Lt. Andy Gets Randy, Sandy

76. does ANYONE know where she got that swimsuit from - IT IS SO CUTE!

Posted at 8:49PM on May 29th 2007 by ME!

77. There must be more pics from that photo op. Please show all of them.

Posted at 9:04PM on May 29th 2007 by blasie

78. This is the BEST pic I've seen on this website in I don't know how long.

TMZ...many fans of the Bachelor have been waiting to see pics like this. And we are happy the paps were called in. You should be too...look at how many comments have come through on this pic.

Bevin...if that is really you, you are a class act. I was rooting for you (even though I liked Tessa too) and I think this was all "meant to be" so you can find someone with more realistic expectations.
I truly believe Andy loved you. I've seen every episode of the Bachelor and never saw a Bachelor have such a tough time letting #2 go.

I'm a Bay Area researcher too and appreciate your working toward a better society.

Take care and best of luck!!!!!
-Heather

Posted at 12:48AM on Jun 6th 2007 by Heather

79. What a wonderful air of freshness these two bring. I can't get enough of them...that are like a Disney fairytale! I wish them both much happiness and a lifetime of love.

Posted at 11:07PM on May 29th 2007 by Tiredteacher

80. I was rooting for Tessa since the 1st show. She seemed very down-to-earth and sincere. I think it would be natural for anyone to hesitate to totally open up their heart to someone in such a short time, especially on national tv. I also think it was unrealistic for some of those girls to be professing their love for Andy so quickly and apparently not having spent much time with them. I must say however, that Bevin's posting (#42) on here definitely shows that she is not the sore loser some of you are claiming. She was very gracious at the reunion show and continues in that manner. I do have to admit that I was a bit surprised by this when I recall the interaction that she had with Amber when they discussed their age differences; it was as if she was suggesting that Amber just leave so there would be less competition for Bevin. But what a nice surprise to see a different Bevin than what I initially thought. Bevin: I wish you much luck in finding "the love of your life." And to Andy and Tessa, I wish you many years of a marriage filled with love, laughter and luck! And to all of you pessimists out there, you're entitled to your opinions but I think the name-calling and nasty criticisms you are posting are hurtful and totally uncalled for.

Posted at 10:13PM on May 29th 2007 by BC

81. I totally love these two lovebirds and wish them much happiness! Tessa is gorgeous, sweet, fun, and down to earth. She's the real deal and Andy is lucky to have her heart. Hang onto it tight!

Posted at 6:29PM on Jun 3rd 2007 by katy

82. Comment #77 needs to be removed. Someone is really immature!

Posted at 12:37AM on May 31st 2007 by Tiredteacher

83. 69 - You are right. I appreciate all the supportive comments I have received, but I am disgusted by all of the negative comments Tessa is getting from some people. What most people do not realize is that Tessa and I spent a lot of time together doing the show, and we became friends, and she is very kind-hearted and a genuinely nice person. Yes, I thought Andy would choose me, particularly after he told me he loved me, and I think we could have been very happy together. A relationship takes 2 people, though, and in the end chose Tessa, the right choice for him. She is a great person, and she will make Andy a wonderful wife, and I am so happy for them. Some day soon I will find the man of my dreams. Everything happens for a reason. The show opened my eyes to a lot of things, about myself, about what I want out of life, and about the type of person I want to spend my life with. It's only a matter of time before I find my prince charming.

Although, the world had not seen the end of the show until a few weeks ago, for me it has been over for a while. Whenever you love and lose that love you have to expect it to hurt - it's how you know it really was love. I stil hurt, but I am also healing with time, and I am truly happy for Andy and Tessa. They are both wonderful people, and I am so glad that I met both of them. I have no ill feelings toward either one, quite the opposite. They are very happy together, and I am happy for them.

(P.S. Beware of fake Bevins. I would never speak ill of Andy or of Tessa - but I'm sure you've already figured that out.)

Posted at 11:37PM on May 29th 2007 by Bevin

84. Overheard two people at the gym talking about being "Bevin-ed" i.e. boyfriend told her loved her only to take off with someone else a few days later. Bevin should pursue a career as radio talk show host. She sounds like she has it in perspective.

By the way, the PR folks need to tell Tessa this is not a flattering pose and hurts her "classy" (?) image.

Posted at 11:54PM on May 29th 2007 by anon

85. Bevin,
you seem to have really grown from this experience. You will definitely find your special love one day. Hopefully you will be the shows next Bachlorette. You have a lot of support . I wish both Tessa and Andy all the luck in the world, they really do make a wonderful couple.

Posted at 12:04AM on May 30th 2007 by just my opinion

86. I dont think the bachelor is worth watching..,its more degrading than porn...at least the women in porn know what they are in for..this basically involves a man whoring himself out to how many women and finally choosing one..now why on earth will any girl in her true mind want somenone who has been feeling soo many girls in a couple of months or so..and if the statement about him professing his love to one woman and then choosing another..I feel sorry for whoever was chosen and good luck to the lady who was led one...this headed to doomsville like all tv couples..and yes ppl do have their publicist call the paps on thier wheareabouts..its about making money..if if you have to go a bloody show to look for awoman, thre isnt anything genuine about you ..something tells me you are looking for fame and its not going to be over yet..they still have the egos that make them want be tv stars..sorry but I find this kind of whoring sickening..hope they dissapear into the crater to middle earth!!

Posted at 12:06AM on May 30th 2007 by Miapocca

87. #54 I sincerely feel sorry for your reality..ar ewomen still dreaing of changin thier whole names to some manb;s name and are people getting married to men because htey make good trophy wives...lord help them all if this is the case..what sheer stupiudity...guess feminists worked hard no reason than to have the diasies of this world spout sheer nonsense...just takes woment back 100yrs...get own life and your won job, that way when you get divorced you arent some bitter sucked up shrew chasing after an ex husband with venom and denying him his kids..pathetic....you give women a bad name...

Posted at 12:16AM on May 30th 2007 by Miapocca

88. 81. anon.

You said - "By the way, the PR folks need to tell Tessa this is not a flattering pose and hurts her "classy"(?) image".

There are a fewer number of people who will ever see this sweet and fun photo of Tessa "straddling" her FIANCE on the beach (TMZ) than the millions who saw Bevin do it on live television!

Many of Tessa's supporters have been able to see two sides and express compassion for Bevin and, yet, most of you who supported Bevin are absolutely spoiled losers with the appearance of (unresolved) relationship break-ups; therefore, the reason you were attracted to her, i.e. you unconsciously see a shadow or wounded part of yourself in her loss instead of understanding that Andy Baldwin was not meant for her. Astrologically, they are compatible as friends and nothing more!

When Bevin meets her more authentic soul mate or "Mr. Right", she will understand that Andy Baldwin did her a favor by not remaining under the fog of Neptune and instead continued to demonstrated his longstanding principles while selecting the more appropriate woman for exploring a lifetime commitment.

It's very challenging for a Sun Scorpio to "let go" of their obsessions and hurts regarding relationships and miss out on golden opportunities because they are unwilling to release the old. A psychologist would probably say they are not ready for a fully committed partnership and use a smoke screen of having been hurt as a way to avoid the commitment they say they want to have in life. The fact that Bevin (should this be the real Bevin) would even consider posting on this common site indicates to me that she is not ready for a relationship with a man equal to Andy Baldwin and does not have enough interests in life to bring to the partnership table; however, I do feel the "Bevin" on here to be an imposter.

Posted at 12:34AM on May 30th 2007 by Sunshine.

89. I don't recall seeing Bevin straddle Andy like this on television - though I did not see every second of every Bachelor. Curious - Bevin's postings seem very sincere to me. What makes you think she is not the real thing - besides that fact that this is a "common" forum? And, are your observations based on astrology alone, Sunshine?

Posted at 12:46AM on May 30th 2007 by Sheri

90. Come on Sunshine...

There is nothing wrong with what the real Bevin is stating. I find her rather refreshing. And you are completely off base with your comments. They are not factual but misrepresented.

Posted at 1:28AM on May 30th 2007 by PrettyIrishWoman