Madonna to Media: "Shame on You!"

Madonna swung back with visible irritation at the media coverage of her controversial adoption this morning on "Oprah," suggesting that the media is "doing a great disservice" to all African orphans by giving her story such intense coverage. In her first interview since taking in 13-month-old David Banda, her message to the people who had taken an interest in her strange adoption saga was, "Shame on you for discouraging other people from doing the same thing."

She also batted aside claims that Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie had had any influence on her decision to adopt, saying that she'd never even met Angelina. She added that her new baby David had been tested for several diseases and did not appear to have HIV, even though his mother and siblings had contracted the virus.

The Queen of Pop told Oprah that she viewed the interview as an "opportunity to set the record straight." She said that, contrary to the way the story has been told in recent days by David's birth father Yohane Banda, she met Banda in court and got his legal consent to adopt the child. "He was very grateful that I was going to give his child a life," said Madonna, "and that had [David] stayed in the village he would have buried him" due to poor conditions.



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1. F**k Oprah and Madonna.
Oprah makes me want to gag.
Most celebrities make me want to gag.
Lurrleen

Posted at 11:07AM on Oct 25th 2006 by Prnzez

2. you blame everybody but you,its called buying a kid,and in americia its against the law,nobody to blame but yourself

Posted at 11:09AM on Oct 25th 2006 by Adopt a kid in americia

3. I wish she would just go away! Everything she does just reeks of publicity seeking desperation. I guess an African child is now THE must have accessory this season. Yuck!

Posted at 11:27AM on Oct 25th 2006 by madonna is a hag

4. As I remember Madonna loved to use the media! Her SEX book her excapades with all men and women lovers. GEEZ damned if you do, damned if you dont!

Posted at 11:21AM on Oct 25th 2006 by Pandi

5. Madonna looks good there. I really don't get the big deal Pop Star adopts baby. OK. Next Story!

Posted at 11:21AM on Oct 25th 2006 by Lea

6. Madonna's flagging career, what bandwagon will she jump on next. Let's face it, Oprah wasn't going to have her on her show for crucifying herself on stage, so she has to think of something, and what better than this right. Smooth move Madonna, although it's almost as transparent as half your wardrobe, I still got to give you Kudos, you have staved off the immenent reality show, and game show appearances for yet another year!

Posted at 11:25AM on Oct 25th 2006 by CraigyBoy

7. Oh pleasssse! Stop taking youself so seriously Madonna. I think all that Kabbalah water has gone to your head. Your voice has always sucked and you look more like a tranny every time I see your pie hole yapping. F*** off!

Posted at 11:36AM on Oct 25th 2006 by shut the f*** up madonna

8. I'm glad to hear she doesn't watch TV or read the crap in the newspapers. She tried to do something really wonderful for that kid and every one in the media just wants to make it ugly, as usual. What%u2019s wrong with our society that we don't celebrate acts like this, instead we condemn. Very strange. And don%u2019t give that she bought the baby crap we can all read, at least some of us can read. And we can even read real news articles not just those fed to you by TMZ. She did every thing legally, go find the statements made by the Malawi government, she did nothing illegal so stop repeating that lie.

Posted at 11:37AM on Oct 25th 2006 by KarenQQ

9. madonna, fake religion, fake british accent, fake orphan, why not support ing the father, so he is able to raise his own child, why taking it away from him???. this is not an orphan, she adoptet.

Posted at 11:37AM on Oct 25th 2006 by love

10. LoL #7 & #9. Madonna thinks way too much of herself. And whatever happened to adopting children here in the US? I don't get it, why is it that "stars" choose to adopt from other countries. Why not help the kids here??? Is it because it's exotic? I guess so...
It's too bad because there are so many children here with f*cked up lives too... They don't have food or money, or people to care about them either, or even a stable roof over their heads.
So sad.

Posted at 11:46AM on Oct 25th 2006 by HLM

11. Madonna did a wonderful thing by adopting baby David. Don't hate Madonna because she's rich and successful; she's a self made woman who deserves all the money she has. I also agree with Madonna that the media is to blame for this uproar. The media, prior to making Madonna to be the bad guy, had no details whatsoever regarding this issue, while coming to an erroneous conclusion. Not to mention the race haters who hate that an African child will live an extraordinary life with Madonna and her husband Guy. Shame on anyone who hates Madonna for falling in love with David and adopting him.

Posted at 11:49AM on Oct 25th 2006 by T. Archie

12. Guy wanted more children. Why didn't Madonnat get a younger egg implanted and have Guy's biological baby? Or, why not allow a surrogate womb to carry Guy's baby? Madonna's new purchase will have to earn his keep with antoehr series of phony children's books on African babies coming soon from Big M and a whole new project of African inspired children's clothes. This is not about love, but commerce.

Posted at 11:53AM on Oct 25th 2006 by Victoria

13. I don't think anyone really said they hated her or were jealous of her... That's just a typical response.

Posted at 12:00PM on Oct 25th 2006 by HLM

14. i don't think rosie m. should be on the view......

Posted at 1:21PM on Oct 25th 2006 by tom boisvert

15. I keep on reading the argument from people posting on these and other message boards asking the question: "Why don't American celebrities adopt American children?" Well...just look at the controversy surrounding Madonna attempting to adopt this African boy David...The point is...the media went out of its way to track down the father and inform him that the woman attempting to adopt his son is rich and famous...thus confusing the issue!!!

BTW, the boy Madonna is attempting to adopt has been in a orphanage for a year and a half and his father never once came to visit him...from the time he was 2 1/2 months old, 'til now!!! Couple that with the fact that the father agreed to the adoption in court and under oath. Still...now that certain media people have gone out of their journalistic way to make the father aware of the fact that he can garner large amounts of money off of this situation, perhaps even being paid for interviews, all thanks to Madonna being famous...Well, the father has suspeciously changed his mind about the adoption!!! The media is paying to create a faux controversy here...one that they have authored the script of.
A disturbing new low for the press!!!

This is clearly the reason why the father is making multiple conflicting statements, almost daily at this point. The media and these so called human rights groups have been manipulating him and asking leading questions. In other words...anti-adoption statements aimed at Madonna which are conveniently dressed as questions. Now, the point is...just imagine if you are a famous celebrity...and you attempt to adopt in the United States...The chances of the media interfering in the adoption and contacting the birth parents would go up a thousand fold. The result, many of these birth parents, more than not, would try to insinuate themselves into the adoption process...This would include doing media interviews at nauseam and perhaps suing for custody.

Look what happened to Michael Jackson, he hired Debbie Rowe to act as a surogate mother for his two older children...Now he can't get rid of her...She's always angling for money pay-outs and constantly suing him for money and or custody. And regardless of what you may think of Jackson or his parenting skills...you have to admit...it looks like its all about the money here...that and being associated with someone who is famous at all costs. Who cares about what is best for the children???!!! it's about all the dead presidents. Jackson's mistake...he contracted with a surogate who knew his identity.

When Madonna went to Africa and met with her would-be adopted child's father, he had no idea who she was. However, once the press got wind of her adoption efforts, they made sure that the father knew that she is vastly wealthy to extremes and massively famous to boot. And you can bet that if Madonna tried to adopt in America or from any other western nations, she would be besieged with publicity for the rest of her, and the child's, life with the media and others attempting to check into the child's birth background, coupled with vile attempts to exposed the identities of, and make contact with the birth parents...Birth parents who would most certainly soon find themselves pursued by ambulance chasing lawyers looking to file a multi-million custody law suit on the parents' behalf. It is for this and other reasons why smart celebrities avoid adopting in the United States whenever possible!!! You are either faced with adopting in a foriegn country, or adopting here and dealing with being stalked by any relatives that the child you plan to adopt might have. It is sad, but true!!! Just ask Michael Jackson!!!

Posted at 12:16PM on Oct 25th 2006 by Sherlock Holmes

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