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Pilar Sanders SLAMS Deion

He's a No-Good CHEATER

... and a MEGA-Narcissist

1/17/2012 3:12 PM PST BY TMZ STAFF

Pilar Sanders mad at Deion
Pilar Sanders
just filed EXPLOSIVE new court documents in her divorce from Deion Sanders -- claiming the NFL star is a narcissistic "bully" who cheated on her with multiple people.

In the docs, obtained by TMZ, Pilar states her husband of 12 years "has been guilty of unkind, uncaring, insensitive, cruel and unusual treatment of [Pilar] ... as well as physical, mental and emotional abuse of [Pilar] and the parties' children."

Pilar says the divorce should be granted on grounds of "mental, emotional and physical abandonment."


Pilar adds, "[Deion] committed numerous acts of adultery ... on numerous occasions throughout the marriage." Just to be clear, she adds, "[Deion] voluntarily had sexual intercourse with others who were not his spouse."

It gets nastier ... she adds, "[Deion] is a bully" ... who "suffers from a narcissistic personality disorder, needs a full psychological evaluation."

In the docs, filed today in Texas, Pilar claims Deion also needs a parenting coach to teach him how to be a better father. 

Now, on to the money -- Pilar claims the judge should throw out their prenup ... and award Pilar a lion's share of the estate ... because she feels she was duped into signing the deal while under duress.

In the docs, Pilar requests sole legal custody of the couple's three mutual children ... claiming Deion is a bad, absentee father.

Pilar is also asking for exclusive access to the couple's mega-mansion in Texas ... meaning she wants Deion to finally pack his stuff and get out.

TMZ broke the story ... Deion filed for divorce first back in December ... and later said he was on good terms with Pilar.

Apparently, he was wrong.

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76.

qtpiebme    

Really Pilar?! He's a narcissist? Nooooo, i'm shocked! So were you when you all were together living happily as husband and wife on your reality show! Disappear, the both of you!

920 days ago
77.

mspritzee    

Pilar you knew Deion ( "has been guilty of unkind, uncaring, insensitive, cruel and unusual treatment of [Pilar] ... as well as physical, mental and emotional abuse of [Pilar] and the parties' children.")was all of those things and yet you only introduce them at Divorce time? WOW who is the real manipulative one? I am not here to pass judgement but who is advising you? Hopefully you obtained therapy at some point for the allegations mentioned above.Thats what people do when in abusive situations such as the ones you mentioned! Deion is a smart arrogant man and this ploy will not work if you have not establised some history of the abuse in question. Treatment/therapy would have been an excellent way to do***ent the alledged abuse. Your comments appear really suspicious because know one ever heard of this. I just hope this is not a ploy to obtain money from a divorce.

920 days ago
78.

Why people, why?    

Can someone tell me why everyone has their mouth open in all these frames? Not flattering...

920 days ago
79.

pennyhill    

His older son is a low-life? The kid is a senior in high school, and from everything I've ever read or heard about him, he's a good kid...respectful, good grades, doesn't drink or do drugs, well liked at his high school. His daughter can use an attitude adjustment & shouldn't have publicly bashed her step-mom on Twitter, but let's be serious. She's going to defend her father, and why should these children have any "love" for Pilar
Let's not forget that Pilar was once Deion's mistress, so yes, this is the pot calling the kettle black. Pilar was the "other woman" when Deion was married to his first wife.
If he cheats WITH YOU, why wouldn't he cheat on you? Wake up women. WAKE UP! Karma is a bitch!

919 days ago
80.

Faye    

I must come to Deon defense and no I am not a bitter lady. How can one stay married to anyone for as long as they did now he is this and that. Her attorney needs to advise her not to speak because, she is not showing a good example as a mother. Deon never said anything negative about her. Pilar sorry, you signed the prenump and not you have to live with that decision...

916 days ago
81.

Grietje    

Considering how she came into this relationship I'd say she got just what she wanted... a man that'd leave his wife and family for the next best hoochie.

916 days ago
82.

Widemouth    

Do you know if you are being controlled by a Narcissist? http://www.squidoo.com/whos-pulling-your-strings

915 days ago
83.

Mecq    

Pilar was not concerned about his or her morality when he was cheating with her while married to Carolyn.....!!!!!

912 days ago
84.

polina    

Very sad to hear about the sanders. best wishes to the kids.

909 days ago
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