Rep. Ilhan Omar went from one husband to another ... then back to the first, only to end up divorced all over again ... and it's all laid out in court documents.
TMZ has obtained the divorce judgment from the Minnesota congresswoman's split with Ahmed Abdisalan Hirsi, which was finalized November 5, 2019 ... revealing how the couple divided their assets and worked out custody of their 3 then-minor children -- Adnan, now 21; Isra, now 16; and Ilwad, now 14.
According to the docs, Omar and Hirsi agreed to joint legal and physical custody, with the children living primarily with her in Washington, D.C. Hirsi was granted generous parenting time ... with Omar covering the kids' travel expenses to Minnesota.
Ilhan Omar's ex-husband -- who has long been rumored to be her brother -- says he's gay ... adding a new wrinkle to allegations that the Minnesota congresswoman married him to help him obtain legal immigration status.
Ahmed Nur Said Elmi, who married Omar in 2009, identified himself as a gay man in an academic paper published in August ... the latest twist in the controversy surrounding their marriage.
"As a gay man of the East African diaspora, my fieldwork was never neutral," Elmi wrote in the paper, titled "Out in the Field: Notes on Researching Queer Violence in Kenya."
Rep. Ilhan Omar's ex-husband -- who has long been rumored to be her brother -- was apparently nowhere to be found when it came time to end their marriage ... leaving a judge to finalize the divorce without him ... TMZ has learned.
According to court documents, obtained by TMZ, Omar was granted a divorce from Ahmed Nur Said Elmi on December 4, 2017, in Minnesota's Hennepin County District Court ... after the judge found he failed to show up or respond to the proceedings.
The documents show Omar and Elmi married in February 2009 in Eden Prairie, Minnesota ... but had been separated for more than three years by the time their divorce was finalized.
