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Gia Allemand

Boyfriend Said 'I Don't Love You Anymore'

8/20/2013 2:15 PM PDT BY TMZ STAFF
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"Bachelor" contestant Gia Allemand had a fight with her boyfriend hours before she killed herself, and he told her "I don't love you anymore."

Gia had accused NBA basketball player Ryan Anderson of being unfaithful during lunch the day she died.  During the ride back to her house -- where they stopped at a Walgreens to get her NyQuil --  Gia told Ryan she still loved him but then he dropped the bombshell about his feelings.

We broke the story ... Gia hanged herself in her New Orleans home.  According to official docs -- obtained by TMZ -- Gia used a vacuum cleaner cord to end her life.  It was tied to the center section of her spiral staircase and tied to the handrail on the second floor.

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It appears Gia was on the phone with her mom when she hanged herself.  Her mom told cops during the call the phone "had gone silent" and the mother tried in vain to communicate with her for 10 minutes.

Ryan went back to the house to check on Gia, and found her sitting on the stairs with the cord "wrapped around her neck many times."  She had been without oxygen for 30-40 minutes.

Gia left a suicide note on the dining room table and in it left all of her property to her mother.

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106.

AllAmerican    

What a coward. Just weak!

241 days ago
107.

justpoopy    

now we know why this emotionally unstable, talentless chaotic tramp can not hold on to a man...heh,heh,heh---good riddance...

241 days ago
108.

strunz2318    

What a shame! Nobody telling you they don't love you anymore is worth killing yourself. Tell them to go F- themselves and find someone better.

241 days ago
109.

Sandra     

I am sure this guy tried to do the right thing and Gia would not let go!!! Gia obviously had serious mental health issues along with suicidal ideation !! I hope this guy does not feel any guilt and is able to move on.

241 days ago
110.

Gussie    

Gia made poor choices in men and most men are poor choices for healthy relationships. Women, if you're not married -- stop playing sexual and romantic intimacy monogamy. It works against you. You are either on the bus or off the bus. You are either married or single. If he loves you he will marry you now if you want.. Until then he thinks he is a free agent even if you do not. He does not want you to have equality - this is control. Men are competitors. Women want sharing partners.sharers.

241 days ago
111.

anny b brooks    

It is to bad, there were emotional problems no doubt. We don't know why he broke up with her, but to kill yourself over a man? We have to think and really think. Whatever the problem he feels bad i'm sure, but he is going to continue on with his life, and her Mom is going to be broken hearted for e v e r.....

240 days ago
112.

jhall-72    

Gia was a beautiful person. I did not know her personally but loved everything about her from seeing her on television, etc. What has to be realized is that behind suicide, are deep rooted issues that sometimes an individual can not deal with without therapy and support. Did this guy telling her he didn't love her do it? No, but it didn't help. She must have struggled with rejection and perfection in all she did. Her issues are deep rooted just like all of us in some form or another. We are all just finding our way in life. Sometimes, it is too much. The world can be cruel and some don't have the tools they need. I wish she hadn't committed suicide. I am very upset over it. But, I don't think bashing her is the right thing. She obviously did that to herself enough. What is sad is that life opens windows for every one shut and she didn't get a chance to experience the next. One more day...one more week... that is all we need to do when things are going our way. It always turns around. In closing, her family deserves support. Bashing Gia is not supporting her family.

240 days ago
113.

Mimi    

On a hunch, I looked up Suicidal impulses from the cold medicine she was taking. Yup. http://poseysplace.com/nyquil-side-effects/

239 days ago
114.

martini305    

Young love. Most of us can relate as we've been there at one time or another. If she could only have been emotionally strong enough to get past she would have allowed herself to one day look back on this time in her life and realize how silly love can be and that there is so much more to life than

239 days ago
115.

MikeW    

Tragedy all the way around. First off those talking about cheating we have no idea if this was true and cant assume he was cheating on her. She obviously had insecurities in her life and sadly she succumbed to them. I feel really bad for Anderson he will live with guilt he shouldn't have to. Couples fight, they sometimes breakup, get back together etc. In the heat of the moment he might not have truely meant he didnt love her anymore. I feel bad for the guy and her family.

235 days ago
116.

W    

My guess of what happened that she was just attempting suicide just as threading to her BF that I will kill my self next time u think of leaving me .. And she called her mom not coz she wanted mommy to be there , but coz she wanted some one to call 911 before its too late , but her plan went wrong and her mother couldn't imagine that her girl doing this and she wasjust trying to call her back to check if she was Ok !
I think if she really wanted to die she would write in the note more than just the property goes for mom! She would say more coz she will know that's these would be her last wards ,but she wasn't planning to die so she just wrote short note as prove to her BF she wants to die .. Oh god she wasted her life ! .. Who really wants to die would take bills , but she have choosed what will make her uncouncious so they can rush her to the hospital .. Her plan would go well if her mom called 911 right a way .. RIP u just lost ur life for nothing .

222 days ago
117.

W    

My guess of what happened that she was just attempting suicide just as threading to her BF that I will kill my self next time u think of leaving me .. And she called her mom not coz she wanted mommy to be there , but coz she wanted some one to call 911 before its too late , but her plan went wrong and her mother couldn't imagine that her girl doing this and she wasjust trying to call her back to check if she was Ok !
I think if she really wanted to die she would write in the note more than just the property goes for mom! She would say more coz she will know that's these would be her last wards ,but she wasn't planning to die so she just wrote short note as prove to her BF she wants to die .. Oh god she wasted her life ! .. she have choosed what will make her uncouncious so they can rush her to the hospital .. Her plan would go well if her mom called 911 right a way .. RIP u just lost ur life for nothing .

222 days ago
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