Celebrity Feuds
Isaiah Apologizes; Says Comment "Marred" Globes

After a firestorm of controversy over his use of offensive language on set and at Monday's Golden Globes, "Grey's Anatomy" star Isaiah Washington issued the following statement late this afternoon:

"I apologize to T.R., my colleagues, the fans of the show and especially the lesbian and gay community for using a word that is unacceptable in any context or circumstance. By repeating the word Monday night, I marred what should have been a perfect night for everyone who works on 'Grey's Anatomy.' I can neither defend nor explain my behavior. I can also no longer deny to myself that there are issues I obviously need to examine within my own soul, and I've asked for help.

I know the power of words, especially those that demean. I realize that by using one filled with disrespect I have hurt more than T.R. and my colleagues. With one word, I've hurt everyone who has struggled for the respect so many of us take for granted. I welcome the chance to meet with leaders of the gay and lesbian community to apologize in person and to talk about what I can do to heal the wounds I've opened.

T.R.'s courage throughout this entire episode speaks to his tremendous character. I hold his talent, and T.R. as a person, in high esteem. I know a mere apology will not end this, and I intend to let my future actions prove my sincerity."



Tags: Grey's Anatomy, Grey'sAnatomy, Isaiah Washington, IsaiahWashington, TR Knight, TrKnight

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46. Lemme see...I have homosexual friends that refer to close female friends as "FagHags".....and we don't take offense.

I also have African-American friends that greet each other, frequently, as follows: "yo, what up nigger", and such, and they don't take offense, 'cause between them, it is utilized as a term of endearment, signifying that they share a close friendship. I spent a large part of my childhood in Compton, so I witnessed this time and again. No one took offense.

I simply think of each of these groups as Gay or as Black. We get along just fine. They have a sense of humor, all of them, and don't take offense so easily. Rodney King said, "can't we all just get along", and I thought that we could, but for those with a huge chip on their shoulders, it appears that we can't just get along. Sad commentary on present day society. Everything is just so f*cking serious. A man cannot express his true feelings, for fear of prosecution. Who is persecuting who, I ask?

I must admit that I don't watch the show these two men appear in; I think I saw it once, way back, so I can't readily recall the details, but I wonder...Is the character played by TR supposed to be straight?

Is that why he didn't out himself earlier? I'm sure lots and lots of people knew about his sexual persuasion anyhow - and big f-ng deal. Lance Bass came out and no one made a stink.

Still, how come there's no fuss being made about a gay man playing a straight role? Straight actors should be up in arms 'bout this. But they are not.

Because they are bigger than the bullshit the others are standing in right now - and damn that smells.

Come out, come out, wherever you are? We still play hide and go seek, 'cept that now, the one's that are found act like crybabies. It was once fun to seek. Innocence lost, I guess.

When it is all said and done, any publicity is good publicity, right? It's all in the eye of the beholder, so turn the prism, change perspective, and move on.

Posted at 9:26PM on Jan 18th 2007 by dee truth

47. TR knghts character should be sent away. I don't care if he's gay but his character is the most boring guy on that show closely followed By ellen pompei's character. God this show is boring! Thank goodnes for Mc steamy and the blackanese couple cause the show would be a snore fest without them.

Does anyone else think Dr. Mc Dreamy looks like a lesbian? He really reminds me a lot of ELLEN!

Posted at 9:29PM on Jan 18th 2007 by ER is better

48. The real definition of a faggot is a bundle of splinters (wood) to start an easy fire. It has nothing to do with sexual preference. A fag in also a cigarette. The only definition I know of for male sexual preference is homosexual.

Posted at 9:28PM on Jan 18th 2007 by Etta

49. SIMON COWELL SHOULD APOLOGIZE TO KENNETH BRIGGS FOR SAYING THAT HE LOOKS LIKE A BUSH BABY.

Posted at 9:28PM on Jan 18th 2007 by BUSH BABY LOVE

50. People who use the word faggot and hate gays are gay themselves and are too chicken to come out of the closet themselves.

Posted at 9:31PM on Jan 18th 2007 by BoReD

51. BoReD

That is the most stupid statement I have ever heard. Because one calls someone a FAGGOT that mean he is one and does not want to come ou. What crap. All you FAGGOTs out there, if you are so string about what you are COME OUT. Stop hiding and taking advantage of thing without telling the truth about yourselves. You are FAGGOT because you hide.

Posted at 9:37PM on Jan 18th 2007 by d - man

52. This guy is doing a great job in ruining his own career

Posted at 9:35PM on Jan 18th 2007 by Phil

53. It o.k to say as long as you are not the color white. If a white person had said this they would be fired and be called a racist!

Posted at 9:36PM on Jan 18th 2007 by Gee Whiz

54. de ja vu, anyone??? i think this "apology" was copied and pasted from mel's!!!
just replace the jewish leaders with gay and lesbian leaders.the man is a jackass-fire him. he deserves it. the only help he needs is a dose of reality to check his fat ego.

Posted at 9:37PM on Jan 18th 2007 by jen

55. Ok he apologized, let's move on.

Posted at 9:51PM on Jan 18th 2007 by Kay

56. I agree with the person who said that Isaih would have gotten upset if the shoe was on the other foot and T.R had said the n=word. Like that a-hole kramer guy. I also agree that a big damn deal doesn't need to be made about this.

Posted at 9:57PM on Jan 18th 2007 by Adrienne

57. It's really too bad we can't wake up in an alternate universe where all y'all can be in another's shoes. You make me sick. So as long as it doesn't affect your personal race, religion, sexual orientation it's all open season??? Fuck that shit. I hope to hellz I don't meet up with any of y'all...the contamination would be too much. Sheesh.

Posted at 9:45PM on Jan 18th 2007 by mark

58. Dear d - man;

I got one word for you: NIGGER! Deal with it! Don't be mad that you are one, you can't help it. It's just the way life is. Many people don't give a shit about you all either. Before I go, I just have to say it again: NIGGER!

Posted at 9:47PM on Jan 18th 2007 by John Rhodes

59. D-man: Obviously you are worried that you are gay...most men who are homo phobic have a deep seated fear that they themselves might be gay. It's not a big deal...we really don't care which way you swing or how small your penis is lol...stop all your neurotic rantings on here or check into a mental hospital for some help!

Posted at 9:49PM on Jan 18th 2007 by wise old owl

60. D-man, you can say anything that you want, and you do.

Although it makes some cringe, I admit that it makes for some interesting reading. You never whine, like other posters tend to do.

You are a stand-up straight-up (no sexual reference intended) kinda guy and you tell it exactly the way you see it, warped or clear, regardless of the outcome. Every now and then, when prodded nicely, you own up to a commentary mistake, and reword your intent. No, you don't apologize, you just agree to see it from another's point of view. When I see that you incite discussion amongst us all, I think it a good thing, because so many would prefer to believe that life is a bowl of roses. No, it isn't...and even though you have a penchant for insulting narrowminded individuals - you make us all think about what you stated, be it good, or be it bad.

As none of us pay to read or write on this site, we can easily sign off if we are truly offended. Free country. Free Speech. First Amendment guarantee.

Posted at 9:53PM on Jan 18th 2007 by dee truth

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