Celebrity Feuds
Right/Wrong Way To Deal With Paparazzi

Sarah Jessica Parker has become the latest celebrity to exchange words with the hounding paparazzi -- but this time, the pleas of a celebrity actually worked.

While walking with her son, James Wilkie, in New York on Tuesday, Parker, frankly yet politely, asked the surrounding photogs, "Could you please not take pictures of me and my child?" Remarkably, Parker's request was granted and the paparazzi, heads down, quietly walked away.

While SJP demonstrated a reserved way of getting the paparazzi to leave her alone, other celebs have chosen to use the more volatile Sean Penn method.



Wednesday photographer Anthony Goodrich filed a police report alleging that Bruce Willis assaulted him by smashing his camera into his face while the star entered West Hollywood restaurant Koi. A spokesman for Willis denied the allegations, saying that at no time did Willis "hit, push or hurt" a photographer.

In April, Jude Law chose to flex his Hollywood muscle on an intrusive photographer, when he caught the cameraman filming him, his ex-wife Sadie Frost and their three kids in LA. Law bitch-slapped the photographer's camera before lashing out: "You don't film my f***ing children!"

Even shutterbug queen Lindsay Lohan has a breaking point. Earlier this week, the teen sensation screamed at photogs when they wouldn't stop snapping pics of her and her friends through the glass window of a NY restaurant.

With paparazzi being part of the Hollywood game, other publicity-prone celebs - knowing which side their bread is buttered - have actually chosen to embrace the photographers.

In May, everyone's favorite "Ghost Whisperer" Jennifer Love Hewitt came to the aid of a fallen photographer by asking for a hug before remarking "You have to be careful."

Tuesday night, Girls Gone Wild creator Joe Francis showed up to Hollywood hotspot Hyde bearing hats for all the waiting paparazzi. Probably not the worst way to get on their good side.

Even Paris Hilton - who could single-handedly employ a nation of paparazzi - kept a calm and cool composure signing autographs as fans (young and old alike) and photographers swarned her SUV in New York on Tuesday.

While it's clear that handling the paparazzi can be a stressful situation, it doesn't take a brainiac - or even a Hilton - to know violence is never the answer.

Tags: Bruce Willis, BruceWillis, Jennifer Love Hewitt, JenniferLoveHewitt, Jude Law, JudeLaw, paparazzi, Sarah Jessica Parker, SarahJessicaParker

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1. >> While it's clear that handling the paparazzi can be a stressful situation, it doesn't take a brainiac - or even a Hilton - to know violence is never the answer <

You've gotta be kidding. Who gives these people the right to stalk them with cameras during their private moments with their families and post online??? You think it's right that Brad and Angelina should have to drape their home in fabric to give them privacy from prying and snoopy photographers?? That a celebrity can't enjoy a latte with a girlfriend or shop in peace ... that the contents of their shopping bags are listed and posted online ?? It's nutz. Our obsession with celebrity is SICK. Anyone who finds that kind of stuff interesting needs to get a life instead of watching someone else live theirs!!! GET YOUR OWN LIFE!!!!

Posted at 2:43PM on Jun 15th 2006 by glammie

2. At least Ms. Parker has reserve. Others that run up on phtographers and act like they can push, spit, scream, slap, etc., these photogs that are doing their job is just ridiculous. You asked for this busihess and you have to take the good, the bad, the bitter, and the sweet. BUT, I do agree that when it comes to taking pics of a celebrity's child, that is definitely crossing the line. The child didn't ask for this life, the parent did, and photogs should remember and respect that.

Posted at 3:37PM on Jun 15th 2006 by puffy

3. THEY ARE ALL WHORES

Posted at 3:39PM on Jun 15th 2006 by BOB DYLAN

4. To this person:
You've gotta be kidding. Who gives these people the right to stalk them with cameras during their private moments with their families and post online??? You think it's right that Brad and Angelina should have to drape their home in fabric to give them privacy from prying and snoopy photographers?? That a celebrity can't enjoy a latte with a girlfriend or shop in peace ... that the contents of their shopping bags are listed and posted online ?? It's nutz. Our obsession with celebrity is SICK. Anyone who finds that kind of stuff interesting needs to get a life instead of watching someone else live theirs!!! GET YOUR OWN LIFE!!!!

Aren't you watching other peoples lives by viewing this website? It's the photogs that keep these websites going and you are reading this website! Enjoy!

Posted at 5:11PM on Jun 15th 2006 by Emily

5. Note to La Lohan....... You get more flies with sugar than you do with vinager. SJP knows her way around the "photogo beast" and that is why she is respected like she is. She's more willing to give someone a photo op if they ask her first.... SJP is someone that little girls can look up too (unlike Lindsay, Britney, and even Jessica)......Sorry.. the truth does hurt

Posted at 5:56PM on Jun 15th 2006 by Sadie

6. glammie,

I agree with what you said but you should Omit this part....."Anyone who finds that kind of stuff interesting needs to get a life instead of watching someone else live theirs!!! GET YOUR OWN LIFE!!!!....... Why are you here? Obviously you like to read about them as well.

Posted at 6:29PM on Jun 15th 2006 by Zara

7. Oh my god! I am so sick of everyone whining about the paparazzi! They need to get paid too! It is a part of the celeb lifestyle and I think they should just get over it already. Granted they may take it too far by photograghing the kids, but they should really expect it. I think we cater to them as it is, so let there be at least one drawback. So stop all your bitching!

Posted at 7:28PM on Jun 15th 2006 by tiffany

8. hey, you can't handle the lifestyle that you CHOSE then get a new job as an accountant. trust me, the photogs will stop takin your pic. nuff said.

Posted at 12:46AM on Jun 16th 2006 by sean

9. "hey, you can't handle the lifestyle that you CHOSE then get a new job as an accountant."

that has been an argument used by the paps and tabloids to make themselves immune of attacks. there's room for debating, and there's place for civility even if celebs are going to have their photographs taken. if we can't debate this anymore then we're handing out all control to the media, which by the way doesn't care about US anymore than they do about celebs.

Posted at 12:45PM on Jun 16th 2006 by tmz doesn't care about poor people

10. "hey, you can't handle the lifestyle that you CHOSE then get a new job "

If this justifies the continual harrassment of celebrities by paparazzi then surely it justifies the occasions when the celebrities strike back. If the paparazzi are whining about the people they stalk turning around and getting angry, maybe they are the ones who should find a less confrontational job. So what if a star hits them? Suck it up, it's part of the job.

Posted at 9:37AM on Jun 17th 2006 by boonie

11. Yep,# 4 said it all.If you don't like what is being said here then go away. yeah,I think the paparazzi can take things a little too far sometimes but we would'nt be on this web site if they did'nt do their job now would we.Maybe there should be a law that they can only come within so many feet of them.Celebs should'nt have to trip over them getting into their car or something but when your out in public then your just fair game to have your picture taken.

Posted at 10:35PM on Jun 17th 2006 by Janet

12. I am not even a fan of Britany's, but for Godsake leave her alone. If all the scum bag ppl would stop buying paprazzi trash, then the stars can live a private life. Even tho they chose to achieve stardom doesn't negate them from having a private life. When will it stop? Another Princess Diana? I believe thats what it will take, a life, to make the photogs stop. Yes it is a free country and they are doing their jobs. But where has The Golden Rule gone? Lets put ourselves in a stars place, and see if we like being stalked all day and night. That what it is STALKING! We are all human beings, please paparzzi remember next time you stalk someone.

Posted at 9:28AM on Jun 18th 2006 by Susan Jones

13. F*** the paparazzi and f*** the people who don't have a problem with them invading every part of someone's life. Yes it's ok to take pictures of celebrities if they are out on the street. Once you start going onto private property, following them around as they shop and eat, that's just rediculous. No one needs to watch anyone that closely. Hell even people on parole/probation don't get watched that closely. While I agree that getting photographed is part of the celebrity life style and something that they should have to endure, the paparazzi shouldn't be so forceful about getting their picutres taken. When a person doesn't have enough room to walk, can't see because of the flashes, can't hear because of the paparazzi shouting, that's a real problem. Let's just put it this way. How would you feel if you had someone stalking you and taking pictures of you every day. Just one person, not a group and they are a stranger you've never met before. Imagine them sneaking around your house, watching your every move. Imagine them taking pictures of your kids and every ugly face you make. Now imagine a group of people like that. How the hell would you feel?

Posted at 8:34PM on Jun 19th 2006 by Lecrapface

14. Stop yer bitchin... they wanted to be in the spotlight, and they succeeded... deal with the spotlight now.. you're in the publice eye... you have people called paparazzi who take your picture. if you don't like it, don't become famous...the same people watching your movies/concerts/buying cds/dvds/clothing, are the same who buy the magazines... you have pretty much given away most of your privacy once you step in front of the spotlight... celebs complaining about losing their privacy is the most backward thinking... period. better than complaining about being hungry or homelessnes, or cancer... deal with it. if a pap gets hit, that's assault.. control your anger.. or pay..

Posted at 2:16AM on Jun 20th 2006 by a pap

15. Hello people! They have billions of dollars and they get everything for free. They are catered to and live lives we only dream of living and all anyone can do is bitch about the paparazzi! They totally are aware of them when signing on to their careers and they have a job to do as well....bring us the pictures and the dirt which we are all on this website for. Stop all your bitchin!

Posted at 12:37PM on Jun 20th 2006 by tiffany

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