Usher & Tameka in Court Most Awkward Silence Ever MAKE IT STOP

8/9/2013 10:00 AM PDT

If you don't believe that Usher and his ex-wife Tameka hate each other -- just watch this video ... if you can.

Usher and Tameka are in court right now -- where their custody battle is set to go down -- but while their lawyers were in chambers, the ex-couple sat in strained awkward silence for a full ten minutes ... it was painful.

Marriage, folks. How about it.