Julian's Mom Blogs Over the Loss of Her Child

526. She should have never married William in the first place

Posted at 1:59PM on Nov 3rd 2008 by Calvin0923

527. to the ppl who said the girl posted a link on william page then it was deleted..this is the female who posted the link because i remember looking to see who she was.

http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=81197301

Posted at 2:43PM on Nov 2nd 2008 by closethegate

528. As for #455's comment on letting the investigators do their job being that they are trained professionals. How many people are now sitting in jail because of being wrongfully accused of committing a crime while the person who committed the crime is walking the streets committing more crimes? Are you for real? Take you blindfolds off sweetheart.

Posted at 2:54PM on Nov 2nd 2008 by One & Only

529. DO YA'LL THINK JULIA IS IN DENIAL ABOUT LOSING HER FAMILY THATS WHY SHE HASN'T MOURNED. WAIT TILL ALL THIS IS OVER AND JENNIFER GOES BACK TO LA LEAVING HER ALL ALONE SHE WILL HAVE ALOT TO THINK ABOUT. SHE SAYS JULIAN IS WITH THE LORD AND HE'S PROTECTING HER WHAT DOES SHE NEED PROTECTION FROM?

Posted at 10:09PM on Nov 2nd 2008 by grannymarie5

530. Most of the comments read were very disheartening and disparaging; very little understainding or comfort to the mother who has lost so many cornerstones. Son, Mom, Brother, (the sick man she loved). Right now based on Julia's comments' it appears she is hurt, empty, lost, reaching out hopefully to people who can help provide comfort to her depressed soul. Someone who is quick to listen and not so quick to judge as though you have license and are getting paid - you're not. You are only showing your "wanna be" smart empathetic egotistic persona. Yet that is your opinion and you are entitled to it. But ask yourself a few questions: What is mercy? Have I put myself in this person's shoes or do I think that I am encapable of doing so because I am so smart that I wouldn't dare make the dumb decisions that this lady has?!!! How do you know? We all come from different walks of life and experience life differently. At the same time we also have an examplar that we should all be following if we call ourselves christians = Jesus Christ. He did not pre-judge or sentence; yet he had the ability to read minds. Jesus showed mercy for people knowing that we are all sinners regarding how righteous and smart you may think you are. We too should show that same mercy if we are truly foot step followers of Christ. If we are not, then we should be about our own business in praying and looking into the scriptures to see what we need to be to become better empathetic people so that we each can be helpers to each other. Romans 12:18 we are instructed to return evil to no one, but treat them all with kindness. God says Vengeance is mine and I will repay the evil doer. God also admonishes us not to judge the next person as we too will be judged. Maybe not for the same reason, but for whatever we are guilty of. (we all have some skeletons, white lies, etc) God also tells us to lean not on our own understanding but in all of our ways take knowledge of him and He will make our paths' straight.

So to Julia, you know what you need to do; if you don't pray about it and talk to the Master in the name of Jesus our Lord and ask him for guidance and do what you know is right.

With such a bizarre tragic, one may never know what Julia knows or is afraid to tell in fear of her remaining family's safety. News appearnce can be misleading. Ever thought about Julia's mindset? Only God reads the heart of all of us. And lease know the Bible says the heart is the seat of motivation and from it - actions stream. So we are not to judge this woman. We should be embracing her as we would want to be embraced and wrapped with compassion in our time of distress. Humanly - look within yourself people and take things for what they are - you are not God, the police and you don't know all of the facts, the victims, the accussed (person of interest), nor the family (Jennifer, Greg or other family members not mentioned). The loss was tragic and we could not fathom a tragedy to occur within our family and if it did happen - how would we feel if we turned to our stress outlet and read some of these demeaning comments?

Let's just try to follow in Jesus Christ footsteps and see things the way Jesus did. He died for us all, the good and the bad, while we were yet sinners. So think about that before you respond negatively about someone else.

The Bible says Love conquers all.

Let's show some love people. Love does not discriminate. And it is a requirement from Jesus Christ that we must do for all people - that's our identifying mark. We can hate the badness that people do but not hate a human being. We don't have that right.

One more thing - life and death; love and hate does not to do with politics. It has to do with an issue that we all are involved in. Ask yourself - Who are you truly living for? God or Satan? We can say God because that sounds positive and pristine (and we go to church on Sunday), but how are we perceived based on our actions and our thinking? Are we walking in Jesus footsteps or just talking about it only? When we see we are off couse do we make excuses why we are off or do we humble ourselves and pray to God admitting that we have failed and are sorry and want to do what is right and ask genuinely for that needed help?

I challenge each of you readers to look up James 1 & 2; meditate on this instruction from God from deep within and answer those questions for yourself. Maybe that will help you to get on the right track.

May Jehovah God add a blessing to each of your lives in helping you understand God's thoughts because they are so much higher than mans'.

Let's learn that God is not partial toward any of us and desires all of us to attain to repentance (which means forgiving others as we want to be forgiven) and receive salvation. If God hasn't given up on anyone; then neither should we.

Posted at 9:41AM on Nov 3rd 2008 by Almeda Drake

531. Our prayers go out to you Julia your husband and sister Jennifer.I would ignor all the negative things people say. You have every right to feel or say what ever you want. Whatever works for you is never wrong. No one has the right to tell you that it is. Please take one day one minute at a time to get through all that you have to. May God bless you and yours and keep you safe.

Posted at 1:57AM on Nov 3rd 2008 by tlc

532. Hey!! I don’t care what u all comment on this
I had been following this story all the way from Kenya because I love Jennifer however I had never bothered to read more about her she is a role model of that family. All that clicked in my mind because I deal with investigations and works closely with the government, is that “this is a deal going Sour” Not a revenge… Julia seems in love ..William in love too ..His profile Flex- Million .. He is money minded a gold digger… Married.. With a step son… won’t point a gun at the Childs head and blows it …... only if he was under the influence of Drugs So I don’t want to say that he never did it. However William’s profile states very well she doesn’t love Jennifer “DON’T ASK ME ABOUT HER” WISH HER THE BEST” Lets not take and look only at William which is a little bit Professional. It is well said that he had threatened to kidnap the boy! Why?
Where was Julia in the day of the murder? I have been visiting their space profile pages until Julia its private .Julia profile shady woman wanting to rise but somehow grounded. Her language like of a gangster and it is well said that she is kinda may-be sly to the police to cover her gangster lifestyle.. She said she did what was natural to her to love someone.. and it has costed her she immediately pin pointed her first suspect to make it look that Flex is the only killer here..She adds “Jason Picking me from work because the Bitch Ass William Sold my car” So she has no Car Jennifer in her Hummer!! Another photo of her said “William please wait for me “So they had just one car to use!!The last comment before her profile was private Flex Photo “What you see is what I got” Now its Somehow I cannot remember well but it ended a “Fool maybe a killer or so “Its not that she is bitter but her husband acted foolishly.. Well the bitch in love retains all the photos of the “person of interest” Writes on one of Flex photos of late “this one is with a woman Marriage my ass” at this time for sure?it shows she knows very well who the killer was…the plans of the killings “Man Slaughter” What a pity.. it seems she was together with william when the plot backfired
This is possibly could have happened. Julia was away from home and not in school if it was Friday I don’t know.. Jason “picks her up” maybe she had planned to cut some weight and walk that day” The only supportive mother.. Shows Jenny never helps her.. Come on.. The killer came in.. This time to Kidnap the Boy.. so as to get some money from the rich sister.. This maybe was not “Flex” In defense of the boy the victims has some wounds of defense.. The boy was taken alive and thus he saw what had happened and killed in the SUV and the gun is said to be of Jason so contradicting maybe the kidnapper didn’t have a gun but Jason had it?? So confusing.. Gangster way. The kidnapper killed the victims because they definitely knew him and he feared his life so he had to finish the kidnapping evidence. What about the eye witness who saw a man coming out of the Abandoned car? What about police track on Flex cellphone which was in a different part of the city rather than where the SUV was.. and let me ask you guys? Can u just tell me “Oh lets go kill the Hudsons.. Free of Change? No way open up your eyes and see.. The hired kidnapper feared and killed everyone.. The boy in the Car because he will give evidence.. I saw him .. He killed them… Ohh.. Julia What a shame.. So the boy Was killed in the SUV very unplanned.. So Julia came home thinking now the boy is kidnapped.. and mama and Blue.. Brother are shocked to Death ready to give everything.. Just like the Sweet sister who said Am giving 100,000 dollars ,Crime is Crime.. Murder and mastermind is illegal Julia should be in custody after the Burials May they rest in Peace and May William now speak out and Say their plans.. Its Murders investigations.. May the Police interrogate her and we all be at peace with her

Posted at 10:13AM on Nov 4th 2008 by KaNaKe

533. If she had sheltered her son from evil, he would not have been living in that house where the mother was.
They all sold drugs and had weapons in there.
the weapon they got killed with may have been her brother.s.

Posted at 9:58AM on Nov 3rd 2008 by crazy girl

534. didn't she say she gets bored and likes 2 start szzt,if my child just died ,1st i wouldn't even care about a blog .i would b so hurt .i just lost a son,mother and brother.my eyes would b so swollen from crying,my head and body would b in such pain i could not even think, ( let alone blog).when we would see her again if she was real hurt.she would b skinny,cause with pain like that u would not want 2 eat.but true szzt starters 2 me r crazy and i stay far away from them,cause they r unhappy people and they get joy by c\n\u unhappy.u can't help those type of people.they r evil and their mission is 2 destroy people.like the birth of a child,some1 getting saved,getting good grades , doing well n life,just happy on life. these things make a TRUE SZZT STARTER MAD AND PISSED THAT THINGS R GOING SO GOOD 4 U . so they startt thinking how can i bring unhappines 2 them.they will work on u your boss,famiily,friends,strangers any 1 who can help them bring u down will make them happy.i feel sorry 4 jen.she is stuck with evil and don't even know it.

Posted at 3:25PM on Nov 3rd 2008 by xbushwacker

535. julia helped that man.

Posted at 7:39PM on Nov 3rd 2008 by shell

536. Sadly, I think we should all remember 'There but for the grace of God, go I"..
In this day and age, what happened to Julia and her family could happen to any of us..

Posted at 4:07PM on Nov 3rd 2008 by Irish

537. I AGREE I THINK SHE WAS THE PERSON AND HE HELPED OR IT WAS THE OTHER WAY AROUND.THATS WHY HIS PICTURE IS ON HER SITE. STOP FOCUSING ON HIM SINCE HE HAS A RECORDS. SHE WAS THE OTHER PERSON AND THE POLICE IS ABOUT TO ARREST HER. I ALSO GO TO CHURCH EVERY SUNDAY AND THE LORD WANTS YOU TO SPEAK UP ITS YES/NO IN HIS BOOK

Posted at 7:37PM on Nov 3rd 2008 by shell

538. First of all I know that people do have different ways of grieving and I hate to seem judgemental. But when I saw Julia pleading for Julian's safe return I just wasn't feeling a mother's anguish for her missing child. I stared and stared and rewinded and went back over the tape where she was pleading for her son. I can't put my finger on it but something just doesn't seem right with her. She said on her myspace page that she likes to have fun here and there and start s*** sometimes. To me that say's a whole lot. I have a son. If I lost him I would not feel like getting on no computer and going on myspace, a computer would be far away from my thoughts. I feel bad for feeling this way but I just can't help how I feel. I could be wrong, I always make room for being wrong.

Posted at 8:26AM on Nov 4th 2008 by monique

539. Okay, Julia may have been on her MySpace looking for comfort. I can give her that. But on day one when her child was missing and two family members killed, why was she on it then????????? She has logged on every day including the day of the murders. Why was she not out looking for her son or sitting beside the phone, or at the police station until he was found?
Why was she blogging with her son missing?? Julia, it is fishy!! I hope I am wrong. But, I remember Susan Smith. She killed her two sons for a man. Look at Casey Anthony in Florida. Mothers do kill their children. Some never think twice about it.

Posted at 6:52PM on Nov 3rd 2008 by Lynwood

540. Everyone please have compasion...... Sorry I was laughing to hard to finish that statement. Where do I sent the donation check...... Sorry started laughing again..

Posted at 7:07PM on Nov 3rd 2008 by King