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91. #56

You are a poor parent just like Britney!! When you have children you are supposed to put THEM first and you give up your bar nights with your buds. It is over for you when you have kids. You put THEM first and your life should centre around providing a good, secure home for them and providing their emotional needs. NOT yourself and your "need to have fun" . Especially with a 2 year old!!! Give me a break...... Love is an ACTION - a verb, not a noun. For those who think is ok to go out in smoke and booze filled bars to drink alcohol and look like all sexy for strange men who might even pose a risk to your children - you are irresponsible. In a bar you could not even hear the cell phone if it rang in an emergency.....your priorities are all twisted.

There might be a tiny chance they wake up with a fever or a nightmare. What then ...sorry kid I am out fulfilling my need as an adult to get high and flaunt my breasts.

The issue here is personal integrity. Most of us give our partying ways when we have children. Personally, I have a 7 year old and I go out to the company christmas party once a year. Even that is hard for my daughter. She worries. Small children want to know their parent is near them. They have a lot of fears about abandonment and even as small babies they know the difference between their real parent and a stranger. Seriously, how much do strangers care about your kids....do they check on them regularly, let them cry a little longer??

My joy comes from caring for her. For a good parent pleasure comes from what you GIVE. Not what you GET. And I am not alking about blow jobs.

GROW UP Britney. The damage you are doing to your children, and your reputation may not be repairable. They need you and us watching you destroy their lives is heartbreaking.

Posted at 6:17PM on Jan 19th 2007 by Ambs

92. Brit's kids will go to school and be told what a whore their mom is? By who, YOUR KIDS? How nice all you self-righteous a**hole "parents" are on here setting such great examples for your kids by teaching them to judge and ridicule their peers. Not to mention you're judging someone you've never met based on poorly constructed stories fed to you by money-hungry non-journalists. You're basically saying that Brits kids will be mercilessly mocked by their peers- i.e. your kids. How bout you put down the US weekly yourself and pick up Time or the Tribune or something and teach your kids some decent human compassion and interest in real news and real word events. #25 was right. As long as you keep reading this crap, commenting on this crap, reading this crap, etc. it will still be "news". Expand your minds. Day after day there are these hateful pointles posts on here. It's sad.

Posted at 6:33PM on Jan 19th 2007 by it's sad

93. AMBS
my child does come first. when she falls asleep im there. when she wakes up, im there. AND her father is there as well, and his hours are not as long as mine. strangers are not watching my daughter. my dad is retired, although the baby doesnt stay wit him often. she stays her fathers parents while we both work. i work later, my job offers overtime i take it. so from 5pm until i i pick her up, shes with grandparents and her father. afterwards we go home, and when she falls asleep i will meet a friend for a drink . we go to see eachother. your twisting words, im not out there dressing all sexy , flaunting my breasts. i said i meet friends. i dont sit there getting trashed. I nurse one drink for an hour or two. catch up, laugh a little, and then im home before sunrise. im never home after one am on a work night. meeting my girlfriends there isnt a thing i do every night either, i dont have money to do that every night. but if i sat home every night after i put her down for bed and didnt see anyone all week i would feel trapped. that doesnt make me a bad mom, it makes me human.


so you are very far from right ambs. im a great mom. and im lucky that i dont have to hire babysitters and shes got a ton of family that love being with her. her 14 year old cousin begs for her to sleep over. these people are not strangers to her

but on nights thats that her father takes her over night, which is normally saturday, yes then i will go out, and i will drink heavier and flaunt myself. im a mommy first.......but when i know shes taken care of i can relax and have fun.

Posted at 6:47PM on Jan 19th 2007 by Kristine

94. Kristine,
I am sure there are many - Like Britney Spears who will support your theory here. Eerily there are many mothers in bars. Ewwww.
Not I.
You work overtime and then you spend what little time you
have nursing drinks in a bar with your buds. You go out on Saturday
and get drunk!!!....Sorry. But.....Clearly you are NOT a mommy first.
Why aren't you "relaxing" with your baby? Why would you choose to
"relax" with a bud rather than your baby??? Give me a break!I have
not entered a bar since my child was born. I would feel like a
disgrace as a mother. She is BEST taken care of by YOU - you cannot delegate mothering. It is not completely about your behavior, going to bars ect. It is about your personal integrity. Just because you "can" "get away with" going out when she is asleep does not mean you should. It is just wrong. You can rationalize all you want, and many slack mothers will be on-side I am sure, but I might suggest that you take those two hours where
you are "nursing a drink" with your buds and spend it with your baby.

Posted at 7:24PM on Jan 19th 2007 by Ambs

95. ambs

HELLLO! shes with her FATHER ON SATURDAY NIGHTS. He is entitled to have her too. Im greatful that i get to work overtime. So while she is with her father and her grandparents i get to make money. IF hes not going to pull in the extra cash, then i will. Ambs lets count here for a second sunday night through friday night she is with ME. out of those nights, i will meet up with my girlfriends twice a week. So two nights a week out of six i see my friends after i put her down. Those other nights, im home. She is never with strangers. And on saturdays ya sometimes i will get drunk if its not my turn to drive, but shes with her father, should i tell stay in on saturday nights and tell him he cant have her over? we are both parents. JEez you havent stepped foot in a bar since you had your kid. my guess is you were never into them maybe? i know many mothers who get babysitters so they can go out. the only difference between me and them is i dont have to hire mine.

Posted at 7:39PM on Jan 19th 2007 by Kristine

96. ambs
Back off Kristie, My husband and I have a one year old and when he goes to bed around seven we have time for ourselves. Weather we go out with other friends and what not. Our child is safe and sound in our home. It is not a crime to go out and have some social time with others. In fact I see stories of mothers who spend every waking minute with their children and they go crazy and drown them in a bath tub or river. So back off! Plus if it was possible to relax with a baby then there would no longer be babysitters or nannies. That is just stupid words ambs, it is very hard to relax with a baby. Relax means to cease work or effort. It is hard to do if you are waiting on a child hand and foot day and night. Besides when they are asleep they sleep, they don't fuss or stay awake for you. If they get up in the middle of the night, it is usually because they have just finished a REM cycle and they will fall right back to sleep. So spare us ambs on what you think is a bad parent when it comes to britney, kristine or the rest of us like myself who find pleasure in alone time from day to day.

Posted at 11:22PM on Jan 19th 2007 by Letitia

97. very well said letitia thank you. Ambs has some sort of reading problem. i said i go out with my friends after my daugther goes to sleep and she took it as i dress all sexy for stange men and that i give blow jobs. oh how i love a**holes.

Posted at 5:20AM on Jan 20th 2007 by Kristine

98. honestly how do any of you know what goes on in britneys life day to day. Do you watch her every move? Are you with her every second? No one is let the girl be. She is only this big because you guys feel the need to comment on this and the paparazzi thinks it whats you want to see. So how about you people get some lives instead of creeping TMZ everyday waiting for what Britneys going to do next.

Posted at 2:16AM on Jan 21st 2007 by britneyfan

99. LEAVE THIS GIRL ALONE ALREADY

Posted at 12:52AM on Jan 22nd 2007 by oink pig and moo rosie

100. I thought Get A Life's comments were ridiculous... BUT LETITIA YOU ARE THE STUPIDEST HUMAN BEING ON THE PLANET! Drown your babies? So you have to go out everynight not to go insane showing your skank punane to the whole world?? Spends the day with her kids??? Well you aren't keeping up with the gossip idiot. She sleeps most of the day and the actual servants have made this report! She wakes up between 2 and 5 in the afternoon. Spends 1 to 2 hours with the children then gets dressed and goes back out! THAT'S SPENDING TIME WITH YOUR KIDS??? Hell I agree you have to go out ONCE in a while if you have little ones, but not every night of the week and F*** EVERYONE IN HOLLYWOOD..... HELL -- NO WONDER MY FATHER FEELS BAD FOR THE GRANDCHILDREN.. IDIOTS LIKE YOU WHO MAY VERY WELL RUN THE COUNTRY.... BRITNEY SPEARS IS A WHORE WHO ONLY THINKS ABOUT DICK.. DON'T GIVE TWO F***S ABOUT HER KIDS.... AND THE KIDS SHOULD BE REMOVED AND DEFINITELY NOT GIVEN TO THAT OTHER AHOLE POTHEAD K-FED THE WANNABE SUPERSTAR.

Posted at 2:59PM on Jan 22nd 2007 by R-U-INSANE

101. GZOD you stupid whore brush your hair

Posted at 8:28AM on Jan 22nd 2007 by OLiva

102. R-U Insane
Letitia made a point and a logical one at that. You are just someone who does believe everything, and you are far too stupid to understand anything that you read or hear. Think about it idiot, if her hired help said that about britney, they would be canned for sure, they are not supose to report on what goes on in the home, violation of privacy. IT is not a crime to go out, and in britney's case, when she goes out she is working. She is stirring the papz and becoming the center of attention what every star really wants. Her pictures go every where and she is paid for it. And another thing, who the hell are you to judge Britney, what, you think you are God or something? And who the hell are you to attack someone, like letitia and Get a life, they just stated a logical opinion. Social services are not going to take children away from britney because she has a roof over their head, she can provide for them, and she has the best doctors and staff looking after them. They are safe and happy. and i supose next you are going to say that she is doing drugs like some other idiots commented on. Come on that is slander and libel, lets keep the mouths shut until there is a drug test or a reason for a drug test. another thing if britney spears only thought about dick, then why is she going to gay mens clubs and hanging out with gay men. You are an idiot and the dumbest person in the world. you need to stop attacking good people just because you hate the fact that good people "MAY VERY WELL RUN THE COUNTRY."

Posted at 10:41AM on Jan 22nd 2007 by shut up

103. R U insane
You are by far the rudest person ever. Letitia made a comment that psychologists have found to be true, and by her talking about REM cycles and others things in there I can surely tell she must be a very educated person. Which i would be glad that an educated person is running the country. If you are not then you need to watch "Idiocracy" with luke wilson. I don't think britney should be attacked by what tabloids say about her. no one really knows what goes on behind closed doors, and until they do ever one should mind their own Ps and Qs. I also don't think it is a crime to go out, even if you have children. If britney were a man no one would say anything. Which causes a double standard and that is not fair. It makes it look like fathers are okay to do what they want because they are only fathers. And that is saying that if you are a father you are incompetent when it comes to children so leave them with mom. Usher, Colin F, P-Diddy, Eminem, Snoop dog and many more fathers are out every night at clubs or strip joints and no one seems to be picking on them. So that goes to show that people are just bullying britney. I also don't want to hear that it is okay for dads, but moms are responsible for the kids. THat is a bunch of crap, i don't believe in double standards and i would not like to be treated by a double standard.

Posted at 10:41AM on Jan 22nd 2007 by just for thought

104. Just for thought
I have a B.S. in criminal justice and a B.A. in languistics. I am currently working on my PhD in Psychology, i have one year and i will be done. so yes i have studied all the research when it comes to parents and children. I do not really care what R U Insane had to say about me and questioning my intelligence. I know I am the smarter person and the better one at that. I am only reading these comments for a project on human interaction in a debatable subject that questions Taboo or Moral societies that is highly talked about, my friend is working on Donald and Rosie battle. I am working on the battle between Kevin and Britney and the tabloids. With what I know and see I think people are blowing things far over what they have to be. No one really knows what Britney really does and you can't believe what everyone tells you or what you see. It is just a fact of life to try not to be so gullable. I mean many years ago the world was flat and the earth, not the sun was the center of the universe (just because Pslams 127 said so) These beliefs were made by very high up loyal servents to the King. We now know today that they are not true. So with that said the same can be said about Britney's gossip and rumors or beliefs. So I think people should leave her alone and let her be the parent. Her children are safe and taken cared for.

Posted at 12:00PM on Jan 22nd 2007 by letitia

105. Hey Shut Up... Before you start using words such as Slander and Libel open up a book and read what it means. I said nothing slanderous nor libelous, which by the way Slander is SPOKEN YOU IDIOT. Libel is something written that would hurt the person. Opinions are not Libelous .... Lawd love you wanna be legalese idiots. Makes my job so much easier. In short... You picked the perfect handle "SHUT UP!"

Posted at 6:00PM on Jan 22nd 2007 by R-U-INSANE