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The Gosselin Birthday Party Showdown

10/7/2009 3:15 PM PDT BY TMZ STAFF

The Jon & Kate battle never ends -- and a war is brewing over tomorrow's birthday festivities for twins Mady and Cara.

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We just got a pissed Papa Gosselin in NYC, where he actually whipped out his BlackBerry and read a new e-mail from Kate aloud -- one saying she refuses to see him and wants to limit his time with the kids on Thursday to only two hours.

Jon says the duo had originally planned to have a party together, but according to the e-mail, Kate now believes "Due to recent events, it'll be too stressful."

Jon called her demands "ridiculous," adding "I can stay as long as I want ... and I will."

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91.

He's just another Idiot    

I saw Jon behaving like an A-Hole last night on TV. Is he taking lessons from K-Fed on how to act like an Idiot??

1804 days ago
92.

Victoria    

Dear Jon, Jeeeez you are a loser please go back under your rock. i feel so bad you had kids, they deserve better than you.

1804 days ago
93.

Deb    

Yea, Christina, but you're first in line.

1804 days ago
94.

barbara    

christina, that would be the best bet

1804 days ago
95.

pinkgemini73    

Good Lord does he ever SHUT UP?? The kids probably go to bed at 8:30 and that's why she is limiting him to two hours. He has them 4 to 6. She has them 6 to 8 and then it's bedtime.

1804 days ago
96.

Ha THE TEACHER was taught a lesson    

They need to change the custody agreement on holidays and birthdays. They cannot get along apart or together so for the sake of kids, they need to alternate holidays and do some thing different for birthdays. It is not fair to the children involved. If the Judge was a smart judge at all, he'd tell both of these idiots that he does not condone their behavior or the way they are hashing this out in the media (be it if they are doing as Jon is, for the money, then he is exploiting the kids further in this divorce just for money to take it to the media). The Judge should say, okay, I want that money you took Jon put into an account, I am going to assign a guardian ad litem for those children to check on their emotional welfare weekly while the two of you continue these horrible antics (Jon more so then Kate is being the dink and selfish), and tell them that hey, if they keep on, that the kids will be the custody of the state and placed in a loving nurturing environment away from this hostility until the divorce is finalized, finances are settled. The kids are going to feel like they are being punished here and it just is not fair. They act out for reasons during divorces and after, and it is a cry out for help. BOTH parents are not healthy right now and the tension and stress they both are causing to one another, children are smart, they pick up on that. We all know Jon will toss out snide comments to Kate tomorrow at their party, Kate will try hard for those kids, just as she tried to tell Jon that she felt it would be too stressful for the kids. He has done a lot lately that has hurt his kids, taken things from them, money, fun, TLC, all they knew and so those kids are going to internalize that and feel like they are being punished. The legal teams need to request a new judge, I'd not want a judge that just lost his wife (have compassion for that) but would not want a grieving Judge overseeing my divorce if it was mine. Too many emotions going on here, time to find a Judge that will not have anything that could keep him from making smart choices for this family right now or such heavy emotional distractions. This hostility Jon is showing lately though is frightening. If Kate pushes, he is there pushing harder and in a more mean spirited way. I am on neither side, but I do care about children and they seem to be falling threw the cracks right now in court and out of it in the media while both parents are cracking before our eyes.

1804 days ago
97.

rukiddinme    

2 hours is because that is what standard visitation states (and it is from 6-8). She had agreed to allow them to try and have the party for the kids together, she didn't have to do that! Jon is the one who has made this unworkable. She has rights and is trying to co-parent for the kids sake. You can't do that when the other person is trying to fight.

1804 days ago
98.

Kristine    

There's no such thing as "common courtesy" when your kids are involved. Shared time means they each get the same amount of time. She has no legal right to limit him to two hours. She should also believe that having their father in their lives is much more important now that there is so much stress in the family. By leaving one parent out the kids will be able to pick up on the stress and will feel much worse.

It's called joint legal custody - look it up.

1804 days ago
99.

dakota    

Both should be ashamed of themselves, its your kids birthday. But, really, Jon is a loser, he can't even see that the world is laughing at him. I, myself, would go hide, but he is an adiot and wouldn't dream of it. Just bring on Nancy Grace, she will keep things in line.

1804 days ago
100.

Ha THE TEACHER was taught a lesson    

He complains how he doesn't want to drive to see them for only two hours clear from New York and then drive back to NY, well then dumb@ss you should have got a place closer to your kids and not closer to getting some @ss from Hailey. But no, you chose Hailey over them, and now you blame Kate for sticking up for the kids right now that this may be too much and too stressful, she at least has boundaries and tries to set up healthy boundaries. Jon has NO boundaries and a ton of issues! Get to your shrink Jon more often or get a new one that you don't pay to stroke your inflating ego. He is getting off on trying to be a controlling jerk and get even with Kate, and he does not care what any of his actions and reactions lately are doing to his children. They want a Dad who is responsible, not expensive watches paid with money you stole from the family Jon and then rationalized it as your paycheck!

1804 days ago
101.

bothbad-soendit    

They both have custody. Who fooled you into thinking "Kate doesn't have to let him"? This is ridiculous, get a grip Kate and let the kids see both of you. If you can't handle it then limit yourself to two hours.

1804 days ago
102.

Ha THE TEACHER was taught a lesson    

Kristine you seem like you have knowledge in divorce and custody? LOL

1804 days ago
103.

Redtopp    

I'm liking John more and more...i was on her side; but now i side with him..the kids...and most of all the station...CANCEL THE DAMMMM SHOW!

1804 days ago
104.

Kat    

There will be more stress with Jon and Kate together. Mark my words. They can work out a time when they can share a meeting with their children separately. Kate could have her time, and then Jon could have his time with them. He could spend the night if they acted like adults.

1804 days ago
105.

Unbelievable    

Hailey, Get off of TMZ and do something productive with your life instead of smoking weed and trying to live off of rich, married fame whores.. its obvious you wrote comments #70 and #84.

You are really making more of an ass of yourself than you already have. Your boyfriend is a joke.

1804 days ago
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