Good Will (Gay) Hunting

Matt DamonIn the latest issue of GQ, Matt Damon talks about how, when they were younger, he and Ben Affleck wanted to buy the exact same car. But each tried to talk the other out of it, "Because we knew it would just be so gay to get the same car." Maybe not the best choice of words, either.

TMZ had qualms with the usage of "gay" -- since it's not exactly politically correct to use the word "gay" to mean "bad" or "negative." But then, after thinking about it -- for two best friends who wrote and starred in the same movie, won an Oscar together and have generally been linked together for their entire careers -- buying the exact same car really is sooooo gay!

What do you think?



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61. He's from Boston. The way he is meaning the word gay is pretty much slang around the Boston area. Gay means like goofy, queer, embarrassing. He doesn't mean it all in the way of two gay men's relationship. The word really means a totally different thing in this context, but you wouldn't pick up on that unless you were from here.

Posted at 4:09PM on Jul 20th 2007 by K

62. Oh, give me a break, TMZ! There's a whole generation of adults out there who grew up calling each other "gay" without intending any slight to homosexuals. To try and paint your site as so politically correct while you continue to post adulations about racist, anti-Semite Paris "N-Word" Hilton makes TMZ look pretty stupid.

Posted at 4:22PM on Jul 20th 2007 by bettina

63. "Oh, give me a break, TMZ! There's a whole generation of adults out there who grew up calling each other "gay" without intending any slight to homosexuals. To try and paint your site as so politically correct while you continue to post adulations about racist, anti-Semite Paris "N-Word" Hilton makes TMZ look pretty stupid."


That's Hot.

Posted at 4:54PM on Jul 20th 2007 by ClassyMissFancy

64. "Just Me" - You must be a straight white male.

Posted at 4:58PM on Jul 20th 2007 by LuvTMZ

65. HELLO!!! He didn't want everybody to think they were gay by having the same car because they WERE doing each other...Maybe they're married now but that doesn't mean they weren't 'hunting buddies' then. I'm a gay man and always thought they were a bit closer than close.

Posted at 6:02PM on Jul 20th 2007 by FurryMuscleBear

66. LuvTMZ

You must be a gay multiracial hermaphrodite.

Posted at 6:15PM on Jul 20th 2007 by ClassyMissFancy

67. IS THERE NO ONE WITH ABRAIN WHO HAS REALIZED THAT THE WORD "GAY" MEANS "HAPPY"?????

THE WORD WAS HIJACKED SO AS TO AVOID THE LESS FLATTERING WORD - HOMOSEXUAL.

CALL A HOMOESEXUAL A HOMOSEXUAL.

GAY USED TO BE A VERY PRETTY NAME FOR A GIRL!!!!!

TO SAY, "IT'S SO GAY", IS NOT AN ATTACK ON HOMOSEXUALS, BUT RATHER A CURRENT DAY MORPHING OF A WORD/PHRASE ALREADY MORPHED ONCE!!

GET OVER IT!!!!

Posted at 6:54PM on Jul 20th 2007 by sharon

68. SO WHEN MR. ISIAH WASHINGTON SAID IT IT WAS SOOOOOOOOOOO WRONG BUT NOW THAT THE ALL-AMERICAN HAS SAID IT....HUH IT'S NO BIG DEAL....YOU ARE ALL HYPOCRITES....DIG A HOLE AND BURY YOURSELVES!!!!

Posted at 11:00PM on Jul 20th 2007 by Wow!!!

69. It's not spelled "gay". It's spelled "ghey", just another piece of internet lingo the old people just don't understand yet. Of course if it's refered to...well....um....errrr....gayness then it's just gay hehehe. Adadpted from large MOMPRPG gaming community.

Posted at 9:12AM on Jul 21st 2007 by Nikk

70. In this case, I don't think he meant "bad" or "negative"; I think he meant "gay" -- as in, "Oooh, look how cute we are with the same car."

Posted at 2:51AM on Jul 21st 2007 by Neil

71. #69. You are an idiot. If you truly think the two situations are even REMOTELY similar, than I pray you never breed!

Posted at 2:19AM on Jul 21st 2007 by MGS

72. Who cares if some deviant gets offended!

Posted at 4:49AM on Jul 21st 2007 by Ed

73. You don't hear people saying "That is so straight," so of course it has a negative connotation...one that bullies use to justify beating up gay kids in school. Face it...America preaches hatred toward gay people. It is part of our culture.

Posted at 5:32PM on Jul 21st 2007 by Chris

74. I HAVE HEARD A LOT OF PEOPLE SAY "IT IS SO GAY OR THAT'S SO GAY" AND WHEN
ISAIAH WASHINTON SAYS IT HE HAS TO JUMP THROUGH HOOPS TO SAY HE IS
SORRY AND STILL GETS FIRED? IS AL SHARPTON GOING TO COME SWINGING AT
MATT DAMON?

I THINK IT IS JUST A WORD THAT HAS BEEN OUT THERE FOR A LONG TIME AND PEOPLE JUST USE IT SO LIGHTLY, IT IS NOT INTENTED TO INSULT THE GAY PEOPLE. JUST LIKE THE N WORD BEING STRICTLY FOR BLACK PEOPLE TO CALL
EACH OTHER IS OK, THE VERY FUNNY SHERRI SHERPHARD SAID ON "THE
VIEW" BUT WHEN LITTLE KIDS HEAR IT THEY WILL THINK IT IS OK AND SAY IT AT
ANY AGE AND THAN AL SHARPTON WILL BE ON EVERY NEWS TRYING TO STIR
UP TROUBLE AND MAKE IT WORST.

I AGREE WITH OPRAH WINFREY, NOBODY SHOULD SAY THAT WORD TO EACH OTHER OR TO ANYONE ELSE. THIS INSANITY SHOULD STOP, WE ARE ALL HUMAN BEINGS AND IF THE BLACK PEOPLE START BURRYING THAT WORD THEMSELVES
IT WILL BE A BIG HELP FOR THE FUTURE GENERATION. EVERY PARENT SHOULD TELL THEIR CHILDREN THAT IT IS A INSULTING AND VERY DEMEANING WORD.

Posted at 10:45PM on Jul 21st 2007 by DISGUSTED007

75. I've been having a very lively debate about this very subject on my blog, jestertunes.com.

The fact of the matter is, generally, the use of the word "gay" as a synonym for "lame" or "stupid" is offensive. It's a subversive tactic by homophobes to further denegrate and oppress homosexuals.

I think in this particular context, Matt Damon is not trying to say that buying matching cars would be "lame." He's saying that buying matching cars would further offer evidence that he and Ben were more than just friends.

Posted at 2:55AM on Jul 22nd 2007 by jestertunes

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