Hudson Family Memorial -- Monday Mourning

106. Don't you think maybe she can't sleep? And maybe she needs to do whatever she possibly can to get her through this?

Does somebody have a copy of the Proper Way to Grieve memo and could you maybe post it?

Thank God she has something to help, even if it's only temporary and even if it's myspace.

Posted at 2:23AM on Oct 31st 2008 by mindy

107. Is she suppose to sit and stare at the walls? She needs a distraction or she will lose her mind. Who knows what the truth is with this entire situation but today everyone is attached at the hip to their computer. She could be logging on without thought or out of habit or to simply keep busy. She is laying her mother, brother and son to rest tomorrow, that is more than any human should have to bare.

Posted at 2:26AM on Oct 31st 2008 by ps

108. I too questioned Julia's myspace behavior. For one, a lot of people on her top friends, including Jennifer, changed their default pic to Julian's when he was thought to be "missing." However, Julia did not, instead, she changed her pic to another one of herself in a blue shirt. Since she had time to be on myspace, she could of at least posted something about helping to Julian, but nope....nothing. That really surprised me. Another thing is, why wasn't Julia out searching for Julian? She just stayed put...if my child was missing, you better believe i'd be out searching. I hate to say it, but It's like she knew he wasn't coming home.....sad. I feel so bad for Jennifer.

Posted at 2:40AM on Oct 31st 2008 by Ms.B

109. My heart goes out to the Hudson family my GOD comfort them with love and understanding.

Posted at 3:11AM on Oct 31st 2008 by Angel

110. 105. I too questioned Julia's myspace behavior. For one, a lot of people on her top friends, including Jennifer, changed their default pic to Julian's when he was thought to be "missing." However, Julia did not, instead, she changed her pic to another one of herself in a blue shirt. Since she had time to be on myspace, she could of at least posted something about helping to Julian, but nope....nothing. That really surprised me. Another thing is, why wasn't Julia out searching for Julian? She just stayed put...if my child was missing, you better believe i'd be out searching. I hate to say it, but It's like she knew he wasn't coming home.....sad. I feel so bad for Jennifer.

Posted at 2:40AM on Oct 31st 2008 by Ms.B
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My guess is that Juilia was too busy eating to search for her son. That thing is a TANK!

Posted at 3:19AM on Oct 31st 2008 by ugh

111. In answer to some questions I've seen throughout this and other threads...Why has the family remained "in seclusion" throughout this week? Why was Julia on MySpace last weekend instead of taking an active role in searching for her son?Where is Julian's father.... we''ve heard nothing from him?

Family members are actually staying at an undisclosed location under the protection of the FBI and Chicago Police Department. Those who went to the home the other night to get some family mementos did so with a police escort. I noticed that Greg King, Julian's father, was among them.

Two reasons for this... obviously for protection, since it's clear that this situation is not a simple one, so authorities aren't sure who will do what to whom next. Second reason is that authorities are still investigating and monitoring all aspects of these person's contacts, to see who might try to communicate with them, as they work on solving the case.

Police sources have also stated that one of these persons who is believed to have been involved in setting up the hit has finally decided to "snitch" and reveal additional information. It was this person's statement, NOT the "after the fact" report of a phone call from a neighbor, that led them to search the area where they were told the murder weapon had been dumped.

We may not hear more about any significant developments in the case until after the family funeral service on Monday, but things should come together fairly soon after that.

Posted at 3:28AM on Oct 31st 2008 by southsidechicago

112. In my opinion, violent crime is not enternainment, it is real, and hurts the people left behind. I believe more education is needed to inform the public of the reality that families go through, who are affected by violent crime. In my opinion, there is nothing funny or enternating about violent crime. My heart truly goes out to the Hudson family. May they all find only hope, strength, comfort, peace and healing. during this very difficult time. This is a police matter and I have every confidence that Chiagco finest will do the right thing. Again my heart goes out to the Hudson family. May the deceased rest in peace and justice be served. I cast no judgement on anyone let the police handled this matter. IMO

Posted at 3:38AM on Oct 31st 2008 by Madeline

113. it's unfortunate that people would rather sit in judgement than just waiting for the police to finish their investigation.

Can you imagine if this was your family and you heard people were making these comments?

Have some compassion.

Posted at 5:21AM on Oct 31st 2008 by mindy

114. Just a little premature to set up a domestic violence fund when nobody's been charged yet. When all the facts are known then and if it is domestic violence I can see it but not now.

Posted at 7:01AM on Oct 31st 2008 by ruffian

115. Thats a picture of Jennifer's mother,,, stupid people who don't the who is who.

Posted at 7:56AM on Oct 31st 2008 by Very careful

116. The more I read about this tragedy, the more questionable the sister is!!! I wouldn't let that Heffer near 1 dime of the foundation money.

Posted at 9:38AM on Oct 31st 2008 by notafanofnasty

117. that is jennifers mother, julia looks just like her mother, these are the pictures of the deceased dummies

Posted at 9:54AM on Oct 31st 2008 by all black people dont look alike

118. That is Jennifer's mother picture. NOT JULIA !!!!!!!!!
Julia is only 30 and the picture of the woman is obviously not a 30yr. old woman.

Posted at 10:24AM on Oct 31st 2008 by Ombudlady

119. Jennifer I know you don't know me but I would like to say. Please stay strong and after you have done all you can...JUST STAND!!! I can imagine it is hard but God can get you through it. My prayers are with you and your loved one.

Momma's Girl

Posted at 8:14AM on Nov 3rd 2008 by momma's girl

120. As a Chitown native, my heart is breaking for J-Hud and the rest of her family. I can't imagine losing my mom, one of my brothers AND my precious nephew too. It's unimaginable!! Jen, please pray to God that God will give you the strength to go on and live the rest of your life to the fullest. God won't give you more than you can handle, and you are a very very strong person, so I feel you're going to pull through just fine!!

As for this story, the photos are wrong, and I hope TMZ will figure it out and change them. Also, we know a hellofa lot more being that we live IN CHITOWN and the trib is writing a lot more, there's a lot that has happened that points the blame to balfour, but also there's another person that they say may have been part of the slaining......only a matter of time before the truth really comes out!!

Posted at 6:00PM on Oct 31st 2008 by pray4thehudsonclan