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Mel's Alleged Mistress:

I Have Text Messages

8/15/2010 10:30 PM PDT BY TMZ STAFF

The woman who claims to have been Mel Gibson's mistress at the time of the now-famous January 6 blowout says she was badgered by Mel's bodyguard to keep her mouth shut ... this according to sources who have been in touch with the woman.

Sources say Violet Kowal claims she was communicating with Mel on January 6 about his blowup with Oksana Grigorieva

In the days following -- January 7, 8 and 9 --  Violet Kowal claims she was contacted by one of Mel's bodyguards.  We're told Kowal says the bodyguard sent text messages, warning her that she couldn't talk about the incident and that she should "disappear" for a price.

And sources say Kowal -- who is now repped by Gloria Allred -- has phone records and text messages.

Sources also say ... Kowal claims to have an email she received recently from the L.A. County Department of Children and Family Services, the Sensitive Case Unit, informing her they wanted to speak with her.  So far, we're told, Kowal has not met with anyone from DCFS.


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Squeaky Shoes    

please for the love of god stop posting in all caps... it does not make your post get read any faster than the others... it's actually so annoying, i skip over them... anyone else?

1508 days ago


Oh my, that´s really laughable: Team Mel is about to change their name to Team Truth! Heil Mel!

History has faced misuse of this term so very often, still mobing any challenger aside, what kind of a pathetic step. It takes a lot of guts not to fall in with the dingos, a fair argument was never their way. Might hubris have caused the car incident of your Führer?

Fair enough to support mel by fair means (also I only wish the best for him), but howling with the mob is one thing, searching all aspects of the matter is another.

1508 days ago

Squeaky Shoes    

what does it matter who he slept with anyway... he's not married to ox, he has no obligations other than his child... she can piss off

1508 days ago


hi Sweetheart
more names - Oksa ex manager Victor Kruglov
have Kruglov management -if you look his web name as
Traci Lords come out -pornography queen
Kruglov is russian some as
Oleg Stefan and Oleg Vidov

Kruglov managenet portfolii looks like pornostars
FBI should check connections between Kowal ans Kruglov

did they just tried to kill Mel in car's accident
by "faulse brakes"?

1508 days ago


Time for TMZ to give us another page of polls to vote on about all of this, like:

Is this new skank even relevant?

1508 days ago

Maria Ashot    

no. 1154 -- squeakyshoes --

caps r just nuvva fom of punct


jus' fo' u ah'll 'void 'em 2da

sweetheart -- just getting to yours...



1508 days ago


ROL reports that it is a yet "unnamed" babysitter yet the troll(s) on this board seem to know it. How coincidental is that? LOL

1508 days ago


Here is some info from FOX news re Mel's car crash last night (he is okay):

Mel Gibson acclimated back into L.A. life by getting into a car accident yesterday, law enforcement sources told TMZ.

Sources tell TMZ it happened at 8:35 PM in Malibu.

Gibson, we're told, lost control of his car and ended up striking the rocky hillside on Malibu Canyon Road.

Gibson was driving a 2008 Maserati, which had to be towed from the scene.

Hours before the crash -- photogs shot footage of Gibson driving the Maserati around Malibu.

According to the CHP report, obtained by TMZ, "For unknown reasons, Mr. Gibson steered his car to the right and struck the rock hillside. He stopped his car at the scene and was contacted by officers from the West Valley CHP Area."

CHP Public Information Officer Leland Tang tells TMZ ... "Gibson told officers in the field he did not know how the car drifted out of the lane and into the hillside."

Tang said his officers followed up by asking Gibson if he was on a cell phone and he said no. Tang adds officers also asked Gibson if he had dozed off "but he did not give a firm 'yes' or 'no'."

Gibson just repeated several times, "I don't know how the car left the roadway."

The report goes on, "Mr. Gibson supplied all the pertinent information to the officers at the scene, gave a statement, and received a ride home from a friend."

Gibson was not hurt.

According to the report, "DUI is not suspected in the accident."

1508 days ago

Maria Ashot    


Knowing what I do about this woman, her origins and her circle, everything you say fits the profile.

Makes perfect sense.

Obviously, if the "witness" was at death's door she would not be in a capacity to communicate... The last 2 weeks of my mother's life (died of myelosarcoma) she could not speak at all, and she had no chemo, just radiation -- which by the way did not harm her in any way. Just the cancer alone killed her. She could not speak. She was bed-ridden and had difficulty breathing, walking, sitting up... Could not have signed anything or spoken on the phone, either...

If anyone produces a signed statement or somesuch you know it will be fake. And with the "witness" in the ground, who will be able even to do a voice-print confirmation, even? You could have just about any impostor say anything -- as is regularly the practice in Russian courts even today, when getting reliable courts is like the 2nd or 3rd priority for the state (after dealing with catastrophes and economic recovery).

1508 days ago


searching all aspects of the matter is another.

Posted at 9:49 AM on Aug 16, 2010 by Sorntolc

Would you like me to show the results of the searching done by the sleuths here? I warn you, it will take pages and be a VERY long read.

Miss Oksana's past, her mother and father, her connection to Piotr Listerman and Sergei Kuzman. The interviews both past and of recent occurance in Pravda - inclduing the story by her first mother-in-law. The sysmatic disproving of her various falsehoods concerning herself, mostly recently that "patent" she claimed to hold.

An examination of the men in her life and their thoughts on their relationship with her.

The various versions of her story of what actually occured the night of Jan 6. The allegations of witnesses at the time - 2 of which we know now to not be relevant though the LAPD would obviously have interviewed anyone with any actual knowledge.

The licenses of both the dentist and internist that treated her after the alleged abuse - which how we discovered that Dr. Gordon was not a pediatrician as reported, but an internist.

Some very exhaustive background checking, as much as possible, into some of the Russian influences. Including, but not limited to, the Cinderella process and how that works.

We've looked into Miss Violet and tried to reconcile her various stories and timeline of events as she claimed them.

We've even probed into the allegation that Miss Oksana had shaken the baby and Mr. Mel did not report it - no more than Miss Oksana reported the actions she assigned Mr. Mel. To that end, we researched the symptoms of shaken baby syndrome.

The people here have examined penal codes and court conduct. hey have familiarized themselves with the process of investigation and what constitutes admissable evidence.

We back check each other. If I made a wrong statement, the others would correct me, respectfully or playfully, but never maliciously.

Obsessive? Perhaps. It matters naught to me what names one wishes to call me.

However, do not make the mistake of assuming no research was done. Like Mo and Parker beore you, you continue to harp on the same themes and never once actually examine any of the evidence offered.

Your loss. It merely indicates to me that, despite your claims of education, you can't actually be bothered with learning.

You've the right to state your opinion in anything.

You've also the right to be called out on it.

And in this regard - you are dead wrong.

1508 days ago

Maria Ashot    


Can you -- or anyone -- please tell me who brought listerineman into contact with Mel Gibson?

This is a critical detail. As many details as can be established will be relevant.

Thanks! Catching up on the contributions, will post later.

1508 days ago


PLEASE. You people actually start saying Oksana planned this? And now her statement, if one was taken, could be discounted because she was taking medication?! You people are truly truly beyond disgusting.

Posted at 6:51 AM on Aug 16, 2010 by Anon


I have watched 4 family members die of cancer and in the last few days before they pass with all the toxins building up in their system they are either in a coma or pretty incoherent. So yes it is suspect that this news gets released when the person is probably in the same state, can't verify it and then dies.

They knew she was terminal so why wait until her last days if it was not in fact planned?

1508 days ago


@curious Bravo, my friend!!

now can I have some cheese curls? I'm all out of cookies....


1508 days ago


Shell -

LOL, aw hell, here, have a whole bag. I'm feeling generous.

Psst, but don't tell our Fuddybuddy. =D

1508 days ago


Thank you for that one. Man she looks sick and GREEN skinned. No wonder she piles on the Miss Piggy make up! What a horror show.

Posted at 9:18 AM on Aug 16, 2010 by Sammy

Seeing the pictures of her with the baby sickened me knowing what we know now. She was using the baby for a photo op to promote herself....if it weren't for the baby being Mel's there would be no interest in her.

1508 days ago
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