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Mel's Alleged Mistress:

I Have Text Messages

8/15/2010 10:30 PM PDT BY TMZ STAFF

The woman who claims to have been Mel Gibson's mistress at the time of the now-famous January 6 blowout says she was badgered by Mel's bodyguard to keep her mouth shut ... this according to sources who have been in touch with the woman.

Sources say Violet Kowal claims she was communicating with Mel on January 6 about his blowup with Oksana Grigorieva

In the days following -- January 7, 8 and 9 --  Violet Kowal claims she was contacted by one of Mel's bodyguards.  We're told Kowal says the bodyguard sent text messages, warning her that she couldn't talk about the incident and that she should "disappear" for a price.

And sources say Kowal -- who is now repped by Gloria Allred -- has phone records and text messages.

Sources also say ... Kowal claims to have an email she received recently from the L.A. County Department of Children and Family Services, the Sensitive Case Unit, informing her they wanted to speak with her.  So far, we're told, Kowal has not met with anyone from DCFS.


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And a top o' the monrin' to ya Genna, Shell, Tell and evryone else whose names I'm too slow to catch at the moment. =D

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Oh yeah, I need more coffee. Typoes cavort without pity upon my keyboard.

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hey guys. :)

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Oh gosh! Sounds like another money grubber!!!

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Blowing Harvey ? lol
I don't think so. Maybe if she disguised herself as a man...but I doubt it. lol

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I don't think this latest post is pro-OG in the least. Who would believe that this woman is receiving e-mails from DCFS? It's so laughable. I'd file it along with, "I was in such fear or my life and the life of my children, I flipped on the tape recorder and started to tape the man who was going to kill me." Who was the poster that said that it's like saying when someone is breaking into your house, you break out the camcorder and start filming the guy.

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Thanks Tellthetruth59! Seems like Oksa is trying to pirate TMZ with the latest headlines/lies. She buys Harvey and then sends her minnions in here

@Hahaha - no need to apologize. I'm always game for post with a little heat and truth in it.

Posted at 7:26 AM on Aug 15, 2010 by Tellthetruth59

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Wow! Another pornstar/whore looking for a paycheck claiming mistreatment by [insert Celebrity name here]. What a surprise, Gasp!

So a couple of years ago Mel meets and mates a hot looking euro-troll in a bar, in between divorcing his wife and catching the Oksy virus, I'm not impressed.

I am now slipping back into retirement, I'll check back tonight and skim the 1000+ posts that sift in during the day that will mean nothing. I'm just waiting for the jaws of justice to clear the path of a particular Russian.

Here's a wild prediction, this nasty new skank won't be the last...
Mel's a big target [aka wallet].

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Lol...that "thing" will do anything to get her way...Dressing as a man will do and Harvey won't mind

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Genna -

You have a point. I sort of think of it as paying out rope. =)

Hahaha -

ROL may have their hands full explaining to a judge why they released recordings that were ordered sealed. I imagine they want to get a little space between them and Miss Oksana right about now. TMZ, on the other hand, has no such concerns and can freely report anything not under the court's seal order.

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@Curious LMAO!

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sounds like the poor guy just wanted to get laid. 'Dating' is not meeting a guy at his office, or home for sex. She also mentioned somewhere he gave her money to buy herself things. daah.. hint hint

I said it before and will again. The man was married to a nice woman over half his life, he had no idea what sharks were out there.

poor Mel.

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Just thought a recap was in order for all those newbie ragers who scream that there are no inconsistencies and there is so much proof of abuse... and since anon just loves the list b/c it points out all the lies:

Okskanka's Inconsistencies:
Keep adding as she posts more garbage..

1. I came home and walked in the door to find Mel raging - he jumped on me, hit and choked me, then chased me around with a gun - so that I had to flee barefoot in my nightgown. Hmmm - I thought she just got home? When did she have time in the midst of the chaos to change her clothes?

2. He hit me and broke two of my teeth. Wait, well not really- he knocked two of my veneers out... I don't know why the dentist says there was no trauma to my mouth... but I made sure to mention that MEL GIBSON hit me, only don't tell anyone...

3. Oh, by the way, when he knocked my teeth out (I mean, my veneers - I mean ONE of my veneers) he gave me a concussion. Only I didn't go to a doctor or report him. Wait, I remember now, I DID go to a doctor two days later... making sure to mention that MEL GIBSON HIT ME - only please don't tell anyone.

4. Oh - I almost forgot - he hit the baby too! Did I mention I was holding her? I have a picture of a binkie pimple - I MEAN BRUISE - to prove it. No, I didn't call the police, I was too busy getting me teeth fixed from when I fell down in the backyard - I MEAN, from when Mel hit me, to bother worrying about my ragdoll, I MEAN daughter... ahem.

5. Yes, I did go to several events with Mel immediately following all of this drama - in fact we travelled extensively to promote his new film. Hey, girls just want to have fun, right? What's a little concussion between lovers?

6. I have never had bad relationships before ... oh except for lying about being able to have kids and getting knocked up by Timoth Dalton "by accident" ... OH! That reminds me - my son saw this whole thing - yeah! He was in my bedroom with me while I was freaking out... I MEAN while Mel was beating us... OH! And then there was that other chap who I FAKED TAPES on to get more money. Hey, a girl needs to make a living... and it ain't going to be from my suck ass music!

7. I taped these conversations because I was afraid... although I never called the police or filed for a restraining order... did I mention that I have done this before? Oh, and don't listen to those forensic analysts who are saying the tapes have been doctored. They haven't. Really, I really, really mean it. Want a blow job?
What have I missed?

by peskybarb
8. Oh , I FORGOT to tell you that Mel was enraged b/c he had QUIT, wait, he was enraged b/c he needs MEDICATION, no, er, he's schizophrenic, no....I forgot, he's imbalanced..yes, that's it, he's imbalanced.....he's 'A MONSTER'...that's why I gave him 50/50 custody of my precious mealticket, oh, I mean baby and TRAVELED with him all over the world....because I knew he could hurt us any minute, due to his being so imbalanced and I kept close to him as much as I could and CONTINUED TO LIVE IN HIS HOUSE, so when this erratic, volatile 'monster' decided to harm us, he'd know EXACTLY where we were and find us instantly.

9. Did I tell you how he punched me in the MOUTH, er, no, he punched me in the TEMPLE, er, no, he punched me TWICE, yes, THAT'S IT!, but I was SO INJURED that I went to the dentist to have my VENEERS fixed BEFORE going to a medical doctor...or seeking treatment for the mealticket, er, pawn, er BABY....
Then I went to a PEDIATRICIAN, for MYSELF NOT THE BABY, not the ER doctor, b/c even though two days had passed, I SUDDENLY realized that I had trouble tracking my eyes, after I went to sleep with a concussion (which one should never do)...

10. This is not about money, it's about protecting my ragdoll, er mealticket, er, I MEAN baby from a monster...did I mention that I'm living on BORROWED MONEY and CREDIT CARDS???? but this is NOT about money or revenge for not getting support other than child support...even though I'm still IN Mel's house w/ Mel's CAR and Mel's NANNY...I HAVE NOT A PENNY! I'm only 40, why should I earn a living by myself when I can sell, er, I MEAN not know who sold, pictures of my ragdoll, er baby! ,,so she can grow up and see how much I had HER interest in mind... But as any abuse victim can attest to, I am doing my best to GET AWAY from my abuser, that's why I'm sitting here in HIS house...contacting BOOK EDITORS and PR REPS...

by lee

11. I need lots of lawyers of all kinds - civil law, employment law, intellectual property law, domestic law - to protect my meal ticket, I MEAN baby and to cover the fact that I tried to extort, errr, I MEAN receive child support money from Mel, I mean the monster. I mean, if I get to keep her I get more mula for shoe shopping, well, I MEAN grocery shopping, and it will drive Mel crazy. Wait, he's already crazy, born like this, errr, he is crazy because he quit smoking. Many times he quit smoking, you know, because of me.

by Frieda

12. I need to make corraction to story. My lawyers has advised this since I am being crucified Mel-syle in media. Mel gave daughter big BRUISE on chin, but by bruise I MEAN ABRASION and by abrasion I MEAN MARK. It look like baby rash, but I swear Mel hit daughter, then punched me. He specifically say to me, "I am going to kill you, you Russian whore, but FIRST I need to punch our 2 month old daughther in the chin, so hold on a minute and let me punch her first and then I will get to you!" He is raging Irash man. He drink. He need madication. I did nothing to deserve this. I only not make bed and be lazy and not clean baby very well. (Spelling errors made on purpose.)

by EastCoastChick

13. Oh! I just remember another time he beat me before the first time in January! Wait, he beat the glass and chair, not me, but it doesn't matter as long as he beat and yell. I call Mel's boy in who wonder why I shake and hide. I tell him his daddy mad at him for not liking me then Mel get mad at me for saying it! That not fair!
I even pretend to be good Catholic for him but he still no marry me! Not fair!!

by Sammy

14. Mel put a HIT out on Harvey! Did I forget to mention that?
Yes, he did! he did! You believe me, don't you! Have I EVER LIED to you? I even REPORTED IT TO THE SHERIFF, oh, er, it doesn't matter that the sheriff DENIES THAT, you know how Mel OWNS the sheriff, whereas I'm just this coquetish, naive, violently abused innocent! He was going to go to HARV'S GYM!, it doesn't matter that I got the gym WRONG...who pays attention to such trivial details WHEN HARVEY'S LIFE IS AT STAKE! Mel wanted 'JEW BLOOD on his hands', doesn't that sound like something he would REALLY say! Actor/director by day, ZORRO-LIKE JEW EXTERMINATOR by night....

15. Mel gave me a BLACK EYE! don't you believe me? When have I lied! I know both the DENTIST and the PEDIATRICIAN deny having SEEN such an injury, but I'm telling the truth, honest!I know I NEVER MENTIONED IT BEFORE, and it was never brought up at the prior SHAKEDOWN, er, AGREEMENT, but it REALLY happened, isn't that worth more money?? Can I pleezzz have as much as Robyn does now?????
Want a bj??

16. WITNESSES! I JUST THOUGHT of that, I MEAN REMEMBERED that!! I've had witnesses who SAW EVERYTHING! Nevermind that no one called 911, aren't you listening to my story, I MEAN truth? I know IT'S BEEN 6 MOS. to hear about this, but I've had a lot on my mind, my MUSIC, my BOTOX, my PR/LAWYER SHOPPING! What's a girl to do? I am an accomplished musician who had hundreds of thousands and a THRIVING career pre-Mel, and now my friends bring me food! BUT this is NOT about money!Where did I put that civil atty's number?
17. I always break out the recording equipment when I fear for my life. If someone’s breaking into my house, the first thing I grab is the camcorder. If someone’s calling and threatening to kill me, I grab the tape recorder. Then I call my lawyer and the local news stations. Isn’t that what everybody does? I guess just those of us interested in justice, I like to have proof when I don’t go to the police.

Posted at 11:36 AM on Jul 30, 2010 by Scooby

18. Oh yes! The 'other' ho , I mean 'witness', got an e-mail from DCFS!!! Never mind that govt. agencies DON'T E-MAIL...
and she has a reputable LAWYER, Gloria Allred!

19. Oh I forgot to mention, there was a STAGE 4 CANCER babysitter there as well, wait, she left me alone w/ this volatile, murderous man, b/c she was so 'in fear of' him, so she left Lucia and I alone w/ him, and waited 6 mos to come forward...never mind that there already was a nanny, the pool guy, the dubbing mixer, etc AT THE 'INCIDENT', there were EVEN MORE 'witnesses', they just got lost on the way to the police station...

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Geez this forum is up to a post a minute now. I'm upping my over/under prediction for today to 1500 posts.


: )

Always TEAM MEL!

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Lee -

LMAO! It just keeps getting longer, doesn't it?

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