Kevin Federline -- Strip Club Party Was My Wife's Idea

Kevin Federline might wear the pants in his marriage, but his second wife, Victoria Prince, holds the draft board in their fantasy football league ... which is why they'll be drafting in a Vegas strip club!

K-Fed and Victoria were on "TMZ Live" today and gave us the 411 on their fantasy football shindig going down at the Crazy Horse III. Turns out Victoria is the commish of their league, and even though it was her idea to host the draft at a strip club ... she admits she had an ulterior motive.

Watch ... she might be the most brilliant commissioner, and coolest wife, in FF history.