Lt. Andy Gets Randy, Sandy

61. Bevin and her supporters are sore losers. They want their choice , a choice which was clearly not a fit , a one way chemistry with only Bevin feeling the love for Andy and Andy not being able to fall in love with her to work. But love does not work this way.

Andy needs to fall in love too. He fell in love with Tessa. Just like in story of Cinderella, the Prince marry Cinderella and not the Stepsister who try to fit herself into the glass slipper when it clearly does not fit. It just does not fit.

One obvservation from the postings here, Bevin and her supporters are clearly Sore Losers.

Posted at 6:15PM on May 29th 2007 by lizzie

62. Bevin, I truely believe that you were the perfect match for Andy. When you two were together, his eyes just lit up. His own grandfather said that too. I never saw that in Andy when he was with Tessa. I noticed Andy's grandmother hugged you as if she really wanted Andy to pick you. Also, Andy had to pull the words from Tessa how her feelings were towards him. I can just imagine how an argument will be with her. She'll probably just sit there silently and not let him know what's going on inside of her. I would love to see you be the next Bachelorette. You deserve to find happiness. God Bless!

Posted at 6:21PM on May 29th 2007 by Pam

63. I could not agree with you more Lizzie. SORE LOSERS. I believe we saw a story of love. Andy needed to fall in love- not just have a girl that fell in love with him. I think we saw both Andy and Tessa fall in love in the most natural way. A REAL way in a UNREAL situation. Andy fell for Tessa at the same pace that Tessa fell for Andy. In Unison. I believe their relationship with demonstrate this equality and I believe they will last.

Get over Bevin- she will move on and be just fine. I will marry her if she wants.... But I am fat and ugly. oh well.

Posted at 6:23PM on May 29th 2007 by Jake

64. Thanks, Jake. How do you feel about women in casts?

Posted at 6:27PM on May 29th 2007 by Bevin

65. I love casts Bevin. I will sign yours every night and maybe even write you sweet nothings on it. I am a great lover- especially when there is a cast involved.

Posted at 6:33PM on May 29th 2007 by Jake

66. I like them!

Posted at 7:16PM on May 29th 2007 by jed

67. Can we airbrush the guy out of the pick so we can drool over Tessa?

Posted at 6:53PM on May 29th 2007 by RP

68. Agreed RP. Airbrush away!!! Personality/natural looks makes her So hot- want to touch the heiny.

Posted at 7:01PM on May 29th 2007 by Aaron

69. I'm glad he picked Tess. Bevin seemed like a strong connection but I would have been very weary of her extreme emotions. Someone like that will often pounce like a cat on someone if things don't go their own way so I wouldn't have expected it to work out long term between them. If I was him, I would rather have Tess as she is more wife and mother of my children material and that is what he was looking for. Not to mention on looks alone, Tess had it over most if not all of the other girls. She was more refined and didn't get into the bashing of the others. She seemed like the most genuine girl there. I am glad to see a man that used his head instead of other "attractions" and made the wise choice.

Posted at 10:29AM on May 30th 2007 by lis

70. My post was meant for number 45 not 46 ......I just said you should post a picture so we can see you...You sound very jealous.......Why do woman need to come on here and insult each other...All of the woman looked pretty and had there own personalities...Nobody told you to watch the show.........Move on

Posted at 7:36PM on May 29th 2007 by Me

71. Way to go Andy and Tessa!!! Yay! This couple makes me happy!

Posted at 7:39PM on May 29th 2007 by molly

72. THANKS TMZ! I WAS NEEDING SOME POSITIVE GOOD SCOPE! THIS GUY IS AMAZING AND TESSA IS THE REAL DEAL!

Posted at 7:41PM on May 29th 2007 by GOANDY!

73. 42. Bevin.

Of course, these are changing times with a prevalence of divorce statistics! The statistics published three weeks ago regarding the "decline" of divorces were only "half accurate" as the fact remains there are many, many people simply living together (outside of tradition) in our contemporary society and, therefore, a lot of "failed" relationships! However, with that said, I would have respected Bevin more (along with ABC) had they made knowledge of her divorce (no matter the circumstances) known to Andy before he began courting the girls. Bevin "cooked her own goose" by not being forthright with Andy from their very first encounter. For every woman out there, be totally honest with a man from the beginning--there is no one time more perfect than another for speaking absolute (truth) and a strong relationship can only be built on trust and being completely authentic as sexual manipulation does not sustain a healthy long-term relationship. It was known that Andy Baldwin had never been married and was looking for a long-term relationship, marriage, and creating a family and so the odds were stacked against Bevin from the beginning for that and other reasons. Andy and Tessa have innumerable personal and familial commonalities which give them a tremendous edge in developing their personal "love story" in partnership.

Bevin is a strong, experienced person and, hopefully, she has a better understanding now of the qualities she wants in a future companion after this show, i.e. someone more suited to her own personal and familial background.

For the Bevin supporters, I would hope that Bevin would not approve of your disparaging comments regarding Tessa as that would prove she lacked the grace and class necessary to be a successful partner to Andy Baldwin!

Posted at 7:59PM on May 29th 2007 by Kira.

74. they are a cute couple. bevin was too desperate

Posted at 8:06PM on May 29th 2007 by lauren

75. You know, at first after the bachelor aired I was slightly disappointed it wasn't Bevin. Unlike alot of people I really thought the love story was existing between these two. However I can understand how Andy really started to just take more comfort in who Bevin was willing to be to him then what Tessa was giving him (at the time) I also don't think you can always help who you fall in love with - and if you can then it's a choice you have to be willing to risk when you make it. The only thing I do not understand is how someone can say one woman is "marriage" material and how another is not. What exactly is "Marriage material" anyways. I think most women have the capability to love and be loved - it's just some are still reaching their maturity level.

Posted at 8:57PM on May 29th 2007 by Tara