Jeff Gordon: Champ On the Track & In the Sack

16. To: It's Not Fair.

As a woman, I want to stick up for your wife - but - my husband and I have been married for 21 years. He's the same weight from when he played college football - 6'1", 180. I'm still a size 6, 120 lbs.

Perhaps you could work out a diet / exercise plan together. Good luck!

Angel

Posted at 9:33PM on Jun 18th 2008 by Angie

17. Gordon's having a tough race year this year... perhaps a little less nookie and a little more concentration on the track would be a good thing.

Posted at 9:47PM on Jun 18th 2008 by Race Fan With Only a 6 Figure Income

18. Angie - I appreciate your comments. Women should stick up for each other, more than look at thin women as the enemy. But as far as my wife, it's hopeless. Bringing that up turns to big arguments about body image, not loving her for who she is, etc. You know, maybe if start donating my money, take away the lifestyle that she enjoys, maybe I'll see if she loves me for me, too. Seriously considering, given that many families need a break.

Posted at 10:09PM on Jun 18th 2008 by It's not Fair!

19. to it's not fair don't mean to butt in but I had the same, problem overweight and not happy. What my husband and daughter did was to say hey let's go for a walk so we can talk. Just getting out of the house and walking and talking together took the pain out of the walk and gave us a chance to get closer. I have started losing but the thing that had me not getting defensive was the fact that they cared and weren't shoving it down my throat. Now that we started it is easier and we have fun even stared going to the nature trails. As someone that is overweight there is alot of physical pain that makes it hard to start as well as depression. It is a pretty vicious cycle you are depressed and eat then eat because you are depressed. I understand loving someone for who they are but it's pretty hard to love and respect someone that is slowly killing themselves.

Posted at 10:29PM on Jun 18th 2008 by tinkey

20. Jeff Gordon is gay. He has been gay for years. He lives with a Man in New York in the off-season. His wife and him are rarely seen together outside of photo ops.

Posted at 10:57PM on Jun 18th 2008 by streamOG

21. Well yeah he's bangin her...thery're kinda married and he's kinda loaded!

Posted at 11:45PM on Jun 18th 2008 by Emily

22. It's not Fair!
You're complaining about your wife’s appearance but I'm sure she has complaints too. Instead of focusing on her size try focusing on the bigger picture of what is really going on.

Posted at 2:09AM on Jun 19th 2008 by Devyn

23. Maybe that's why he's driving like crap. Quit doin it and start driving!!! LOL Oh ya wait a minute..I'm a Dale Jr. Fan...So do it jeff do it allll night long.....

Posted at 10:27AM on Jun 19th 2008 by kate

24. Jeff Gordon must be lonley without his Nascar bud lover, Robby Gordon!

Posted at 4:57AM on Jun 19th 2008 by k.c.

25. I am gay. I have been gay for years. I live with a Man in New York. My wife and I are rarely seen together outside.

Posted at 6:24AM on Jun 19th 2008 by streamOG

26. Jeff Gordon is from Vallejo, California. (Sh!t Town)

He used to race around on its city streets & freeways along Vallejo before going professional & moving the hell out.

Posted at 8:29AM on Jun 19th 2008 by CALIFORNIA_BRED

27. It makes me laugh when people call Jeff Gordon gay. I have come to realize these people are the ones who are TRULY in love with him and are JEALOUS. Come out of the closet and admit it! Whatever!

Posted at 9:22AM on Jun 19th 2008 by Angela

28. better than his last wife she was an uppity bitch

Posted at 9:45AM on Jun 19th 2008 by freight train

29. To: It's not fair, I hope you come back and read this. I have to agree with you totally. It's not fair that you married a size 6 that is now a size 20. But I have to ask what is the root of the weight problem? Did she have children and didn't get rid of the baby weight? Is she depressed? You said your wife said people who are thin are superficial. That is not a fair or a true statement. It sounds to me like she has some emotional issues that need to be addressed. I would encourage you both to seek out professional help by someone who is fair to both sexes (because I know there are counselors who tend to side with the woman out there). Someone who can help you both express your feelings in a non judgemental way.

I wish you both luck and success for a long happy and fulfilling mariage.

Posted at 10:00AM on Jun 19th 2008 by Size 18 and happy....he married me this way!!!!!!

30. P.S. If Jeff Gordon is gay #1 that' between him and his wife. #2 he's doing something right because from the looks of things SHE'S not complaining. And finally so what he has his cake and eats it too!

Posted at 10:03AM on Jun 19th 2008 by Size 18 and happy....he married me this way!!!!!!