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Mel Gibson, Oksana Grigorieva

Settlement Hits a Roadblock

10/17/2011 9:42 AM PDT BY TMZ STAFF

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Oksana Grigorieva just made a beeline for family court after her settlement with Mel Gibson hit a snag ... TMZ has learned.

As TMZ first reported, Oksana and Mel struck a deal in which Oksana would walk away with $750,000, the house she's living in, and some other stuff. In return, she'll leave Mel alone.  They also agreed to 50/50 custody of Lucia.

The settlement agreement is scheduled to go before the family court judge tomorrow for final approval, but we're told the lawyers are still fighting over how it's worded and they've reached a stalemate.

Our sources say Mel's lawyers asked the judge for more time so they can hash it out, but Oksana showed up to court this morning to fight the request ... because she wants the deal done STAT.

Judge Scott Gordon gave Mel and Oksana an extension to sort out their differences -- but only until November 1st ... less time than Mel's people were hoping for.

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106.

2idiots    

Cujeaux: less than a minute ago
Hi Sinc: Another thing I'd like Frieda to enlighten us with is this - If Giblitz was in fact in Arizona ONLY to visit his father, why not bring his daughter along to visit her grandfather?
After all his legal wranglings, proclamations and fan support, he has the nerve to dump that baby with a nanny for 4 days and take off. I wonder how much history this nanny has with either parent, esp. considering that Ox has spent almost all of her time with the baby. *disgusting*
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Cujeaux,

Had Giblitz brought the kid along it would have put the damper on his night out of drinking (and be photographed) in bar (until some 130am). HAD Lucia been there he would have been stuck in hotel room but he could have kept up his ongoing lie about sobriety. BUT she wasnt and HE was in a bar....DRINKING.

Since we're hearing more and more the the "God of the Flock" is drinking, its obvious to those who arent brainwashed he's NOT sober. Even Fidel's Niece has commented a number of times about him still drinking.

To that one can only say "tee-hee with sparkles). OH and Frieda is ONE NASTY (you pick the word), I remember her saying to "JUST SAYIN" that Mel's business is no one's to discuss yet she and flock blab on and on and on about it.

1068 days ago
107.

Firefly    

Cujeaux,

If Ox left Lucia for four days and went out of state like Mel did it wouldn't be to see her sick dad in the hospital. Which is a legit reason. Her being gone would be something sinister that she is cooking up against Mel, or she was trying to scam some new guy. Or she was shacking up with a lawyer to see things her way (wink wink) or to make payments on money already owed since she doesn't have a job....(this is where I start whistling and staring up at the sky) Everyone knows she has done all the above before, you know the scamming, shacking up, not working.
What say you Cujeaux, am I not right?

1068 days ago
108.

Tellthetruth59    

Um.... I don't believe Gibson can take the baby out of state without Ox's written permission. He has every right to visit his sick dad out of state and leave the child in the nanny's care.. Could he have left the baby with Ox? Sure. I don't believe he's under any legal obligation to do so and I don't blame him for not wanting to. She has a son putting his fists through Frank Lloyd Wright stained glass windows while trying to "steady himself"... whoops... no... "closing the door to hard."

1068 days ago
109.

Fidel's niece    

@ Coujeaux

Get the FACTS RIGHT

where does it say that Mel was in
Arizona for 4 days? O$kanky told
you or ROL???

TMZ reported Oct 11
Monday Oct 10 Mel's fender bender in Phoenix
(MINOR DAMAGE TO BOTH CARS)

Monday night Oct 10
Dinner in Scotttsdale at the Ital.rest
(The Bravo Bistro)

Monday/Tues. early morning 1.15 am Oct 11
Mel at the Geisha a Go Go singing karaoke

that's it! so stop making up nonsense...

There was MINOR DAMAGE IN THE FENDER BENDER
YET YOU ARE POSTING THAT YOU SAW THE PICTURES
WITH MAJOR DAMAGES...

Liar, liar your pants are
always on fire!

1068 days ago
110.

Bunny that earns scooby snacks!    

Yeah cuz the reasons he probably didn't take Lucy with him HAVEN't been discussed at all, have they? *rolling eyes*

Reading comprehension FAIL, cuji cuji coo.

1068 days ago
111.

Firefly    

Fidel's niece,

I guess Coujeaux and Ox have something in common then, except that Ox's are pink panties on fire.

1067 days ago
112.

Cujeaux    

Hi 2I's. It goes back to the 'cult mentality' that flock suffers from. The 'rules' only appy to Ox. Mel can drink, abandon his baby and do whatever he wants. I wish I had a nickel for every 'baby shaking' comment they have made about Ox, which always seemed like a ludicrous excuse for him smacking her in the face in front of her son. The truth is coming out that she's been the more responsible, sober parent who has her emotions in check. She took her lumps in court and gave him a chance to do right by his baby and he still can't handle it.


I think the drinking blocks out all of the wrongs he has committed in an attempt to salvage his rep. He knows she got a raw deal. Everybody knows. And he's back to the usual self flagelation.


Firefly: It's nice to fantasize about Ox doing what Mel did. Hope you enjoyed it. Now reality is calling. Come back, come back, where ever you are.

1067 days ago
113.

igotfleasfromtmz    

I get it .. she is desperate now. She has no income unless Mel signs the dotted line.

1067 days ago
114.

Firefly    

Cujeaux,
The truth is coming out that she's been the more responsible, sober parent who has her emotions in check.
_______________________________________________________

Are you kidding me? Really? I have laid out every irresponsible thing this Vile Beast has done and there were many Cuj. And what is this about keeping her emotions in check? Right! Running out into the street with an infant while her son bleeds all over the place screaming like a banshee. The only reason she shows no emotions is because she is on drugs. thirty pills a day to be exact, so said by her own mother. So lets not go there OK.
No fantasy here Cuj just the facts.

1067 days ago
115.

2idiots    

Cujeaux,

I think the flock is a bit uptight today. It's about 20 after 3 out here and still no news on today's little visit to court.

As far as custody and MG's going out of town, I'm confident that MG/OG have an agreement in place that prohibit's Lucia from leaving the state w/out the consent of either parent. I'd bet on the fact that the agreement also stipulates that if either parent can not "fulfill his/her "obligation during visitation" the OTHER parent is to have Lucia.

Now, I wonder if RDJ went to court today w/ Mel to speak on his behalf (it would only seem fitting that he pleads to the mercy of the court)

1067 days ago
116.

Sincerity    

2idiots: 8 minutes ago

Cujeaux: less than a minute ago
Hi Sinc: Another thing I'd like Frieda to enlighten us with is this - If Giblitz was in fact in Arizona ONLY to visit his father, why not bring his daughter along to visit her grandfather?
After all his legal wranglings, proclamations and fan support, he has the nerve to dump that baby with a nanny for 4 days and take off. I wonder how much history this nanny has with either parent, esp. considering that Ox has spent almost all of her time with the baby. *disgusting*
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Cujeaux,

Had Giblitz brought the kid along it would have put the damper on his night out of drinking (and be photographed) in bar (until some 130am). HAD Lucia been there he would have been stuck in hotel room but he could have kept up his ongoing lie about sobriety. BUT she wasnt and HE was in a bar....DRINKING.

Since we're hearing more and more the the "God of the Flock" is drinking, its obvious to those who arent brainwashed he's NOT sober. Even Fidel's Niece has commented a number of times about him still drinking.

To that one can only say "tee-hee with sparkles). OH and Frieda is ONE NASTY (you pick the word), I remember her saying to "JUST SAYIN" that Mel's business is no one's to discuss yet she and flock blab on and on and on about it.
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Hi Guys:


I completely understand where you're both coming from but taking a toddler out-of-state to visit a very ill somewhat "OLD" person wouldn't have been a good idea even if both parents were on much better terms. For starters, due to Lucia's age, she may not have been allowed by the hospital to visit her grandfather while he's an impatient. Too many people contract serious infections in hospitals and his immune system may have been too compromised to risk the exposure. Furthermore, Lucia is still very young and may not have received all her shots to protect her from the usual childhood diseases. Exposing her to a chronically ill person may have put her health at risk, too. Furthermore, I know from experience that dealing with a "very sick" or "dying" parent will make you an absolute "nervous" wreck. Lucia's presence wouldn't have helped the situation because she would have sensed the "anxiety" and "stress" emanating from the adults and more than likely would have become "whiny"!!! Considering the situation, she was much better off being left in California surrounded by "familiar" care givers. She wouldn't have understood what was going on, anyway!!!

1067 days ago
117.

Firefly    

Sincerity,

Thank you for explaining that so well. I have been practically living at two different hospitals the last two weeks and children were not allowed on the floor I was on.

1067 days ago
118.

2idiots    

middleagedcrazy: 4 minutes ago
I would like to take up with you the use of my own emoticons -- tee hee and sparklies. Most of the time I am pretty good humored about quotes (such flattery), but could you please find your own? Tee hee * + * + *
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Tee-Hee-Hee with Glitter +*+*+

1067 days ago
119.

TMZgossip    

beater boi was out in Arizona huggin the cactus and dropping peyote buttons

1067 days ago
120.

Frieda    

@TMZg Jealous? Here you are the woman-hater getting off beating up "fraus" for kicks again. Wife threw you out again, eh? There are treatments for what ails you Get help.

1067 days ago
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