Brad Tells Jen to Shut It

406. You kids are so funny. You get all worked up over it, like it actually means something. Live you've got a stake in it or something. It's the hugest of huge publicity stunts of al time, and you're buying it hook, line and sinker. Dumba$$es. I have an idea. Fix your own relationships. Take care of your own children. Stay out of other people's lives.

On a side note, in non-specific, general terms. You can't help who you fall in love with, and you can't help when you fall. It is entirely possible to marry the wrong person, and not find out until years later, when your differing goals in life become blaringly apparent. And it is also not only possible, but likely, that no amount of sacrifice, compromise and hard work will save a marriage that shouldn't have happened in the first place. Sometimes sh!t just falls apart. Is it better to dwell on your failure, or move on and seek the happiness that you were supposed to find? I choose the latter.

You can all sit, pock-marked, in your bathrobes, safely tucked away in your parents' basements spewing hateful words like skank and wh0re and homewrecker, but all that does is show the world (or at least the message board) what small people you really are.

Posted at 4:05PM on Nov 20th 2008 by Madcapfeline

407. Oh no he didn't how dare he she has been such a lady for all these years and now she speaks up for herself and he doesn;t like it whopee!!! What world does he live on? How does he think she always felt when that ugly person ADAMS FAMILY crature he is living with everytime she opened her big a$$ mouth? She can have 50 kids and she will never be a normal person the person she is trying to be with all those kids!! What's going to happen when she finnaly goes haywire? with all those kids? Hopefuly Brad is nearby!! Because she is sick!! she can put on a good act I just feel so sorry for those kids,Please Brad don't have anymore before she has a breakdown...I just can't get over him dropping Jen for a du like her.. you just never know I will never see his movies again.. I just hope Jen has a the most lasting relationship and be happy and Brad will be misseralbe! (he can say he's happy but I'm sure he's not)

Posted at 5:55PM on Nov 20th 2008 by Barly

408. I wish everyone would stop there crying and hating on AJ. If Jen was taking care of business then Brad would never even taken a second look at another woman. Jen needs to find out what it is about herself that has men running for the door or the next woman.

Posted at 12:56PM on Nov 24th 2008 by Karriem

409. Jen has more class than Breakin' (the vows) Brad, and I-want-my-kids-2-know (what a slutty ho I was) Angie. Jen has been quite respectful to both of them, which is more than Brad or Angie can say. Everyone is so pro-angie because she adopts and donates to needy children. Most folks don't want a bisexual woman who french kisses her own brother and marries people like Billy Bob (for the great sex) to be around their children. And Brad, he changes his ways for every woman he falls for (except Jen). He will not like putting in this much effort for very long. If she didn't get preggo by him, I bet he would have left that self rightous biatch already!!! He will pay for the way he treated Jen, simply be having to put up with Angelina. And if they break up, she will likely take the kids away, talk badf about Brad to them, isolate them and blame Brad (like her mom did before her). If you have no communication at all with a parent that loves you because that parent wasn't there, then you have issues you are passing on to your kids. Angie can't even make up with her dad so her children can have a grandfather that loves them in their lives. She is a selfish snob and her children will respect her money more than they respect her. Everyone else does!!! Brad and Angie need to shut up, and maybe go back to France!!!

Posted at 5:35PM on Nov 24th 2008 by Boudica

410. Jen needs to get over it. Brad is gone and has made a life with Angie. People fall in and out of love. Marriage comes and goes. Brad seemed to want more from Jen than a Buddy relationship he wanted a family and she was not ready for one. So grow up Jen and stop using terms like uncool.

Posted at 7:43PM on Nov 20th 2008 by zaksgrandma

411. I just love the way so many idiots keep bashing people for expressing their opinion. Last time I checked it's a free country and we have freedom of speech. And if we think that brad and Angelina are a couple of jerks then we are entitled to our opinions. Jen hasn't said anything until now and she's being demonized by Brad for it? What a loser. And so what if we don't have a stake in there so-called relationship, some of us are fans of Jen and we care. So sue us butt-heads. In fact, the way some posters are mocking those who are siding with Jen makes me think that they must have some sort of personal stake in this debate. What's it to you folks if we bash Brad or Angie? Huh? Are they friends of yours? Or are you them? Let me guess, you don't really care but you just came to this story site because....? I know, you were just curious. Sure you were. LOL! Yeah, sure! We'll buy that....NOT!
Oh by the way, the idea of "not being able to help who you fall in love with" is in fact a myth. You can help you REALLY fall in love but you can't help who you become infatuated with. You CAN help how you respond to "those emotions". Just because your attracted to someone doesn't mean you have to ACT ON THOSE FEELINGS! At least not if you have an ounce of common sense and self-control! Only mindless animals or severely emotionally immature "can't help" how they behave. Everyone else? CAN! The problem isn't that people CAN'T control themselves but rather that most people WON'T control themselves. HUGE DIFFERENCE! If that's the sort of retarded mentality prevalent in Hollywood no wonder Hollywood has a 15% higher divorce rate than the rest of the country. It's true! But I'm sure the fools in Hollywood and their equally brain-dead followers won't accept this or any other FACTS that contradict their childish ideas about love, sex or marriage. Two of my roommates occasionally work part-time as models. They-ve been at a few Hollywood parties. They said that no one seems to have any respect for other peoples relationships. They both have boyfriends and yet when they politely explain this to some idiot in Hollywood, (sometimes an actor and sometimes some Producer or singer) and they are always met with the same reply "Well, they're not here" "What they don't know won't hurt them" Cliche? Yes! But they still use that lame reply or words to that effect. Or sometimes they're accused of being "little girls" because they believe in fidelity. Such is the putrid mentality in Hollywood. From the top to the bottom. Obviously this doesn't pertain to EVERYONE in the entertainment industry but even those who are faithful at least most of the time look the other way when they see their friends cheat on their spouses. They don't want to be accused of being "JUDGEMENTAL" Oh No! The horrors! LOL! What a group of losers! No wonder most of the old goats are marrying gold diggers. Who else but total skanks would put up with such garbage? Heaven help us!

Posted at 7:57PM on Nov 20th 2008 by Cassie

412. 31. Marriage is supposed to be sacred and a lifetime commitment - for bad or worse -

Posted at 9:28AM on Nov 13th 2008 by yadda yadda
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What planet did you come from? Here on earth roughly half of all marriages end in divorce.

Posted at 9:32AM on Nov 22nd 2008 by Progressive

413. 398. People keep saying that Jennifer didn't want kids because it would ruin her figure. That is just BS. She has said repeatedly that she didn't want kids until she was sure that the marriage would last. She obviously had doubts at that point about how faithful Brad could actually be to her. She was sensing that he might be gone soon, so she didn't want to pop a kid out. What's so hard to understand about that? More people should think it through like that before making babies.

Posted at 8:52PM on Nov 19th 2008 by ChristinaBambina
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Your post doesn't make sense. Nobody knows the future, so how can you know how your spouse/partner will be in the future? It's reported somewhere that she has said she knew it was over in the summer of 04.

Posted at 6:39PM on Nov 22nd 2008 by Progressive

414. 62. Angelina Jolie has brought this upon herself by talking about the subject in the first place and if it is true that Pitt complained to his former wife, then he should place the blame in the right place - with his current partner. Of course Aniston herself knew that her husband had cheated with another woman but to the public it was always unclear as to whether their relationship had actually started then of not.
It would be in the interests of Pitt and Jolie with he could persuade her to talk less about their personal life. No one needs to know all the personal aspects of her life, every detail about the children, the endless talk of more children etc. etc. It is tasteless and unnecessary.

Posted at 10:08AM on Nov 13th 2008 by Ruth
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I'm a big fan of Angelina, but I agree with you that she could talk less about their personal life. It's just that she likes to talk, and it's not a crime. All she said was that they fell in love when they were making MMS. Nobody knows when they started having s**. I think after he separated he was a free man. It's ridiculous to expect people to wait until their divorce is final. Some divorces take a long time. I remember somebody posting that her divorce took two years to become final. She didn't wait to start a new relationship.

Posted at 10:47PM on Nov 23rd 2008 by Progressive

415. 394. Brad would never have fallen in love with Angie if his marriage to Jen had been a good one. Clearly, it was over and it took his falling in love for him to accept that fact. Yes, it's regrettable that Brad did not have the gumption to realize his marriage was over and leave Jen earlier. But how many couples do you know in "walking dead" marriages? The love is gone, as is everything else, but it's comfortable and easy to keep the status quo. So, they keep on going on autopilot.

Because of Brad's unfortunate timing, is Angelina forever denied the romantic nostalgia that every other couple has? "This is how we met..." "This is how we fell in love..." If they're in love and happy, let them gush about it as other happy and in love couples do. If Brad and Jen had been in love and happy, he never would have left her. Happy men don't look around.

Posted at 11:57AM on Nov 19th 2008 by sarah
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I agree, sarah! If it wasn't Angelina it would have been someone else. From everything we read his marriage had run its course before he met Angelina.

Posted at 10:59PM on Nov 23rd 2008 by Progressive

416. 403. You kids are so funny. You get all worked up over it, like it actually means something. Like you've got a stake in it or something. It's the hugest of huge publicity stunts of al time, and you're buying it hook, line and sinker. Dumba$$es. I have an idea. Fix your own relationships. Take care of your own children. Stay out of other people's lives.

On a side note, in non-specific, general terms. You can't help who you fall in love with, and you can't help when you fall. It is entirely possible to marry the wrong person, and not find out until years later, when your differing goals in life become blaringly apparent. And it is also not only possible, but likely, that no amount of sacrifice, compromise and hard work will save a marriage that shouldn't have happened in the first place. Sometimes sh!t just falls apart. Is it better to dwell on your failure, or move on and seek the happiness that you were supposed to find? I choose the latter.

You can all sit, pock-marked, in your bathrobes, safely tucked away in your parents' basements spewing hateful words like skank and wh0re and homewrecker, but all that does is show the world (or at least the message board) what small people you really are.

Posted at 4:05PM on Nov 20th 2008 by Madcapfeline
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Excellent post!!!

Posted at 11:17PM on Nov 23rd 2008 by Progressive

417. Please - everyone has an opinion on this - todays worls is filled with people that are interested in the goings on of celebrities. Nothing is private. Personally, I can see Angelina dumping Brads ass cause as her father said "She changes boyfriends as often as she changes her underwear" i DON'T KNOW HWERE SHE WENT FROM BECOME WTHE WORLDS #1 SKANK TO mOTHER tHERESA. bRADS AND IDIOT TO FALL FOR THIS CRAP. Remember how she acted on the red carpet with Thornton? She was a whore! Wait till her 6 kids see the footage of that...

Posted at 1:37PM on Nov 24th 2008 by Mary Jean Hanley

418. All of the Angelina haters need to just shut up. Ms. Mousey Aniston was too self absorbed for Brad, too self absorbed to have children with her hubby, too self absorbed to do any good for the world in general. You people worship her for what? Cause she's a celeb? Just look at her character for a change...what has she done for society....making movies doesn't count.

Posted at 12:55PM on Dec 1st 2008 by Elles

419. If he had just been a real man and divorced Jennifer then all of this wouldn't be going on. Why is that so hard for people to do? It always has to go the uglier route. Divorce is ugly but betrayal makes it even uglier. The truth will always come out. I think Jennifer has been more of a woman than Angelina will ever be. How do you brag about being a mistress and play it up to something romantic and beautiful when there was a commitment being broken at the same time? How do you plan on explaining that to your children when they grow up? Hmmm maybe that's why you moved to another country. A lesser chance of word getting out to your children. What a tangled web we weave. We weren't there to see the daily life for Brad and Jennifer but that doesn't give him the right to do what he did and everyone that keeps saying if Jennifer had just taken care of his needs all of this wouldn't have happened. Shame on all of you who believe that!! I bet if you were married and had this happen to you you wouldn't be so quick to put all the blame on her. Be the bigger person and end the relationship and then go out and find someone new.

Posted at 4:06AM on Dec 2nd 2008 by GG

420. Be the bigger person and end the relationship and then go out and find someone new.
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You never know when 'it' happens. He was over 40, wanted a family and was tired of waiting for it, so I think he was planning on leaving. He didn't know he would meet someone new before he ended the marriage. That someone new, Angelina, entered his life, they fell in love, he told Jennifer, and the rest is history.

Posted at 9:28AM on Dec 2nd 2008 by Progressive