Jennifer Hudson Reaches Out for Help

16. Solay,
Girl look, I don't have the time to be arguing wit you over a subject that is too BIG for you to handle. You woke up agry today and anger management should be your only thought for the day. It is clear that you are young, so stay in a little girls place. Now go take your meds and stay off the computer, it is not your friend today.

Posted at 12:46PM on Oct 26th 2008 by Jackie from cleveland

17. Jackie don't even entertain her foolishness. It's obvious she isn't what she is portraying to be. Everyone please keep the Hudson family in your prayers at their time of need.

Posted at 12:50PM on Oct 26th 2008 by praying4thehudsonfamily

18. This is the third story I have seen about the search for the missing child. Why does the press choose not to post a picture of the child with the story?

Posted at 8:06PM on Oct 28th 2008 by zen

19. I am 32 years old....3rd child of 4 two older brothers and one younger brother.....I am a very successful young Black woman...and I take very good care of my Mom and dad who have been married 30 years and both of them are retired......my dad post office and my mom worked for the city..........tey used there earnings sending us to college and supporting our dreams....I moved my parents out of the hood they raised us in...because thats what good girls do.....If I am crazy for that i dont wanna be sane. no i am no angry and did not wake up angry...i am just real...i would not have left my only mother out there ......

Posted at 12:53PM on Oct 26th 2008 by solay

20. Wow regardless to where you live...You should not have to be subjected to that kind of violence...True Its up to the individual if they want to move or not. I was raised on the westside my mother refused to move with me she said that she was going down with her ship...Most people especially older people from the south once they work hard and pay for it do not want to move. I do agree that you do in some way become a product of your surroundings...Meaning...you can get stuck in the middle when its not attended for you. Yes because of Jennifer celebe status had put a lot of attention on this situation but that is how the media is....why not...its news....

God Bless and Keep this young ladies family stay strong and prayerful....

Posted at 1:02PM on Oct 26th 2008 by jusnofear40

21. I am a 37 year old probation officer for the city of cleveland and I live in safe neighborhood, but crime is everywhere. It does not discriminate against no suburb or city. My mother can live where ever she want to live as long as she is happy. Jennifer is not the blame for her mother's choices. People are quick to blame the innocent in a tragedy so senseless. ANYWAY!!!! Julian is the focus right now and let's pray for him.

Posted at 1:08PM on Oct 26th 2008 by Jackie from cleveland

22. There is no way that any of this is Jennifer's fault. I myself have "made it" and i still have family that live in the same area i was born and raised in. If something happens to them it will not be my fault. They know the risks of living in the neighborhood and they accept the risks. Its not my responsibility to take care of them. They are all grown, working able bodied people and want to stay where they are comfortable and are adamant about staying in the old neighborhood. In the case of Jennifer's family it was an internal issue. It wasn't the drunk neighbor or a gang related attack. No matter where they lived this could've happened. Obviously the youngman who committed this horrific crime was filled with severe rage and out of control. Shame on anyone who blames Jennifer for this incident. Bestvenom123, how dare you blame Jennifer for the murders of her family. I guess its Sharon Tate's family's fault for allowing her to be married to a successful man living in an affluent neighborhood in California where she and he and others were brutally murdered by a band of deranged cult members huh? Last time i checked that's a gated community. The point is things can happen to you regardless of where you live or who you are related to. Granted acts of violence are more likely to happen in impoverished areas, however did you know when it comes to incidents like the Hudson family massacre its normally labeled as a crime of passion and committed by friend or family member? The act had nothing to do with Jennifer. Everything to do with a basic domestic violence issue gone horribly wrong as they normally do. Unfortunately Jennifer's mother, brother and nephew aren't the first individuals to be impacted by this type of action and will not be the last. God help us all.

Posted at 1:07PM on Oct 26th 2008 by Roolltide22

23. Solay...You did do the right thing but that does not mean that Jennifer did not try....Her mom I beleive was a compentent women, and it seems she was comfortable in her enviorment...I too was suprised that she still lived there. but to throw bad energy on her career and to kick a person when they are down...I am sure your parents did not raise you like that...we usually say we are keeping it real ...when we want a clear shot to attack someone else...I am very happy and pround to see young black women striving to be all they can be...but the most grand joy is to see a young black women that is about support and humility in someon elses time of pain...

Posted at 1:16PM on Oct 26th 2008 by jusnofear40

24. sounds good jus,

I am from NYC so i dont know much about people from that south....but i know alot about Chicago.........and i feel what you saying but that aint the case here im telling you....look how the lady died...it wasnt a stray bullet...she was the intended victom and she din do nothing but go to church and pray for her kids....how can Jennifer do a movie beside beyonce who put her moms on a peddle stool and have her moms living file....she could have done something....

Posted at 1:12PM on Oct 26th 2008 by solay

25. Jusnofear,

You are right and I totally agree with you I cant argue which you on your comment.......I feel bad for her mother man....as a black woman from the hood..who made it out of the hood.....i can feel it as if it was me....I pray for her mother and her brother....may there souls rest in peace.......7 year old boy God only know.

Posted at 1:15PM on Oct 26th 2008 by solay

26. Jusnofear40
You are sooo right about what you said. We will never know what Jennifer's mother wanted because she is not here, but let it be told that it is so easy for people to place blame without reasoning. Some people live their life blaming others for mishaps. This is a sad and tragic time for Jennifer and she need her community and fans to support her. I don't belive the story happened the way the media say it happened, but as a law enforcer, im not quick to point fingers without reasoning.

Posted at 1:29PM on Oct 26th 2008 by Jackie from cleveland

27. Look Jackie,

The Hood aint cool for nobady nowaday......save the bull crap....i believe that Jennifer spent too much time chasing Miss New York's man and competing with her instead of worrying about home...but see Miss New York Takes care of her Mom no matter how wild and ignorant she is.......Jennifer was being shelfish and as a grown woaman she needs to know that....You obviously have a low respect for you mom and I can tell that by your conversation...I am glad you are not my mothers child.

Posted at 1:31PM on Oct 26th 2008 by solay

28. it is jennifers fault, the mom and brother would not have been killed if somebody wasnt haten on jennifers success.......Jennifer should have thought about that........this is her Mother...........this is not a aunt, cousin, best freind.....she left her mother in the hood...............believe you me...moms wanted out of the hood...if not then what was she praying and going to church for....to continue to live amongst welfare, drugs, bums.....gimmie a break.......

Posted at 1:37PM on Oct 26th 2008 by solay

29. jusnofear,

Sorry i am no longer a fan of jennifer, i cannot respect her no more............Beyonce, thats my girl she definitely takes care of home.......even when she was broker then Jen. on Destiny's Child...I aint supporting that Jennifer girl....

Posted at 1:41PM on Oct 26th 2008 by solay

30. You people are really selfish and very hurtful with your personal comments on this forum.Jennifer is NOT at fault by any means for this you all are crazy.This is a forum to share your prayers and comforting thougths for the people devistated by this tragedy .Not your thoughts on anything else. If this is the case then everyone is at fault for every crime in this nation because you noone gave the criminal the life or the idea that what he wants to do or get by any means he see's fit is ok by everyone....Jennifer my thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family no one should lose loved ones for any reason but we lose loved ones everyday but its aweful when there taken unexpectedly and as tragic as yours was taken. Please find comfort with your family, and we pray for the safe return of your nephew.

Posted at 3:07PM on Oct 26th 2008 by lisa