Police: McNair Mistress Wanted to 'End It All'

Police: Steve McNair Mistress Wanted to 'End It All'In a presser today, police in Nashville, TN revealed the following about the death of Steve McNair -- an investigation they're saying "clearly points to a murder-suicide."

- Sahel Kazemi told friends her life was "all messed up" and she was "going to end it all" before the incident.

- Kazemi was extremely stressed -- she had two car payments, her roommate was moving out and she recently started thinking McNair was seeing someone else (he was actually married).

- The shell casings match the weapon purchased by Sahel and there was trace evidence on her left hand.

- The lack of struggle, Steve's position on the couch and the trajectory of the bullet leads police to believe McNair was "likely asleep" on the couch when he was shot.



Tags: mistress, murder suicide, MurderSuicide, quarterback, sahel kazemi, SahelKazemi, steve mcnair, SteveMcnair

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61. How could Kazemi have 2 car payments if Steve bought her the Cadillac Escalade? Wouldn't he have just bought it outright or been making the payments himself? Steve, you didn't "buy" her an Escalade and then tell her she had to make payments on it herself did you? Is that worth getting shot over?

And all this still doesn't put little Keith Norfleet in a good light. I mean, when your love of your life would rather put a bullet in her head and die in her lover's lap rather than face the prospect of having to go back to dating you, that is pretty telling.......

Posted at 6:49PM on Jul 8th 2009 by Dr. Poon

62. The truth is that Black women are to bossy, always yelling, demanding and demeaning. Black men are tired of that already.
Black men now look for pretty white, asian or latina women, who know how to treat a man. As, I said before, what man wants to stroke a womans wig or weave, or Ride the pony and have the hair fall off. My friend, a lack man dumped his girlfriend, said everytime they were getting intimate she would take her wig off, and dangle it from the door knob...not very sexy. The only pitfall of a Black man messing on a woman outside his race, is that if he messes up, he ends up like McNair

Posted at 6:50PM on Jul 8th 2009 by wigs, weaves and doll hair

63. #53:

With all due respect, why is it that "young black men" always seem to need good role models to teach them the basics:

Gangs and membership in gangs are "bad"?
Familial responsibility and honoring your commitments is "good"?
Drugs are "bad"?
Fiscal responsibility is "good"?

These are BASIC values, tried, tested, and TRUE regardless of race, color, creed, sex or religion. If "young black men" SPECIFICALLY need role models in order to "teach" them these truisms which EVERYONE ELSE seems to be EXPECTED to know as basic principles, then I'd say there's a HELLUVA lot more to be concerned about than the much whined about lack of "positive" role models for "young black men".

Posted at 6:50PM on Jul 8th 2009 by PeopleSuck

64. Hey JCAmaya, I guess I definitely don't think Steve is reading, since he had 4 bullet holes in him and his head was blasted off from each side. Those are what we educated people call 'rhetorical questions' dude.

Posted at 7:02PM on Jul 8th 2009 by Dr. Poon

65. 15. @4

Just when I thought I have gone through the day hearing the most ignorant comment. You almost ran out of time but you made it. I'm pretty sure that you qualify for the ignorant comment of the week.

By the way, I happen to be a black male athelete (I won't reveal the team). Its a shame that people are still holding up the prejudice and racial wall. Let it go! This is 2009...times have changed since the invention of the wheel. Don't be afraid to jump on board. You might actually smile once in a while.

Posted at 5:02PM on Jul 8th 2009 by 6FootBrotha

I think her comment was ignorant as well. Your comment sounded ok until the last 2 sentences. Also, why did you have to include the part about being a black male athelete? Being an athelete has nothing to do with your statement...

53. Hey Mrs. McNair---you really had no clue your ex QB husband was cheating on you? Where did you think he was when he was on vacations with the Iranian bimbo? Where did you think he was when he was sleeping overnight with her in his secret love condo pad? Are you really that naive? Or as long as the money was rolling in, you condoned it? And how bout Steve's brothas, his enabling buddies? Do you feel good about condoning your man's cheating ways so he could ignore and cheat on his family commitments and obligations? What kind of lesson does all this teach young black men? Or should we ignore it all because Steve was a "nice guy" and a good football player? Hey Eddie George, if you were a real friend, where were you when it came time to man up? Why didn't you get in your friend's face and tell him to stop it and go home to get laid? Where were you Eddie? Or are you just another enabler?

Posted at 6:40PM on Jul 8th 2009 by Dr. Poon

Y r u blaming the wife? She is the REAL victim here!

Posted at 6:53PM on Jul 8th 2009 by sharona

66. Sharona has wayyy too much time on her hands. What...your shift up at McD's so we are graced with your pathetic posts all night?!

Posted at 6:58PM on Jul 8th 2009 by dumbass

67. 4. Black Men stay away from non black women!!!!!!!

Posted at 4:47PM on Jul 8th 2009 by shygrl23

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Shygirl23 you are a complete ignorant idiot. Take your own advice, please...

Posted at 6:59PM on Jul 8th 2009 by fish and chips

68. thats really messed up. How could someone take another persons life I cant understand that I always think people that take anothers life are psycho and crazy but this is just bizarre. Everyone gets stressed out and has problems and she was at her wits end but killing someone else and herself just an awful tragedy. And he was married? wow

Posted at 6:59PM on Jul 8th 2009 by angel

69. Being an athelete has nothing to do with your statement...
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No. But I bet he is DAMN FINE. Yumminessssss!

Posted at 7:00PM on Jul 8th 2009 by hotness

70. Amazing, most of the racist comments are coming from blacks. Typical hypocrisy.

Posted at 7:00PM on Jul 8th 2009 by rimman

71. How f'd up does a 20 year old skank have to be to think her life was "spiraling out of control" simply because she was going to possibly face dating normal dweebs like Kieth Norfleet again instead of getting the thick black schlong from an athlete? I mean, geez, she had a nice little ride, she went on some vacations, she partied, she got some nice wheels...any good prostitute should know that you move on develop other clients. Or accept the fact that her black man meat may look elsewhere from time to time. Is that really reason to blow your guy's and your own heads off? I think this woman may have had some deep psychological trauma left over from dealing with her parents being murdered in Iran, some serious abandonment issues if Steve was going to pull the plug.

The sad thing is that this proves once again how ridiculous the gun wackos in this country are, because anyone can get a gun anywhere anytime and blow someone away. You can thank Chuck Heston and the NRA idiots for yet another senseless gun death, all in the name of "protecting their 2nd Amendment rights". This one is on the right wing wackos who allow guns to be everywhere.

Posted at 7:03PM on Jul 8th 2009 by Dr. Poon

72. I am so distressed about the way how this situation has been handled by the public. Yes....he did commit adultery but was it him who crucified Christ? NO!!! We need to be kinder in making comments because for God's sake this man had a family, he was just doing the typical things that MOST MEN do. Its very sad that he got involved with this person who thought the only way out was to take the woman's husband with her. She apparently told herself that if she cannot get him, no one else can. Its tragic, because the man had a family. Sadly, a lot of those Iranians they do not put much value on life and lets not forget she is one. Mrs. McNair is certainly not the first person or the last that this will happen to. The same thing happened to my best friend! Her fiance claimed that he has been sleeping at his mom some nights but turned up dead at his supposedly ex girlfriend's house. The reality is that men are men and we are all sinners. We do things that we are not suppose to do. Mrs.McNair, I am sorry that this happened because I know that this is embarassing. Whatever it is, Steve was a great guy. R.I.P Steve McNair, may God have mercy on his soul. Peace be unto his family and friends.

Posted at 7:02PM on Jul 8th 2009 by sexandthecity

73. All throughout recorded history, Men have had WIVES (Plural), Concubines & Mistresses. A simple glance of any Holy Bible, Quran, Torah, Book of Mormon etc, reveals this historical pattern. Steve McNair was no exception to this pattern of having Multiple Women. Like so many successful Men before him, Steve indulged himself in the luxury of beautiful women that his status & wealth afforded him. Former Presidents Bill Clinton ,John F. Kennedy, Former NY Governor Elliot Spitzer, or disgraced South Carolina governor Mark Sanford are all examples of this deeply entrenched behavior pattern. However, None of these aforementioned Men was killed by their mistresses. Steve McNair DESERVED TO LIVE, despite his extramarrital activities. Cheating is NOT A CRIME, and it amazes me how HYPOCRITICAL & JUDGEMENTAL all of you AVERAGE JOE's are. If Monogamy is so satisfying & natural, then WHY DO SO MANY PEOPLE CHEAT & WHY IS THE DIVORCE RATE SO HIGH ? Why do Married Men frequent STRIP CLUBS, BUY PROSTITUTES, or have INTERNET AFFAIRS ??

Posted at 7:04PM on Jul 8th 2009 by MONOGAMY IS NOT NATURAL!!!!!!

74. o him wifee her have mansion ah nice she new boyfeind will likeo and mony to hi to sharonkas new feind 59 thank you

Posted at 7:05PM on Jul 8th 2009 by sharonka

75. The scary part about this situation is that he is more than likely in HELL. From what I've read and learned about the Bible being in a situation as he and being unable to ask for forgiveness or repent. It looks like he and that girl both may not be in a bad place right now. Unfortunately, I wonder why God allowed her to shoot and kill him, maybe he was given opportunities to stop his behavior but would not (I don't know). I just know God could have prevented her from killing him if he wanted to.

Posted at 7:11PM on Jul 8th 2009 by wayoftheworld

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