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Mel Gibson, Oksana Grigorieva

Settlement Hits a Roadblock

10/17/2011 9:42 AM PDT BY TMZ STAFF

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Oksana Grigorieva just made a beeline for family court after her settlement with Mel Gibson hit a snag ... TMZ has learned.

As TMZ first reported, Oksana and Mel struck a deal in which Oksana would walk away with $750,000, the house she's living in, and some other stuff. In return, she'll leave Mel alone.  They also agreed to 50/50 custody of Lucia.

The settlement agreement is scheduled to go before the family court judge tomorrow for final approval, but we're told the lawyers are still fighting over how it's worded and they've reached a stalemate.

Our sources say Mel's lawyers asked the judge for more time so they can hash it out, but Oksana showed up to court this morning to fight the request ... because she wants the deal done STAT.

Judge Scott Gordon gave Mel and Oksana an extension to sort out their differences -- but only until November 1st ... less time than Mel's people were hoping for.

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151.

Firefly    

Hi Ox,

My faithful dislike vote.

1011 days ago
152.

Firefly    

OK dislike vote what did I say that was against Ox? What did I say but what might be the truth about not wanting to be alone? Do you even read my posts before hitting the dislike button or are you just a negative thinking person that sees everything in the negative. Try thinking happy thoughts for once, you'll like it.

1011 days ago
153.

Belinda    

I have to say it. It’s really funny. I think TMZgossip, Cujo, 2idiots(but I think there are more in there) and maybe even Sincerity ARE THE NEW FRAU/FLOCK.

Everything they have been spouting about everyone else here THEY HAVE BECOME.

I used to laugh at our own tin foil hat theories, but these 4 win the trophy hands down.

Next thing they spout is Mel was staggering around drunk, trying to seduce prostitutes in the streets, for a whole week and his father wasn’t in the hospital but was on vacation somewhere. Oh and little Lucia was left all alone in the house with a bag of cookies to fend for herself and Oksana was frantically driving around LA searching for Lucia.

Cujo is even seeing Stella everywhere now.
Cujo … I have to ask … do you see dead people too?
Do you think maybe it could have been a relatives or a family friend?

Come on you guys, Oksana knows where her meal ticket is at all times if you say she is such a good mother. You don’t think that she talks to her daughter everyday? She just saw an opportunity to make noise when Mel had the fender bender. Her whole little stunt this time was about that fender bender and trying to use it to her advantage. A fender bender can happen anywhere anytime, can have one just pulling out of your driveway. As far as the dinner and karoke singing stuff. Think about it for one minute. Don’t you think the Oksana and her lowers would have used that instead. Don’t you think they are just waiting to catch a picture of Mel with a drink in his hand to run to the judge and say Mel is drinking again yada yada yada.


About the amount of time Mel spent in Arizona, none of you can put a time on it, because no one knows. All you have is … a dinner (with a big tip) … some really fussy picture in a bar that shows nothing … a minor car accident the next morning. That’s it.


About Mel visiting his father in the hospital. If you ever had a loved one in the hospital you would know that you can’t just hang the patient’s bed. Hell in intensive care you can only be maximum of 2 people at one time, everyone else has to wait in the waiting area for their turn. And that is a big family. No babies allowed, no small children allowed. And when visiting time is over, you have to go. They tell you to cause the staff have to do their rounds and then all the patients have to sleep. So could it be possible for you to understand that let’s say Mel went in the evening to visit with his father, had to leave when visiting hours were over, left went for some dinner and the folks he was with tried take him somewhere to relax a bit for a few hours. The next morning was maybe he was heading back to the hospital again when he had that fender bender. He might even have been back home with little Lucia by dinner time that evening. He’s probably been going back and forth regularly for a while. Fours days is long time to be away from a loved one who is in the hospital, especially considering the age of his father.

1011 days ago
154.

em    

em: less than a minute ago
Sincerety,
how about Ms G involving 40+ lawyers in her efforts to "nail" Mel Gibson and thus implicating them all in her efforts to gain financially. Now, how do you think "reputable" lawyers would react when they reaslised that was what they were being sucked into? A number of them jumped ship and would not play. The judge was friendly with Eric George, who, no doubt, Ms G would have implicated. So easier to say there was insufficient evidence. Ms G also had a computer expert (Sperto??) check out her laptop before it was passed to the police. And when Mel's lawyers wanted more access to her laptop, she withdrew her DV charges. That was after reputable DV organisations publicly stated that they wanted nothing to do with her.
I am sure there is more ....
Em

1011 days ago
155.

canook    

Sincerity
must be looking into a mirror when wrote:
..."Your "WHINNY" "NEUROTIC AZZ" post only confirms there is "SUBSTANCE" to some of the items that are discussed that don't conform to the "DELUSIONAL" groupie mentality of the "LUNATIC FRINGE"!!! As far as the LASD's extortion investigation is concerned, IT'S A CLOSED MATTER!!! The district attorney refused to prosecute the case due to the lack of a "SMOKING GUN"!!! IT IS WHAT IT IS!!! Any normal "RATIONAL" adult would simply "ACCEPT THESE FACTS" and STOP BEATING A DEAD HORSE!!! Perhaps, if you actually had the ABILITY TO "READ & COMPREHEND", you wouldn't be so damn offended by conversations that don't support your woefully "ONE SIDED" perceptions. Slamming people you don't like WON'T CHANGE REALITY!!!..."
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why?
can not you just comprehend that
Mel Gibson is a good father and his 50/50 custody is
done deal with Oksana's signature on it.
Just b/c Oksana changed her mind again
same as with May agreement and want more $$$$$ from Mel
did not give you Sincerity any right to
harass and put down sincere Mel supporters

1-pictures from bar with Stella?
are they from same source as edited tapes?
2-pictures from car accident in Arizona?
Cujeaux was talking about pictures from last year..
3-REALITY IS
Oksana agreed and signed August 31 deal and Oksana supposed to seal peace deal on October 18 and
b/c of Oksana and her pro-media friends it was changed to November 1...

we just have to pray and hope that
this time Oksana would not get so easy to disobey and disrespect court order..
for Larry King interview Oksana was "punished" by court
taking $$ from her child support (re Ludmilla interview)

hopefully this time Oksana would have to return some of those first $250 000 she already accepted .....

1011 days ago
156.

middleagedcrazy    

The thought occurred to me that perhaps this is the new moneymaking venture for the piano player -- notifying her 'pap' friends where Mr. Gibson is going to be at any given time. The kid is getting too old to reliably keep her in the facial frame with her and I'm sure there is a provision that the child is not to be exploited for photops.

Just a stray thought on this gloomy day. * + * + *

1011 days ago
157.

Scott    

Mel had the bad sense to sleep with her- while married AND get her pregnant. The real victim will be the child. Raised in a broken home.

1011 days ago
158.

corp    

All she is is a slut.She goes after rich men has a child with tem to get money and other material possessions.Just look at her previous relationship.

1011 days ago
159.

2idiots    

Scott: 40 minutes ago
Mel had the bad sense to sleep with her- while married AND get her pregnant. The real victim will be the child. Raised in a broken home.
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@ Scott, so true. But also think about his x-wife of 28 yrs who stood by him thru thick or thin (of course she got about 250 to 300 million in the divorce settlement) and his 7 children all of whom had to face the public humiliation of what Mel did.

Of course the frau flock will claim it's all OG's fault yet, OG had NOTHING to do with Mel's 2006 DUI and anti-semetic rants, nor was she responsible for his verbal assault against gays, blacks and latinos.

1010 days ago
160.

Curious    

Howdy Folks :)
Shout Out and hugs to all the "Sleuths".

I read about the fender-bender in AZ. Police on scene, no one cited, no one harmed - such things happen everyday, no biggy. I hope Mr. Hutton recovers.

As to Miss Oksana, well, um, yeah . . . Did anyone really expect her to take this relatively measely little settlement quietly? In her defense, however, I don't blame her for wanting the money quickly - she does have bills to pay to her former attornies.

I have a suspicion - opinion only - that part of the language problem with the settlement has to do with Alexander. Miss Oksana claimed $100,000 was Mr. Mel's "settlement" to Alexander for "traumatizing" him. If she can get that in a legal do***ent, it opens the door for her to pursue a civil suit on Alexander's behalf.

Nov. 1 seems a reasonable amount of time for Mr. Mel's lawyers to draw up a simple, iron-clad settlement based upon the agreed terms. If Miss Oksana doesn't like it, then let her file an objection. Again. As usual.

1010 days ago
161.

Alicia    

There you go again Sin, making the rest of us look good. Ha ha ha ha!

And I'm not in the least offended by your stories Sin. I find that they enlighten everyone that reads them about ultimate hypocrisy! Yours and Oksas. Especially this latest reply. It's priceless. :) :) :)

Your rationale is the constant criticism of others by transferring your own flaws onto them! Therapy may help, but I suspect you are just nasty and vindictive and in love with yourself. Your reality is based on a liar of epic proportions - Oksa.

Try this piece of reality: Oksa got away with extortion and if the sheriffs office had proof of it before, they still have proof. It's just sitting on a shelf in the police station collecting dust, but they won't throw it away because it's still possible for her skankinesss to be prosecuted. The case is not closed, yet.

BTW I loved what you said about me. From you, it's a compliment. I especially loved the part where you say to accept the facts. The fact is you have no facts, just lies.

Can you show us more of your reality. Please?? In the meantime while you grovel there, throwing gravel, we can revisit some more of Oksas lies. Stay tuned.

1010 days ago
162.

Sincerity    

em: 6 hours ago

em: less than a minute ago
Sincerety,
how about Ms G involving 40+ lawyers in her efforts to "nail" Mel Gibson and thus implicating them all in her efforts to gain financially. Now, how do you think "reputable" lawyers would react when they reaslised that was what they were being sucked into? A number of them jumped ship and would not play. The judge was friendly with Eric George, who, no doubt, Ms G would have implicated. So easier to say there was insufficient evidence. Ms G also had a computer expert (Sperto??) check out her laptop before it was passed to the police. And when Mel's lawyers wanted more access to her laptop, she withdrew her DV charges. That was after reputable DV organisations publicly stated that they wanted nothing to do with her.
I am sure there is more ....
Em
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Why some of you "LUNATICS" continue to "BEAT A DEAD HORSE" is simply "ASTOUNDING". Has it ever occurred to "ANY OF YOU" that even "wealthy" people have to "CHOOSE THEIR BATTLES CAREFULLY"!!! If Team Gibson actually wanted to go after Ole Greedy in "CIVIL" court, they could have but what would they have "GAINED" except more "ADVERSE" publicity. REMEMBER, regarding her alleged DV charges, he negotiated a "plea bargain" and pleaded "NO CONTEST and accepted 3 years probation, counseling and community service for a much lesser charge. All of this was done to lay this entire matter to rest because "NONE OF THE LEGAL EAGLES" mentioned above wanted to implicate each other. At some point in time, "EVERYONE" has to "CUT THEIR LOSSES" and "MOVE ON"!!! A new custody agreement has been negotiated but I'm almost certain Ole Greedy will "RENEGE" on this one also because she wants MORE MONEY and is looking for a "LOOP HOLE" to threat additional lawsuits, if she's NOT PAID!!! Close up the "LOOP HOLES" and she "WON'T SIGN"!!! The likelihood of her "CHANGING FOR THE BETTER" isn't promising. The only way to deal with a "DELUSIONAL", "VINDICTIVE" person is to give them "ABSOLUTELY NOTHING" to throw in your face. Once they realize there's nothing to be gained by "RATTLING YOUR CAGE", they'll move on to something else. This is why personal "DISCIPLINE" AND "DISCERNMENT" are very important. It's always much better to "AVOID" a potential problem than to "FIGHT" your way out of one.

1010 days ago
163.

Sincerity    

canook: 7 hours ago

Sincerity
must be looking into a mirror when wrote:
..."Your "WHINNY" "NEUROTIC AZZ" post only confirms there is "SUBSTANCE" to some of the items that are discussed that don't conform to the "DELUSIONAL" groupie mentality of the "LUNATIC FRINGE"!!! As far as the LASD's extortion investigation is concerned, IT'S A CLOSED MATTER!!! The district attorney refused to prosecute the case due to the lack of a "SMOKING GUN"!!! IT IS WHAT IT IS!!! Any normal "RATIONAL" adult would simply "ACCEPT THESE FACTS" and STOP BEATING A DEAD HORSE!!! Perhaps, if you actually had the ABILITY TO "READ & COMPREHEND", you wouldn't be so damn offended by conversations that don't support your woefully "ONE SIDED" perceptions. Slamming people you don't like WON'T CHANGE REALITY!!!..."
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why?
can not you just comprehend that
Mel Gibson is a good father and his 50/50 custody is
done deal with Oksana's signature on it.
Just b/c Oksana changed her mind again
same as with May agreement and want more $$$$$ from Mel
did not give you Sincerity any right to
harass and put down sincere Mel supporters
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AS LONG AS YOU "LUNATICS" INSIST UPON ATTACKING OTHERS WHO DON'T AGREE WITH YOUR "MYOPIC", "IRRATIONAL" PERCEPTIONS OF REALITY -- I'M GOING TO "CHECK YOU" UP & DOWN!!! IF YOU THINK YOU CAN VERBALLY "BULLY" ME OFF THIS BOARD -- THEN THINK AGAIN!!!

1010 days ago
164.

THE BEAVER    

Wow! Someone is wound way to tight and looking for a fight where there isn't any. I say you go stand in front of a mirror and look your ownself up and down, buddy.

1010 days ago
165.

Bunny that earns scooby snacks!    

That's right everyone. Roll over and just TAKE what the haters have to dish out, all THEIR insults, ALL their stupidity. TAKE IT TAKE IT AND TAKE IT some more. DO NOT insult back. WE, the FLOCK, have NO RIGHT to INSULT ANYONE BACK. Now just hush UP!


heh. It LOOKS good THERE FOR I KNOW it is FORCEFUL and IT WILL WORK to SHUT them UP ONCE And FOR ALL! Oh wait "" yeah, needs "SOME OF THESE" sure that LOOKS SO much "MORE" authoritative. THEY 'WILL' LISTEN.

hehehehhehe :)

1010 days ago
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