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Sienna -- Going Down

9/10/2008 3:27 PM PDT BY TMZ STAFF

Balthazar Getty is married with four kids. His girlfriend, Sienna Miller, is a single woman. So why is she being vilified?

A swarm of pappers cornered Sienna yesterday as she waited for an elevator in Bev Hills, badgering her as she hid up against the elevator doors like a frightened animal.

So we ask...Is dating a married guy worse than cheating on your wife?

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76.

carmen2    

SM is EQUALLY responsible for the affair and RG/her kids for the following reasons:

5) TELLING LIES: Her "friends" and family spread lies about RG and her marriage to BG by saying things like "they were separated, the marriage was over, when a man leave his wife, or RG is releasing an tell-all book". They beg people to have sympathy for SM, while not even acknowledging that 5 people were hurt because of SM actions. They complain that SM had to leave her own country, well RG and her kids had to leave their own home and country because of the humilation caused by BG and SM selfishness. Her pain because of this "ordeal" does not compare to that of RG/her kids, SM family lose all credibility because they enable her by spreading these lies and then by sitting on boats or looking the other way while SM plays the other woman/mistress.

6) ALWAYS THE VICTIM: When JL cheated on her she played the victim ,and now that she is the other woman/mistress she is playing the victim. Everyone knows that sleeping with married men and flaunting it can be hazardous to your health, which is why women AVOID them. As the saying goes, "If you can't stand the heat then get out of the kitchen." If she wants sympathy, then stop sleeping with the married man & flaunting it and then having the audacity to "whine" as if she is the one that has been injured by this "ordeal" .

7) COURTS ATTENTION: She complains about the papz but is so desparate for attention that she just won't lay low. Since she manages to not be seen for days or weeks, I do not believe that she can't avoid the papz because they are "stalking" her all the time. She can disappear when she doesn't want to be seen, but when she wants to "court attention" she bombards the public with her pathetic photo-ops and ridiculous PR stories. If she doesn't want her picture taken, then she should stop informing the papz of her location and don't go to places where she knows the papz will be heavily camped(ie-LAX, TT, GC).

8) REDEFINING AFFAIR: SM, her family, and PR team keep trying to "sugarcoat" the affair and turn it into a "budding romance". BG is no longer the married father of 4, but SM beau or boyfriend. SM and BG are no longer having an affair, but are "dating" or having a "romance". SHE WAS AND IS HAVING AN AFFAIR WITH A MARRIED MAN and trying to "sugarcoat" it won't make people accept their affair.

9) HYPOCRITICAL: She preaches about showing respect, while she is STILL SLEEPING WITH ANOTHER WOMAN'S HUSBAND and flaunting it. She wants people to shows compassion/sympathy toward her, when she has not shown an ounce of sympathy and compassion towards RG and her kids. It seems that she wants to have the affair and flaunt it without being held accountable for her actions and/or being reminded that RG/her kids still exist. She should for once in her life act like an adult and apologize to RG/her kids for her antics with the NOT YET DIVORCED/LEGALLY SEPARATED MARRIED MAN.

2044 days ago
77.

carmen2    

SM is EQUALLY responsible for the affair and RG/her kids for the following reasons:

10)INSECURE: She trying to "force feed' us that she and the married man are "happy and in love" . Instead of laying low, she goes out in public wearing gifts that she purchased for the married man and dressing like him to make it appear that they are "one" and have an "endearing" relationship based on more than just sex. He treats her like a "friend with benefits" or as one blogger noted a "booty-call", and none of her PDA photo-ops and "PDA" PR stories will change this or make people believe that BG is "in love" with SM.

11) AFFAIR: BG is STILL MARRIED and has still has not filed for a divorce or legal separation. She shoud give him more than just a couple of weeks to get things settled. Or is she afraid that the married man will dump her if she leaves his side for more than just three weeks. BG is STILL MARRIED, so why is she still sleeping with him? I forgot, she feels important because she is sleeping with an "heir" of an oil fortune and she is proud of the fact that she had to compete with a married mother of 4 for a man. A man who she had to get drunk just to make him show some interest in her.

12) ABSOLVE HER OF AFFAIR: SM and her defenders keep trying to diminsh/minimize her role in the affair and want to give her a free pass just because she is a woman. They keep telling us "not to judge SM because we don't know the whole truth or that we don't understand". Well what I do know/understand is that 5 people were hurt by BG and SM carelessnes and selfishness. There is nothing that can justify voluntarily sleeping with a married man or another woman's HUSBAND, NOTHING. She didn't make a mistake, she purposely went after a man that was attached to another woman because she thought that she had something to gain from the relationship(ie-BG inheritance).

13) DOUBLE STANDARDS: They keep claiming that SM is a victim of "double standards" or is receiving more criticism than BG. No, she knew full well that BG was a MARRIED MAN and still decided to sleep with him knowing that 5 people were going to be hurt in the process, so she is not being "unfairly judged". Just because people won't turn a blind eye to her actions and are calling her out does not mean that a double standard exists. The only double standard is giving SM a free pass, while thinking that BG deserves the full blame. The only double standard is implying that the mistress is suffering more than the MARRIED MAN's wife and kids. The only double standard is showing teen girls that they can have affairs with married men and do not have to face the consequences of their actions because they can justify them by claiming to be "victims of double standards". NO ONE, except for SM and her family, has come to BG defense. We all agree that he is a *****************. NO ONE , excpet for SM and her family, has ever tried to absove BG of his wrong doing.
It doesn't look good for SM, when her own family claims that SM is receiving more criticism then BG and then turn around and absolve the married man for sleeping with their daughter while still married to his wife.

14) EXCUSES: People keep making excuses for SM behavior by saying disgusting things like "she wasn't the one that took the vows, she is single/beautiful so she can do anything she wants, she is naive and being manipulated by BG, or she didn't commit adultery because she isn't married". These things do not absolve SM of any wrong doing. What message are we sending teens? You are saying that as long as they are "pretty and single" that they can destory families and hurt people who have done no harm to them? Is that the message we want to send to teen girls, that they can have affairs with married men with kids and do not have to face the consequences of their actions; and that anyone that doesn't condone their behavior is the one with the problem? I certainly hope not. SM DIDN'T SAY NO, so that makes her EQUALLY responsible and just as guilty.

15) DEPICTING RG AS A VILLAIN: SM is sleeping with another woman's
HUSBAND and all she has done is complain and act as if she is the one
that is suffering. Those that defend SM treat RG as if she is the
villian and has done something wrong because she won't "disappear".
RG does not owe SM any favors and does not deserve to be treated like
a villian, especillay since she is not the one that is sleeping with
another woman's HUSBAND. As long as SM, her family, and "friends"
continue these attacks against RG, SM will never gain any sympathy.
It's disgusting when SM defenders try to justify SM actions by
blaming RG for "not doing her duty" or "making BG happy".



2044 days ago
78.

carmen2    

SM is EQUALLY responsible for the affair and RG/her kids for the following reasons:

1) LACK OF SELF-CONTROL: It's not like she was out walking her dog, tripped, fell, and accidently landed into BG bed. She slept with BG knowing full well that he was STILL MARRIED AND LIVING WITH HIS WIFE AND 4 KIDS. Since SM didn't say "no" , "go home to your wife, or "wait until your divorce" , she is EQUALLY responsible for the affair and RG/her kids pain. BG was a married man, so her only option was to WALK AWAY when he made advances towards her. Plus, this is not the first time that SM has crossed boundaries with a man that was attached to another woman. She crosses these boundaries with these men and then trys to justify it by saying that she is a "free-spirit" or the media misinterpreted her "greetings" to these men.

2) VINDICTIVE: Since BG wouldn't leave/divorce his wife, SM decided to flaunt the affair to make RG leave/divorce BG. SM leaked those "embarassing" photos to expose her affair with the married man without caring about how it would hurt RG/her kids. When she saw that people were not impressed by those "embarassing" photos she pulled the "I'm suing because it's an invasion of my privacy" act and started the "but they were separated" rumors. BTW, I wonder how that lawsuit against those papz is coming along?

2044 days ago
79.

carmen2    

SM is EQUALLY responsible for the affair and RG/her kids for the following reasons:

4) LACK OF COMPASSION: Keeps reminding people that she is STILL SLEEPING WITH THE MARRIED MAN by releasing those PR stories and staging photo-ops with the NOT YET DIVORCED/LEGALLY SEPARATED MARRIED MAN. It was not necessary for her step-mother to annouce that she is leaving UK and moving to LA so that she can "live her life", but SM just had to show everyone that she "won the oil heir". It was not necessary her to leak those "embarassing" photos and show off the bruises she received from sleeping with the married man, but she just had to show everyone that she "won the oil heir". Look where her need to be in competition with a married mother of 4 has led her.

2044 days ago
80.

mmmmm    

Yeah, she hates the paps. especially when they don't show up on time

http://sienna-miller-news.newslib.com/story/5138-3214946/

Sienna had to leave and enter LAX airport twice before she was recognized and "harassed"

Anyone who shows this narcissitic brat an ounce of sympathy is being conned.

Hey Sienna, go crawl in a hole. They won't find you there.

2044 days ago
81.

oprah    

she my as well go to an Arab country so they can stoned her to death, it would be less humiliating

2044 days ago
82.

peace    

Yup, I agree #77, I think she loves the attention.
I feel bad for the kids, they are the ones who suffer the most because of the idiotic choices that 'adults' make.

2044 days ago
83.

Steven Koch    

First off Leave Sienna Miller alone.. You guys make me sick for what you guys are doing to her.. First off its not her fault the guy was seperated from his wife so she didnt do anything wrong.. I know Sienna Miller and I think its real sad how you guys treat her and I hope Sienna sues you guys who stalking her... THats what this is... Leave Sienna alone.. I had the plesure of meeting her on the rise of cobra set and she is really a sweet person and she dosnt deserve this at all.. Its cause of people like TMZ that fuel the paps to harras her and I think you guys need to get a life..

2044 days ago
84.

mmmmm    

#80-did she sleep with your husband or with you?

First off, you only get to use "first off" once.

I think the WIFE of the MARRIED MAN she is screwing might object with that whole "real sweet" thing, as might his children

Maybe you just didn't have anything she wanted to take from you. Others have not been so fortunate.

She is a bad person. Get over it.

2044 days ago
85.

kls    

NOBODY KNOWS WHAT KIND OF A RELATIONSHIP HE AND HIS WIFE HAD OR STILL HAVE AND NO ONE HAS THE RIGHT TO JUDGE ANOTHER PERSON BASED ON SO FEW FACTS. FOR ALL ANYONE KNOWS, THEY HAVE AN OPEN RELATIONSHIP, OR AS ANOTHER STATED WERENT EVEN LIVING TOGETHER AT THE TIME....EVERYONE INVOLVED COULD BE COMPLETELY IN AGREEMENT TO WHATEVER IT IS THAT IS HAPPENING OR NOT AND UNFORTUNATELY ARE CRUCIFIED BY NOSY PEOPLE AND THE PAPARAZZI AND JUDGED BY STRANGERS. ABSOLUTELY RIDICULOUS!

2044 days ago
86.

carmen2    

#80

Since you know SM so well, could you be ever so kind and tell her to leave us, the public , alone? Seriously, no one is buying this "I don't want to be seen" act. I find hard to believe that she doesn't want to be seen when she wen through all the trouble of having her step-mother announce that she was leaving UK and moving to LA and leaked those stories about house hunting with the married man for a mansion. While you are at it, can you also tell SM and her family to leave RG/her kids alone because they are trying to live their lives? We get the point-she is excited about sleeping with the "heir" of an oil fortune, but is it really necessary for her to keep draging RG/her kids into this mess? Instead of trying to scold us for not showing SM some sympathy, you should first try to show some sympathy for RG/her kids.


14) EXCUSES: People keep making excuses for SM behavior by saying disgusting things like "she wasn't the one that took the vows, she is single/beautiful so she can do anything she wants, she is naive and being manipulated by BG, or she didn't commit adultery because she isn't married". These things do not absolve SM of any wrong doing. What message are we sending teens? You are saying that as long as they are "pretty and single" that they can destory families and hurt people who have done no harm to them? Is that the message we want to send to teen girls, that they can have affairs with married men with kids and do not have to face the consequences of their actions; and that anyone that doesn't condone their behavior is the one with the problem? I certainly hope not. SM DIDN'T SAY NO, so that makes her EQUALLY responsible and just as guilty.

15) DEPICTING RG AS A VILLAIN: SM is sleeping with another woman'sHUSBAND and all she has done is complain and act as if she is the onethat is suffering. Those that defend SM treat RG as if she is the
villian and has done something wrong because she won't "disappear". RG does not owe SM any favors and does not deserve to be treated likea villian, especillay since she is not the one that is sleeping withanother woman's HUSBAND. As long as SM, her family, and "friends"continue these attacks against RG, SM will never gain any sympathy.
It's disgusting when SM defenders say things like RG "was not doing her duty" or "not making BG happy".

2044 days ago
87.

Jaclyn    

Balthazar is not the kind of guy to woo over. He's not good looking.

Sienna is nothing special. Just plain and average.

Both can be flushed down the toilet.

2044 days ago
88.

sunseeker    

TO STEVEN KOCH you say he was separated, how do you know. i only know that mr and mrs getty attended the LA ANTIQUE SHOW OPENING PARTY ON THE 23RD APRIL , on wireimage, like you a gentleman knows the gettys slightly and said they came together to get some papers for an extension to their home in june, a lady in LA met getty in february in her office and he was boasting about his amazing wife and children, that the getty's where still together is fact, another person in england said, she only thinks about herself doesn' t care as long as she gets what she wants. so if you are right the other people are right too. but at the end of the day she had an affair with a married man and humiliated his wife and children in a very heartless and cruel manner, it was the way they both acted was thoughless, both did not care who they hurt that is a fact, if that makes you a sweet person we have become a very shallow nation

2044 days ago
89.

sunseeker    

KLS HOW CAN THEY HAVE HAD AN OPEN RELATIONSHIP WHEN THE WIFE RUN TO ITALY FROM THE FALLOUT, IF HE WAS ALREADY SEPARATED WHY NOT JUST GET A SEPARATION ORDER, YOU DON'T KNOW THE TRUTH EITHER, BUT AS A WOMAN I WOULD HAVE THOUGHT YOU WOULD NOT WANT TO FIND PHOTO'S OF YOUR HUSBAND AND A HALF NAKED WOMAN ON THE INTERNET FOR ALL TO SEE. THAT IS AS FAR AS I AM CONCERNED THE ISSUE, GETTY'S REGARD FOR THE WIFE AND CHILDREN, IF THEY HAD THE AFFAIR WITHOUT HUMILIATING HIS WIFE , GOT A SEPARATION NOBODY WOULD HAVE CARED, BUT YES THE PAPS ARE GOING TOO CLOSE. BUT ALSO IF MILLER , HER MOTHERS AND HER PR'S HAD NOT TALKED TO THE PAPERS IT WOULD NOT HAVE BEEN HALF AS BAD.

2043 days ago
90.

sunseeker    

KLS YOU LOOK BACK TO JUNE ON LA AIRPORT WHEN ASKED IF HE WAS WITH MILLER HE SAID NO, ASKED IF HE WAS GETTING A DIVORCE, HE SAID NO, NO TRUTH IN THE RUMOUR, A FEW WEEKS LATER HE MAKES A STATEMENT SAYING HE WAS SEPARATING FROM HIS WIFE, SO NO THEY WHERE NOT SEPARATED AT THE TIME OF THE AFFAIR.

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