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Celebs Who Won't Get Hitched

No Marry CelebsFrom last weekend's celebrity wedding trifecta featuring the nuptials of Nicole Kidman, Marcia Cross and Patricia Arquette, it may seem like Hollywood is in a frenzy to walk down the aisle.

But for every Elizabeth Taylor and Jennifer Lopez wedding announcement there are stars that are avoiding saying their 'I Dos' like the bird flu.

Check out which celebrities have a serious case of cold feet.



OprahOprah Winfrey

Oprah and her rarely-seen main man Stedman Graham have been together for 20 years but she has no plans in sporting a Vera Wang anytime soon. Even though the talk show host doesn't see the point in marrying her partner, she insists Stedman did ask. While she may be a mentor to married housewives everywhere, Ms. Winfrey admits "A piece of paper does not define a life. I always knew that was not the answer for me." The Big O goes on to say "I do believe that had we gotten married, we would not be together today. The traditional role of marriage would not work in this relationship." And we all know if Oprah says so then it must be true!

George ClooneyGeorge Clooney

Despite winning an Oscar and being one of the "Sexiest Men Alive," George Clooney has yet to land a permanent leading lady in his life. He's been linked to nearly every starlet around the world and was once married to actress Talia Balsam, but the confirmed bachelor swears he will never wed again. Earlier this year gorgeous George told Barbara Walters "I know I'll never get married again because I wasn't very good at it." While we may not agree, the one thing we know he is good at is making women (and some men) swoon.

Charlize Theron Charlize Theron

Charlize Theron and her boyfriend, fellow actor Stuart Townsend, have been dating for nearly five years and are one of the hottest Hollywood couples around. Naturally they have the whole world wondering when they will tie the knot. Well to keep the press at bay, the couple has announced the exact date of their impending nuptials while simultaneously taking a political stand. Theron says "we will get married the day that gays and lesbians can get married (in America) - when that right is given to them." With Massachusetts being the only state so far to legalize gay marriage, sadly it seems, Charlize and Stuart will have to deal with a very long engagement.

Howard Stern Howard Stern

The King of all Media aka Howard Stern is another celeb making their bachelorhood a political issue. On May 15, Stern announced on his Sirius radio show that "I'm never getting married unless gays can get married." The shock jock says this is no joke and has declared the issue "his cause." Stern divorced his ex-wife Alison Stern, the mother for his three children, in 2001. He has since been dating his longtime girlfriend Beth Ostrosky.

Halle Berry Halle Berry

After two failed marriages to baseball player David Justice and R+B singer Eric Benet, Halle Berry has sworn off the institution for good. On an episode of "Oprah" in 2004, Berry said "I will never marry again. I mean it with every bone in my body."
The gorgeous Oscar-winner went on to say that despite not wanting to marry she does "need a partner."

So it isn't all bad news for the luckiest man in the world - Berry's boyfriend, model Gabriel Aubrey. If Gabriel is smart as he is hot, he'll prove to Halle why you should never say never.

Johnny Depp Johnny Depp

After being married once in the 80s and engaged four times to Sherilyn Fenn, Jennifer Grey, Winona Ryder and Kate Moss, Johnny Depp finally found the woman of his dreams in Vanessa Paradis.

Together since 1998, the couple have two children together but have yet to make their relationship official. The reason - Depp says he doesn't want to ruin her last name. "It would be such a drag to stick her with Paradis-Depp. It's like a flat note." Whatever you say Johnny. We don't think it'd be too hard to find someone willing to be stuck with the title of Mrs. Depp.

To make hearts a flutter even more, Depp adds "For all intents and purposes we are married. We have two kids together and she is the woman in my life. But if she ever said: 'Hey, let's get hitched', I would do it in a second."

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31. I'm still amazed that people don't seem to remember that the original intent of the "legal document" was to prove that your wife was your property and therefore under your supervision.

Centuries of commitments have been in place, most of which where just a recognition between partners.

Posted at 8:36AM on Jul 5th 2006 by Kendall

32. If marriage is only a piece of paper, why are gays and lesbians making such a big deal about getting married? One word: BENEFITS; legal benefis, like access to health care, next of kin, Social Security.

Posted at 8:37AM on Jul 5th 2006 by Josette VanderWeyst

33. I have always liked Ophra and some of the others I see pictured here, but the fact is if they are believers in Jesus, and God our Heavenly Father, then they need to get out their Bible and start reading.

God made it so that man and woman be married. Not live togethers, not gay couples to be together.

I love what these talented people are, but to say I agree with what they do...no I do not.

I hope God reaches into their hearts before it is too late for them.

Posted at 8:43AM on Jul 5th 2006 by Sandra Reist

34. What is it with you people. Just because the guy doesn't want to get married he's got to be gay? He was already married, it didn't work out. He can date any girl he wants, he has money, he is intelligent and creative why should he get married?

Posted at 8:44AM on Jul 5th 2006 by Barb Gindy

35. Some very successful relationships work best without the contract, remember Kurt Russell and Goldie Hawn? And some marriages last forever, like Paul Newman and Joanne Woodward. Notice these ladies still use their "maiden name" and their kids have dad's last name. And it makes no difference in their IRS obligations because in both cases their incomes are in the max bracket. Only we commonfolk benefit by the marriage contract.

Posted at 8:46AM on Jul 5th 2006 by Geoffrey

36. Why on earth do people think Clooney is gay, simply because he is in his 40s and not married? I am 44 and never married and I am not gay. Personally, I think that in this day and age it would be virtually impossible for a guy like him to keep that sort of thing a secret. Personally, I am the product of a horrendous marriage and I guess I am a bit gunshy to wind up in that kind of situation. There are plenty of reasons for a man (or woman) to not get married, not just sexual preference.

Posted at 8:49AM on Jul 5th 2006 by Ken Lanz

37. Halle will remarry because she loves attention. As soon as she sees her career waning, she'll do what she usually does to get hewr mug back in the news and appear on shows with her whining and croc tears, she'll get married. This woman is such a idiot and her acting despite an Oscar is laughable. Hell, the movie wasn't that great. Overrated and starved for attention Halle will marry. Hmmm but who will her next victim be?

Posted at 8:52AM on Jul 5th 2006 by Jorli

38. One problem with not marrying your lover is what happened to my sister-in-law. When her partner died in a tragic accident, she got stuck with their joint debt, but had no legal right to any of his belongings that a wife would get automatically. At the funeral, she was just "the girlfriend" and didn't get the respect she deserved from the long term relationship they'd had. She got no say in the funeral planning. His mother and sister did it all and got the lion's share of the sympathy. They also asked for all his clothes and belongings back!

Posted at 8:53AM on Jul 5th 2006 by Julie

39. Hi, I think that marriage is not for everyone, but more than just a piece of paper for many, it is a religious covenant, it is a statement to the community of the wedded couple that they are together forever, it is a request for the community to monitor behaviour and help them stay together, and it is a legal situation that should have lifetime lasting affects. It is an incredibly powerful statement to stand up in front of witnesses and make public, love and commitment.

Getting married just for names to be the same sounds like a poorly thought out reason to marry. Names can be legally changed without marriage. And many young women seem to think it is required they name their children after an absent dad, when in fact you can give your baby any name you want . . . Kennedy maybe! Whatever you like.

Posted at 8:58AM on Jul 5th 2006 by Christine

40. Marriage is not a piece of paper, it is not even a public display of your love for one another. Marriage is a sacrament instituded by Christ as an outward sign to give grace. Jesus elevated marriage to the level of a sacrament because it is far more than just something we do- it is a vocation. We are called to become married just as the religious are called to become brothers, nuns, and priests. So many people do not understand the full meaning of the marriage sacrament. If they did, they would either not get married or never divorce. God intended marriage to be a full communion of one man and one woman where each self sacrafices themselves for the sake of the other. The goal in marriage is to help each other get to heaven and to welcome any children the Lord wishes to give, be it 1 or 100; then, to educate them in the faith. If marriage is not given this respect and understanding, it is due to fail. So the question is not whether or not we want to marry, it's whether or not God wants us to marry.

Posted at 9:04AM on Jul 5th 2006 by Lori

41. Not the old "oh, you're insulting me insisting everyone be married" line.

insert rolling eyes.

I agree with No. 10/Hilda.

It's more than just a piece of paper. It signifies commitment.

If it were "just a piece of paper" then I guess a legal contract is "just a piece of paper."

We document transactions in our society because the mutal agreement codified by/in writing is the way we measure relationships and commitments.

When people say, "I don't want to get married" yet do everything that "married" people do, then they're saying "I don't trust you enough," "I want to have fun with you but nothing more," or "I want to walk away whenever I want with no strings attached."

You can't do that with a marriage.

Now everyone doesn't have to marry. But that doesn't mean that they're "more" committed to their partner than married couples who at least try to codify their commitment only to back out of that commitment, via divorce.

Of course, neither does it mean that if you marry you're more committed because many people cheat even within marriage.

But the difference between the two is that at least in the former instance, you've said to the public we're in this all the way and have committed legally to our relationship.

As for Hollywood marriages, I don't know why people get all worked up over them anyway. I would never base my marriage or my morals on what folks in Hollywood do.

Posted at 9:05AM on Jul 5th 2006 by Bill

42. Marriage is more than a piece of paper.... God made man and woman to be together. He gave Eve to Adam for his lifes mate. Marriage is about sharing your life with the love of your life. It is sharing the good and the bad. marriage says i am willing to go through life with you and face life together. It is the only way to truly say I love you to the one and only love of your life. I have been married 15 years and many thought it would only last 6 months. Life and marriage is what you make it. It is work. It takes both of you working together.

Posted at 9:05AM on Jul 5th 2006 by Mary

43. I agree with Oprah I have 3 grown children 21,25,28 and I have never been married but am still with my children's daddy. I believe if we would have gotten married we would have been divorced a long time ago. We are very happy ,a piece of paper does not prove our love to each other.

Posted at 9:06AM on Jul 5th 2006 by vivian

44. IMHO [constitutionally protected :-)], I think Oprah is gay. No real woman who has a man totes her "best girlfriend" to every darn thing, to EVERY very special event, etc. Like they protected Rock Hudson, I think Hollywood is protecting Oprah. In fact, I was told that by an insider. I say she is flaunting it right in front of everyone, but all you folks/fools are so into the "church of oprah" that you don't see it! When I'm involved with a guy, HE is the one to be my escort. I will be on the arm of MY MAN. And in their situation, maybe they have some "arrangement", but he would be required to be my escort if I'm really footing the bill (LOL). They aren't even trying to give the appearance of being together. Oprah and Gayle are together TOO MUCH for something to not be "the real deal". They are even looking like each other (both have horse heads and at times hold their mouths the same). That's why O has so many shows on hidden lives, "when did you know," Those shows aren't for her viewers, they're for HER issues. Boy will you people be fooled when the truth comes out. IMHO. I am not fooled by O, who, despite some good things she does, also is a self-important praise-hog these days.

Posted at 9:09AM on Jul 5th 2006 by Helen

45. Celebrities, as well as non-celebrities say that marriage is just a piece of paper. Well, if you don't have the piece of paper, it creates more paperwork.

If you aren't married, then you will need two wills, or property, other than property held as joint tenents, will go to blood relatives.

If you aren't married, you can't file a joint tax return.

If you aren't married, then you need medical-care powers of attorney. A hospital will not let a "committed partner" make decisions regarding emergency medical treatment, but they will a spouse make such decisions.

Granted, celebrities can afford high-priced legal talent to draft document ad naseum. But why put yourself in a postion that requires spending money on lawyers just to handle routine matters?

As for Howard and Charlize, why deprive yourself of a legal right, simply because it may not be available to others? This is the same as a white person, prior to the passage of the Voting Rights Act, saying that he would not vote until all blacks enjoy the right to vote, or a man saying he would not vote until the 18th Amendment was ratified.

Posted at 9:10AM on Jul 5th 2006 by Chuck

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