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Singer Frank Ocean

My First Love Was a Man

7/4/2012 8:45 AM PDT BY TMZ STAFF
breaking news

Kanye West collaborator Frank Ocean -- from the rap group Odd Future -- has just declared he is gay ... or bisexual.

The revelation makes him the first hip hop star to publicly address a sexual attraction to men.

Ocean -- who collaborated with Kanye and Jay-Z on "Watch the Throne" -- posted the long, dense message on his Tumblr this morning, writing, "Four summers ago, I met somebody. I was 19 years old. He was too."

"We spent that summer, and the summer after, together. Everyday almost. And on the days we were together, time would glide. Most of the day I'd see him, and his smile.”

“Sleep I would often share with him. By the time I realized I was in love, it was malignant. It was hopeless. There was no escaping, no negotiating to the women I had been with, the ones I cared for and thought I was in love with.”

He added, “I don't have any secrets I need kept anymore ... I feel like a free man.”

There has been a lot of intolerance in the hip hop world toward gays and bisexuals, so Frank's disclosure has enormous importance. It will be a bellwether for other stars who are considering coming out.

Frank's Odd Future band mate Tyler the Creator tweeted after Frank posted the message, writing, "My Big Brother Finally F***ing Did That. Proud Of That N***a Cause I Know That Shit Is Difficult Or Whatever."


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ima toole    

Are Kanye West and Tracy Morgan gay?

805 days ago


I commend him!! Hopefully someday soon a person's sexual orientation will what it should ...... their own personal business ..... and not effect their chosen career.
And for you religious fanatics..... God made us all, who are you to question or judge Him ?

805 days ago

go home!    

Good for him, everyone should be comfortable in their own skin, but for it being headline worthy? I don't even know who this man is and never heard of him.

805 days ago


"sleep I would often share with him" whf?

805 days ago


Dirtbag ***s like you spread AIDs to decent straight people!

805 days ago

Ki lo     

Good for Frank Ocean!!! I love his music and that's all that matters.

805 days ago


Lots of black singers and rappers are living life on the 'down low'. They aren't coming out because of the repercussions. Just google the ones rumored to be gay, it's a long list.

805 days ago

Homie G.    

He's such a ****sucker.

805 days ago


Wow, just read those excerpts and what an extremely gay sounding letter. Eh *shrug*

But good for him though. Land of the free.

805 days ago

Eric W    

I like boobies, i don't get it.

805 days ago


What's with all these mass revelations ( not just in music)! Interesting year indeed;)!

805 days ago


What is with all these mass revelations;)!

805 days ago


That might be the end of his rap career then

805 days ago


First of all, TMZ has the worse website design on the planet. The website is too graphic intensive and confusing to navigate through. I have never heard of this guy. If he likes men that is his business. I don't see the point in telling everybody you are gay. Now that you know what difference does it make in your life?

805 days ago


First, my respect to him for this move. To avoid more wasted years of tabloid gossip, rumors and coming out on HIS terms with dignity and self respect, I've not heard of him before now but I can only imagine he is agreat lyricist. Take the path of TRUTH and FREEDOM and not lies and hiding from fans with beards and PR whitewashing. Again, good for him. Hope this helps others especially young men in the black community.

805 days ago
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