Bonaduce: "I Don't Want a Divorce -- This Sucks A$$"

TMZ has confirmed that Danny Bonaduce's wife has begun divorce proceedings. On the Adam Carolla Show this morning, Danny revealed that his wife Gretchen sent him a letter informing him that he will soon be served with divorce papers.

Click to hear Danny break news about his divorce
The Bonaduces, who met on a blind date, have been married since 1990. Their recent troubles and Danny's struggle with substance abuse, were broadcast on the reality show "Breaking Bonaduce." Danny confirmed to TMZ that while "Yes, this is happening," he says that it is absolutely not what he wants. "I don't want a divorce," he said. "This sucks ass."

Hollywood is splitsville: Click to launch photosAs for Danny's radio co-hosts, Carolla tells TMZ that these developments are not "over one incident."

Danny, for his part, will celebrate one year of sobriety on April 18.

A rep for the Bonaduces confirms that Gretchen has begun divorce proceedings. In a statement to TMZ, he says "Even though they still care about each other and their 2 children, Gretchen felt it wasn't a great atmosphere to raise the kids."



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46. Very, very sad.

Sure; Danny -- assuming what we saw on the show was indeed real -- was his own worst enemy. But, he seemingly tried. Hard. And, gosh, he is so bright and insightful.

Gretchen? I can't say much positive here. She likes the house, the cash, and the notoriety that comes with being part of this train wreck.

Hopefully, Danny can stay clean, and find a more functional relationship. And, can we see it happen on VH1?

Posted at 2:57PM on Apr 10th 2007 by Roy Hinkley

47. I see a reconciliation coming as soon as ratings are back up.....

Posted at 2:59PM on Apr 10th 2007 by Kat

48. Danny. Use your powers for good, not evil. If she leaves, maybe he can get the help he needs. It's easier to focus and blame her for his horrible attitude. But you can't help but love Danny. Please love yourself Bonaduche!

Posted at 3:02PM on Apr 10th 2007 by Margoshome

49. I thought that they were going to make it.....I actually like him as a person, although he has but his wife through some crazy times. Congrats on sobriety!!! I'll be 3 years clean in July so I think it's great that he has made it to his one year mark.

Posted at 3:08PM on Apr 10th 2007 by brijett

50. I won't reveal my source, but this is a publicity stunt, several people are behind this and they were hoping TMZ would be the first to bite ot get things rolling.

Posted at 3:09PM on Apr 10th 2007 by TheMan

51. Good for you Gretchen! I just hope Danny's not as crazy and manipulative as an ex-spouse as he was as a spouse. Even though he dated other women DURING their marriage, he'll probably be a total jerk if Gretchen dates or tries to have any sort of life AFTER their marriage. Sounds like a potential OJ Simpson situation. If I were her, I'd arrange to have a friend or someone over when Danny drops by to pick up the kids. Or arrange to call 911 at the press of a button. That guy is just plain damaged.

Posted at 3:14PM on Apr 10th 2007 by Lola

52. His wife is long suffering, but I believe Danny has been also.
Sometimes the chemistry created between two people is an ill brew no matter whether they love each other or not.
I hope Mr. Bonaduce moves on with positive steps, and I wish Gretchen good tidings.

Posted at 3:16PM on Apr 10th 2007 by Yup.

53. Hmm . . . Danny always seemed totally normal to me . . . for a red-headed male with freckles, who, in my 55 years on this Earth, are all seemingly hyper-active, unruly, anti-social, psychopathic weird-o's.

Posted at 3:21PM on Apr 10th 2007 by MrFishy

54. I'm sorry for his kids.

Posted at 3:22PM on Apr 10th 2007 by Terence

55. I have never watched the show but I too, am an addict and alcoholic with just over 2 years sober...and I know how devastating a divorce can be to someone in recovery. Please see his wife for what she is.....a strong courageous woman...who stuck with him for 16 years....I can only imagine the nightmare of living with someone elses addiction for that long. Unfortunately Danny has to play the cards he was dealt...he is an addict ...unless you have walked in another man's shoes who are you to pass judgement. It's funny how normal people, who have not experienced the torture of addiction, are so self righteous and judgamental. Unless you have lived with the demons of addiction you should keep your negative comments to yourself. He never meant to hurt her or his children...finally he has freedom from the bondage...and unfortunately God has other plans for him and his wife.

Posted at 3:28PM on Apr 10th 2007 by Kraen

56. 8. I guess she liked him better when he was a drunk

Posted at 12:46PM on Apr 10th 2007 by DRMcCoy

There's some truth to this statement. Sometimes, a partner gets addicted to the drama and can't relate when the drunk gets sober. Also, sometimes the drunk doesn't change so much and becomes a "dry drunk" which may be harder to cope with (can't excuse meaness by saying he was just drunk". Whatever the reasons, I wish both well and encourage Danny not to allow this to become his reason to fail in his sobriety. Life is hard enough straight and sober.

Posted at 3:32PM on Apr 10th 2007 by Alice

57. Go Gretchen! It is about time. Danny cannot seem to keep it together, so I am glad for the kids that Gretchen is finally doing something about it. Those kids don't need to grow up around that. Plus, even sober, you could see on his show that he has a volatile temper and other issues such as the steriod use. I hope that he can develop a healthy relationship with his kids, and continue to try and get help for his demons. They are definetely better off apart.

Posted at 3:33PM on Apr 10th 2007 by shannon

58. He's conned you all He is NOT sober. He is a wuss with no balls to beat the bottle. He will now blame this for him "Falling off the wagon" watch and see. He is a loser who gets whupped by booze !! Thank you 11 yrs here sober

Posted at 3:37PM on Apr 10th 2007 by W B

59. I'm sorry to see this happen. We met Danny and Gretchen at a private party in Boston when he accepted the Harvard Hasty Pudding Award. We happened upon Danny's bus and got invited into the party. I can tell you he was nothing but a great guy and Gretchen was wonderful. The party was fun and the band was great. It was at a time when they were trying very hard to rebuild their lives. I guess all I can say is things didn't go the way they planned. I have some good memories of that night and some great pictures. Thanks for the fun night Danny and Gretchen

Posted at 3:39PM on Apr 10th 2007 by Patti in Phoenix

60. FINALLY!!!

Posted at 3:41PM on Apr 10th 2007 by Speedmonkey.net

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