Ryan's Email to Jasmine

1. P.S. I just saved a ton of money on my insurance by switching to Geico ...and with it I bought a whole new set of luggage just for you!

Posted at 9:49AM on Aug 20th 2009 by Wombat

2. Very "Me" centered. WOW!

Posted at 9:49AM on Aug 20th 2009 by Stacey

3. Perhaps she married him so he could get his green card and she could get cash not knowing he wanted a REAL marriage too.

Strippers, can NEVER trust them.....

Posted at 9:50AM on Aug 20th 2009 by Green Card Please

4. WoW . . . . Sappy !!

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Posted at 9:55AM on Aug 20th 2009 by US_DOJ_Gov

5. "Honor me and receive what you need from me. " He sounds totally disturbed.

Posted at 1:57PM on Aug 20th 2009 by Huh

6. he is one sick mofo. a master manipulator. he gets women to trust him & the minute the girl lets her guard down.... he will kill her. he is a MONSTER.

Posted at 9:58AM on Aug 20th 2009 by Queefa LeFoo

7. For a guy on the show that acted pretty confident about everything he sounds a bit girly on this email?

Posted at 10:01AM on Aug 20th 2009 by nohiphop2

8. Wow, that's one scary letter

Posted at 11:17AM on Aug 20th 2009 by Semi

9. This guy is a classic sociopath. Blaming her for the "craziness" which more than likely was his crazy that she was reacting to.My ex-husband used the same BS language and manipulation. "Trust me and I will give you the world...I will be strong enough for the both of us...I will never leave you..." Then he punches a few walls, grabs me hard enough to leave a bruise, and tells me he will knock me into a box (coffin) if I do not do what he wants me to, when he wants me to

Posted at 10:08AM on Aug 20th 2009 by Floored

10. What did they do to each other??

Posted at 10:12AM on Aug 20th 2009 by Tam

11. Kinda sweet but yet a bit "stalker-ish" as well. A little "obsessive". Hmmm....yeah, I can imagine him getting angry & going off on her. "She has a hard time trusting people?" Well, if this dude really killed her then, gosh, I wonder why she would have felt that way??!!

Posted at 10:15AM on Aug 20th 2009 by janalal4

12.
I've taken the liberty of offering my translation:

"I want the world to know too and in a few months they will."
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Weird. He was hiding her for a special event?


"I don't have any interest in any women Jasmine, your the only one I want."
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So he wants fidelity, apprently. Trust, etc. I get red lights just reading this being written, but others may not be so cynical.


If you can come back to me and stop all the craziness we can have a wonderful life. Respect our love and it will grow.
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So SHE should respect their love. I see.


"Trust me and I'll be strong for both of us."
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SHE should trust him and things will be OK, he'll take care of the rest.

Honor me and receive what you need from me. These things you want are all attainable with me but you have to want it too.
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She's not wanting him or giving all her attention to him? So he wants more action from her.


I can't want it for you. Let what lonely part of your heart thats still pure recieve what I have to give you. Let me into your inner circle again. Let me truely love you and don't fear the worst of even think on it because you've manifested so much negativity in us.
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She's been negative. He can provide all on the condition that...


I've grown, I've forgiven I've risen above all of our problems and I want you to do the same so I can help you.
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SHE has the problem, he has risen above it.


Helping you brings me happiness because when your happy you give me all I ever wanted.
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When she's happy she's ok, but not when she's an unhappy beeyatch?



I promise I will always have your back from here on out. I will always be honest with you and I will honor you and our love. Your forgiveness, trust and loyalty is all I need right now and when your love for me grows and our lives are heading in the right direction I'll truely feel complete.
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Completeness is attainable, as long as SHE performs, apparently.


It was really great to talk last night with you. I miss you so much. I can't wait to see you again.
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He wants a good bonk?


I know you have a hard time trusting people. I know we can be happy if you can just get back to where you were, we need to respect each other and we need to rebuild the trust.
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SHE should get back to where she was.


I think w really need to talk to someone because as much as I know about behavioral science, I can only help so much.
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SHE's the one with the problem.



I know you have a huge problem letting go of things.
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Like the old boyfriend?


I wish you could understand what you mean to me and treat me like I deserve. Just a little time together is all we need and I know you and I could fall back in love.
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Jealous of old boyfriend?



I came into all this assuming you'd just treat me the way I wanted without ever having to explain what I needed. This time, I won't be so vague.
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Worship Ryan.


Your my angel, despite what we've done to each other, I know we're perfect for each other. It just takes two of us trying at the same time instead of one at a time.
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"you haven't been working this, I have been doing all the work", apparently.

I will take care of you the rest of your life , With all honesty . I will never leave you . I only want you .
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Again the promise of "only you".


Sucky letter with "you're not doing the work" and "we can have this if YOU..." themes running all through it. Basically a lot of blame and a lot of sucky promises if she works on things.

Hmm.

Posted at 10:17AM on Aug 20th 2009 by shuffler

13. I think I'm going to throw-up.

Posted at 10:19AM on Aug 20th 2009 by Big Joe

14. Sounds like a re-make of Paul Snider Dorthy Stratten story. Now the only thing we have to wait and see is if Ryan ends up beneath a tree with a self inflicted gunshot wound.

Posted at 10:23AM on Aug 20th 2009 by Fug

15. Passive aggressive

Posted at 10:21AM on Aug 20th 2009 by Kara G