Gwen Stefani -- Lady in Red ... Bikini

DOODAD, I don't know why you think Jennifer and I are the same person. Nevermind, that's not important.

What makes you think you are wasting your time? Clarify please.
Of course appearance is very important, especially in the beginning. You have to like what you see. I'm not gonna debate that. But you're writing women off at a much too early age, and not taking into account that you men eventually loose your looks too. Why are you acting so entitled?

And yes, performance/technique/chemistry is more important than beauty. You know how many times I've heard men say that fat and/or ugly girls are more satisfying in bed because they try harder, and are more willing to do anything. The beautiful girls tend to be spoiled and just lie there and expect the man to do all the work.

LOL...I never knew how to take comments like that because I'm quite attractive, if I do say so myself.

DOODAD,

Not to argue or anything, but how is logic and me like oil and water? For example, in my last comment, how am I wrong? I can only speak to my own experience. If you think looks is the only thing that matters, so be it. But don't tell me that I'm not logical because most of the men I've met actually have some substance to them.

Dropped in before I go to bed. What is this business about TorontoSomebody being me?
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"38. Jeff-O-matic,
1) Not everyone is shallow like you, judging people's sex appeal by looks alone. 2) Yes, of course woman eventually loose their looks, BUT SO DO MEN 3) It's pathetic for older woman to still desire sex? Oh, I guess everyone should stop having it at around 40. Is that what you're saying? 4) Did you ever think that maybe a "mature" woman is better in bed than a younger one?

Posted at 9:45PM on Jan 4th 2010 by TorontoWoman"
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I have no idea who she is, although I completely support her point of view. Rock on, TorontoLady.

Let me tell you a sure way to know if someone is actually me: I would NEVER, EVER have a misspelled word in my comment. "...eventually loose their looks..." That is a snippet from one of TorontoLady's posts.

No disrespect intended Ms. Toronto, I say this only to clarify that we are different people, but the correct word and its spelling is "lose." I am a grammatical OCD person and I would never have a misspelling or a grammatical error in my post.

THAT is how you will know if it is me.

Also, I am a former reporter and I do all my writing in AP Style, which is the only correct way to write. I will NEVER write anything outside of AP Style and usually only journalists are intimately familiar with AP Style.

TMZ is only BARELY familiar with it, because I have to correct them on it all of the time.

If something is written that is not AP Style, I didn't write it. And, a poser probably won't know which words are outside of AP Style and will violate the rules and not know it. But, I will know it. If I see someone posing as me, I can easily explain to any of you the mistake in the writing, the AP Style in which it should have been written, and even the page in the AP Stylebook that references said mistake.

So, in summary, I would never spell "lose" "loose" because those are mistakes I simply never make.

No offense intended, Toronto.

And one last thing to the Jeff person who told me not to fly off the handle or whatever it was he said: I will do whatever I darn well please.

Don't tell me what to do. You need to not worry about what I am doing and spend that time reversing the ignorance that permeates your mind.

im kin a nwe hrer so brae with em .

hate people who have to tell others about teh speling. aer yuo twwo stupd 3 raed tsis?

if you dont understand that then your stupid! daaaaaaaaaa

Gwen is so pale...is she okay?

10. She does have a bit of a paunch and there is some excess baggage on her thighs. I can forgive this, though, for two reasons. First, she's 40 years old which is over the hill for a woman (just sexually speaking of course). Also, she's had a kid and a woman's body never ever really bounces back to what it was after childbirth. It doesn't matter how many gyms a woman attends or how many personal trainers she consults...childbirth just changes the body for the worse. She'll never be as tight again or as svelte again. That sucks, but nature isn't fare.

Posted at 7:01PM on Jan 4th 2010 by Steve

'She's over the hill sexually speaking'....???? Haven't been with too many 'older women' have you Steve? Speak for yourself.

Steve has gotta be gay. She is smoking, and for white chicks, she and Courtney Cox are effing smoking hotties at 40.

those are some man legs, she needs some work

She looks pale and timeworn to me. She used to have a banging body. She use to be porn-starlet-hot. What happened? Kids? No excuse. She looks paunchy. Kiss me knobby-wob, Gwen! My flesh-pipe is calling you.

I have to totally disagree with what some of the people on here are saying. Gwen is still totally hot! She looks trim, toned and HEALTHY! Not stick thin and underweight! I'm 26 and pregnant with my first child, I've always been thin, but I hope to look as good as her after having a child! Or 2 for that matter! She looks amazing and you guys really need to lay-off her.