Jennifer Hudson Reaches Out for Help

31. Look B-------(Solay)
Just because you went flying to your mother with a red cape does mean Jennifer was suppose to. Obviously your mother working at the post office did not earn enough money to pull herself out the ghetto and that is why you went to her rescue. How touching!! That is your mothers fault that she did not have any goals or high self esteem. Dont get mad at Jennifer for what you had to do. call your mom up and let her have it. Angry, Angry, Angry! Still have not taken those meds I see. (thats your mother fault too) LOLOLOLOLOLOLOL

Posted at 1:58PM on Oct 26th 2008 by Jackie from cleveland

32. What? No reward offered by the "star" Aunt for finding her missing nephew?

Posted at 2:02PM on Oct 26th 2008 by Elmer

33. Am I the only one that is shocked by how little the TV stations are covering the disappearance of Jennifer Hudson's little nephew? When Elizabeth Smart was taken from her home I was choking on the coverage and Nancy Grace talks 24/7 about the disappearance of 3 yr. old Caylee so...where is CNN, Larry King and MSNBC? Why aren't they helping?? So far the only one keeping up to the minute coverage is TMZ!! STOP POSTING HERE AND GET ON THE PHONE TO THE MAJOR STATIONS AND DEMAND THEY start showing currant pictures of 7 yr.old Julian with all the info they have concerning a car etc.! I saw Jennifer's sister sign on her myspace page at 3 am Saturday morning but sll she did was accept new people on her page. The heck with that lady!! Clear that page and put a picture of your son with all the info people need to help find him!! Be a MOM!

Posted at 2:09PM on Oct 26th 2008 by Wendy Brophy

34. Jackie.

If it was not for my mother, I would not be here...yes New York City is very expensive and with 4 kids it was hard on my folks thats why I take care of them.....I am very grateful....you sound like a miserable person with a disfunctional background....i can bet my life that you dont have a husband if if you do...i bet the whole hood ran thru you before you lucked up.....i just took my meds lol........

Posted at 2:10PM on Oct 26th 2008 by solay

35. Solay
You claim your mother paid for your college education. Obviously, you missed English class. You spell like my 10 year old nephew. Maybe you feel a need to pay your mother back for that bull---- education you claim to have. Let me email you my dictionary so the next time you write, I can better understand you. Jennifer does'nt need your support, who are you? She is going to get through this and she is going to advance in her career. Ooops did I use to big of a word for you. Gotta go, I through playing kid games with you. Good Luck in that mommy relocation thing you are doing. LOLOLOLOLOLOLO What a day

Posted at 3:10PM on Oct 26th 2008 by Jackie from cleveland

36.


Why does everyone keep yelling about her "leaving" her Mom's behind. You all are really being not only cold but ignorant as heck too.
Obviously she loved her Mom if You knew anything about Ms. Hudson and have read or watched any of her interviews she loved and cared for her Mom. Her Mom is the one she credited with her actually becoming a star.
I can not imagine the pain it causes her to hear a bunch of folks who know not a darn thing about her or her family Blame this death on her in any way.
Are you all really that cold or are you just uninformed?
Did it occur to you that maybe just a slight chance that with so many family members being in the area and her Mother being the family type person she was, that possibly her Mom wanted to stay where she was. I am sure her Church was there so that made her have even more ties to the area. She most likely was her happiest living there where she had many wonderful memories and where she could have them visit often.
I mean face facts that house and neighborhood looks pretty nice to me. The house obviously held a lot of good memories before this happened So she likely did not wish to move anywhere. If it was a bad neighborhood i am betting that it was not always that way and that her Mom had some great memories and friends still there and loved what it once was. She likely hoped in time it would possibly change for the better.

People do not like to just up and give all that up. No matter if they do have a family member come into money.
Her Mom's was likely a proud woman who was happy standing on her own two feet and seeing her child become something and reaching the heights that she had. I am betting that she was so happy and proud of Jennifer and what she became. I also am betting she was not the type that wanted much of anything from Jennifer.
Not all Mom's are the types that want their children to buy them this and that and support them in a manner they have never known and who want to be all up in the spotlight with them.
Not every Mother is like Lohan's or Spear's Mom 's or all the other Mom's out there trying to be all involved like they are best friends instead of parents in their daughters lives and get a paycheck for being a parent.

Some Moms are considerate and self sufficient and proud. Some Mom's do not wish to live off their children. Some parents actually remain parents. They are content and happy knowing they are the parent. They are proud of the job they have done and do not have need to try and be best buddies. Though while being the parent they are still friends there is a line there that Many Mom's cross. Ms. Hudson's Mom knew where the line was.

Something tells me that Ms.Hudson's Mom was a proud woman who did not try to go get a mansion and 2 cars, a salary for being a parent, etc etc.
I am sure her daughter gave her plenty though and even more importantly she gave her Mom a chance to see her become someone and make her dreams come true. i am betting that was more important to her Mom than any house car or clothes or money.


Many older folks do not care to up and leave just cause they get some money. Some folks remember when they did not have and try hard to bring to the community now that they Do have. They live their lives without a lot of glitz and glamor and do it so they are comfortable.
If you all had any true Values you would not even consider asking the question or mentioning anything about her Mom being in that community.

Heck had she moved every one would be slamming her for making it out and forgetting where she came from.

Actually IF in fact the man in custody is the one who done this It would not have mattered if they lived in a gated community in Cali It would have still happened
You all act like the only place ya get killed at is in the hood
Go read the news from somewhere Other than your community You will find that killings happen No matter who you are, where you live or what amount of money you have.

Posted at 3:41PM on Oct 26th 2008 by Marie

37. Jackie,

i am watching television, cooking and cleaning and reading and typing all at the same time so mispells will happen.....if i use spell check would that make you happy, slut! obviously you can read my handwriting cause you are responding.......STFU please Jaqueline.

Posted at 2:21PM on Oct 26th 2008 by solay

38. WTF!!! is everyone talking about-It would not have made a damn difference if her mom was in a better neighborhood or not since this seems to be perpetrated by a family memeber..This stuff happens in the Ghetto's and in Beverly Hills.
Can't people just have a little sympathy -this is a terrible loss for anyone to handle.

Posted at 2:32PM on Oct 26th 2008 by dmf1027

39. Lets be realistic. Look at the Hudson Family. Look at Jennifer's sister and her husband (the ex-con). Something like this was bound to happen sooner or later. The kid that is missing would of most likely grown up to be a criminal like his dad. Lets call off the search off and save the tax payers a little money from the future prison sentence. Its bad enough we have to pay for his dad's food and housing, "again". And whats with Jennifer's sister saying the kid answers to the names "Juicebox" and "Dr. King"? Like he is a dog or something. He is seven years old, doesn't he know his own real name?

Posted at 2:35PM on Oct 26th 2008 by Carl

40. SOLAY! I'LL SAY ONE THING AND ONE THING ONLY! YOU ARE THE MEANING OF GHETTO !! YOU WOULD THINK WITH FOUR KIDS YOU'D HAVE SOMETHING BETTER TO DO THAN ARGUE WITH PEOPLE ON THE INTERNET! GET A LIFE AND FIND YA BABY DADDY MISS THANG!!!! LOL

Posted at 2:36PM on Oct 26th 2008 by STACEY WALKER

41. My issue is with the sister, Julia. How is it that her husband Mr. Balfour is 27 years old, been in jail for seven years. just released in 2006 and she has been married to him for 2 yrs. Did she even know the fool before she allowed him into her life/home around her child. Did she meet him on inmates.com. You can not a;;ow a monster in your home just to have a piece of a man!!!!

Posted at 2:40PM on Oct 26th 2008 by Ann

42. Stacie,

Youu sound real funky right now...you may wanna mind your business for i have to get at you like i did jackie........you must be another slut tryna come at me.....you are right I grew up in the Ghetto thats why I can tell you better then anyone can...that this whole mess is Ghetto.....them n-ggg-rs died over Jealousy.

Posted at 2:46PM on Oct 26th 2008 by solay

43. Jackie.

Your Wack, How you gone repeat the same thing as before......Go and Kick Rocks.....btich......Pla-lease

Posted at 3:15PM on Oct 26th 2008 by solay

44. Ok...I have read some of the comments on here and can't believe people are so idiotic & insensitive to leave some of these comments. People have left comments about Jennifer leaving her mother in the "ghetto". First of all, Jennifer did try to move her mother from that neighborhood, but she refused. Her mother was a grown woman, so Jennifer couldn't make her mother do anything she didn't want to do. If her mother wanted to stay in the same neighborhood, she had that right. Secondly, This heinous crime has absolutely NOTHING to do with the family still residing in the "ghetto". Have you people not be reading....this was a DOMESTIC DISPUTE, gone horribly wrong, obviously. So, even if her mother & brother weren't living in the "ghetto" & were living in Beverly Hills this probably STILL would've have happened; because the perpetrator of the the crime was/is married to Jennifer's sister. This was NOT a crime by some outsider but a family member, so it has absolutely NOTHING to do with where they resided!!!! SO people please STOP trying to blame Jennifer for what has happened here, this is NOT Jennifer's fault!!!! You people are just absolutely ridiculous!!!

Posted at 1:03PM on Oct 27th 2008 by confsed

45. first of all jennifer please baby pray you no that god is good.i no that your heart bleeds for your mom and brother and nephew.i no losing your mothe is the worst thing in life.but you lost your brother also.i wish i could do something beside pray.but it is the best thing.hold on to god jennifer.because he is the all mighty.i cry for you because.i havent lost my mother but i lost the only brother i had 4years ago.but it still seem like yesterday.please hold on baby you have come so far.god will not leave you just trust and have faith.because in the end your family will recive justice.this is so wrong also so hurtful.god will bring the baby home because we all are prayin for that.hes and on time god baby and also the battle is not yours it is the loards.so god bless we all will still love you and pray for you god bless.

Posted at 8:55AM on Oct 27th 2008 by tonya