme

120. I think if any of her allegations were true she certainly wouldn't be airing it in public. I think it is appalling that she went public and I think regardless of whether any of it is true or not, she should have thought of her children. I think it is her way of smearing him to make sure she gets custody, spousal support and child support. If her were truly that horrible why did she put up with it, I know if my child walked in on daddy watching porn the way she reports it, daddy would have been out that night. I was not there but both the nanny and the husband deny an affair and the nanny is willing to submit to a lie detector test. What if her allegations are false, think of the hurt and humiliation that Ms. Evens put everyone involved through and again even if it were true did her children need to see her allegations on the world wide web. It would have made sense just to file due to irreconcilable differences and save her kids the hurt. That's just my opinion.

Posted at 5:11PM on Oct 23rd 2006 by Liz

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