Fire Dept. Called to Donda West's Home

166. Let the West famiy mourn in peace, this is so sad, the comments some people have choosen to say. We will always miss you
Mrs West.----------------------------------------------------------P.S. All of Detroiters love you so much.

Posted at 10:34PM on Nov 14th 2007 by linda williams

167. HEY KANYE. I JUST WON'T TO SAY MY PRAYERS GO OUT TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. I KNOW YOU GOING THROUGH IT. BUT KEEP YOU HEAD HIGH. AND NO THAT YO MOTHER IS A ANGEL NOW WATCHING OVER YOU. STAY STRONG BABY. KEEP YO HEAD UP. REST IN PEACE DR. DONDA WEST.

Posted at 6:23PM on Nov 14th 2007 by TT

168. She seeked the advice of a Professional surgeon "prior" to the doctor that performed the surgery, so she knew full well what she was setting her self up for. I guess only the Lord knows why she went on ahead & did those 2 surgical procedures, without taking on the helpful advice of the first doctor she spoke to. Why she wanted to go home following the surgery rather than staying in RECOVERY the suggested 48 hours is beyond me as well (given her age). I guess some questions are meant never to be answered.
She went home waaaay to soon after the surgery. There was too many risks against her for her to go home after the surgery.

Very sad & scary. My heart goes out to Kanye West & the family. As far as a "Law Suit"...Kanye can join the list of folks that already sued this Doctor (Jan Adams). It is surprising that Kanye himself wouldn't take more time in finding a qualified surgeon with a good background history of patients to perform this surgery on his mother. I know it all boils down to his mother being grown & doing what she felt would make her happy, but as her child I would have (personally) advised my mom against the surgery insisting she didn't need to go under the knife, no matter if she could afford it or not. Her age alone put her at higher risk for complications, as well possible pre-existing medical conditions. I would have sat her down & (in tears--if it came to that) I would have tried my best to talk her out of it. You only get one mother in this life time.

Posted at 8:57PM on Nov 14th 2007 by Tianna

169. I don't think we should be so harsh with our comments.I often think back about dumb mistakes that I've made, and can't believe I made them! In Dr. West's case her mistake was fatal. People are saying that she was stupid. You never know what you'd do if you had the money.
I pray that her soul will eventually be at peace, and isn't affected by all of the negative comments. We all have to go, and don't know how we're going. I believe that life deals us a hand, so to speak, and we don't go anywhere until our time is up.
Also, I hope Kanya does what his mother would want him to do, and that's continue his career in her memory.
I feel that the doctor who performed the surgery is indeed "money hungry." He probably feared if he didn't do both procedures then, he wouldn't get the money he wanted. Once he found out that Dr. West was Kanya's mother, he knew money wasn't a problem!
The doctor that requested medical clearence, is a professional and had Dr. West's best interest at heart!!! I wouldn't doubt that he is an excellent surgeon! He has a heart!!

Posted at 10:41PM on Nov 15th 2007 by Marie King

170. Whatever our personal views on plastic surgery...I dont think God said anything against it. IF he did (praise the lord) please tell me where I can find the scripture. Instead of passing judgement try praying for Kanye, if you know how to do that... God is love, I wish some of you so called christians would remember that.

My prayers are with you Mr. West.

Posted at 2:02PM on Nov 16th 2007 by PStevens597

171. Thank you Kanye for sharing your mom and allowing the public 2 see how a young Black man can truly LOVE his Mom and how she can be committed 2 Loving him back. Your relationship with your mom epitomizes unconditional Love. Because of what we witnessed in your close relationship we feel your anguish and pain. Many of us felt your universe collapse when we heard the news and felt the some sort of impact. She will always B with you and in Our hearts. take care.

Posted at 5:32PM on Nov 17th 2007 by pennylo

172. I feel very badly for the family but since the doctor isn't white and Kanye can't b*&%^ about racism, who will he blame, President Bush?

Posted at 5:03PM on Nov 16th 2007 by Katel

173. Some of the statements on here are absolutely unbelievable. Even though the window is open for everyones opinion,if those well when scrolling through myself & reading them. And on that note will definitely just say u know who u are... Well as you were typing, even if u hesitated between letters for just the slightest sec. That second would say more & come across further than the harshness you had just finished, looked at, & probably even reread a few more times before actually sending.Opinion is opinion of course.
And sure many may look at mine & be so far off from agreeing or relating, that who knows maybe even a few choice words come to mind.
But its the moments there are to follow that the next person there is or even the many that may come along. Just might be able to possibly relate or even feel completely the same. Being able to voice ones opinion & views is an amazing opportunity. * This Directed To Those**
Its taking the extra bit of time in the midst of your opinion to really look at that the situation, & even more so truly think about it. Naturally not wanting to but still having the ability to remind yourself that so many things in life may & as well are going to happen, because sadly life often really doesnt bring notice. But its
having the respect yourself that you know you would want given, that truly is what hits home. Whether (will add) sadly the opin's above that were carelessly put, or even more so those kind & true. In the way the same yet still so different deep down both have something so in common. And that is each & everyone of us have a special place in our heart for loved ones, close, and especially those so so dear.

Look at how you chose to use the opportunity to be heard from that perspective ......
When written had youd thought about it as if the shoe on the other foot?
And right before sending ask the writer one simple question?
Now thats its there right in front of you how do you feel about your own opinion???

Take the time to reread the situation, feel grief through your heart.
You see to send a message takes but only a second.
Its whats in it that may hit so much closer to home.


K. West, Family & Friends.
My uttermost thoughts & hearfelt prayers are sent your way.
May her spirit aid in your healing & the moments shared ease the pain in your heart.
Treasure the Moments....
Sincerely,
Nblue

Posted at 5:24AM on Nov 20th 2007 by Nblue

174. The outcome was unfortunate and regrettable, however, nothing is
denied the truly wealthy, nobody can tell them "No". No matter how
bad an idea it may be. Any surgery, elective or not is always a gamble
with life or death, so the moral of this story is, don't fix what isn't
broken, and don't take unnecessary risks.

Posted at 11:27PM on Nov 21st 2007 by Electric_Cowboy

175. Quote "103. How can ANY person that is African American in THIS country be a racist????? We do have VOICES however. Although most wish that we were not allowed to use them, much less obtain higher degrees, as Dr. West did!!!!!!!!!!!!!!" unquote.

It's both sad and pathetic that you would try to use a random tragedy such as
the Donda West incident to justify a lynch mob, I can think of no greater
disrespect for the deceased than to play the race card as a sinceless attempt
to capitalize or profit off this misfortune, when race or religion clearly has no
bearing on it at all. As for reverse racism goes, I see African American
bigotry towards Asians, Hispanics, and American Indians almost on a daily basis, so what you meant to say was that you feel you have been wronged
enough to justify wronging others, isn't that right 103 ?

Posted at 11:26PM on Nov 21st 2007 by Electric_Cowboy