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Judge to Brit -- You're Too Chaotic, Custody Denied

10/30/2007 6:10 PM PDT BY TMZ STAFF

The decision is in -- Britney Spears has not regained custody of her kids.

Issuing his order today, Commissioner Scott Gordon gave Spears three visits per week, two from 12:00 Noon to 7:00 PM and one overnight visit. The visits will be monitored.

Spears and K-Fed are ordered to figure out holiday schedules with the kids.

Britney must submit evidence that she childproofed her pool area by Friday.

In the order, the Commish wrote that when Britney has the kids, "the environment at the house ranged from chaotic to almost somber with little communication at all." The Commish also recounts what the parenting coach complained of -- that "during all three of my visits, Ms. Spears rarely engaged with the children in either conversation or play."

According to the report, the coach wrote, "It seems that [Britney's] choices are dependent more upon what she wants to do at any given time rather than what would be more enjoyable for the children."

The coach also said Spears seemed to have a "lack of general attention at times" but there was nothing she "would characterize as abusive in a traditional sense."

And then the most damning comment from the parenting coach: "The problem is that unless Ms. Spears realizes the consequences of her behavior and the impact that it has [on] her children, nothing is going to be successful."




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151.

stellsez    

Imagine the damage she has caused already to the boys. It's a shame someone did not intervene on their part, sooner.

2514 days ago
152.

jax    

I've never understood the Britney hype. She can't sing live (requires a studio full of professionals to make her sound ok), dances like she's in beginning jazz, and seems to be doing the very best she can to wreck herself.

Help her? Nobody can help her as long as her biggest priorities are ensuring that she gets in the news (and doesn't care about good vs. bad publicity) and partying.

It seems the one person that has any power over her at all is her ex-husband, by holding custody over her head unless she gets help - and that's not working, either.

She'll loose all custody in the end.

2514 days ago
153.

IhateJon    

I have the PERFECT ADVICE for Britney!!!!

FILE FOR BANKRUPTCY!!!!

Kevin will drop all this custody crap in a New York second if he thinks you're broke!!

He just wants your money so he's using your kids to get your money.

If you don't have any money.........THEN HE WON'T WANT THE KIDS!!!!

2514 days ago
154.

KELLIE    

WE ALL HAVE ISSUES...BUT MY LORD...LOOK AT HER! SHE DRIVES AROUND MALIBU WITH NO PANTIES ON,SPREADIN HER LEGS 4 THE PAPPARAZZI...SHE IS A WHACKEDOUT SELFCENTERED NARCISSIST

2514 days ago
155.

9    


I agree with the thread here:

1. she is a fat girl
2. she is a loser
3. she is now a no talent
4. she is low IQ
5. she is a lousy mommy
6. TMZ'ers are losers
7. TMZ paps are kiss ups - do you hear how they talk to celebs?
8. I am super cool handsome & wealthy on the other hand - a 10 thank you



2514 days ago
156.

Anne    

You've got to hand it to k-Fed. First he drives the girl nuts then he capitalizes of her insanity. This guy is truly toxic. That's her reward for stealing another women's man. Any guy that knocks a woman up twice then dumps her in the 8th month is poison. Oh wait, he knocked Britney up twice and dumped her. Both women are in show business and are well off financially. Oh my, a pattern. A very lucrative one I mightg add.

2514 days ago
157.

Christy M    

to # 149 David....

Are you mad because I made a point, or are you mad that your not the Daddy of her kids... Now that was childish of me.... And pathetic nope not that either..... you unintelligent jerk

2514 days ago
158.

Ayla of no people    

Britney reminds me very much of Veruca Salt. "I want it and I want it NOW."

I'm sure she loves her boys, but she is too emotionally immature to have had them. She doesn't want anyone telling her what to do or how to do it in regards to the boys. That is why she purposly missed the first 3 sessions with the parenting coach.

It is very telling that the coach in her report said that Britney does what she wants when she wants not really caring for any kind of structure in the childrens lives. Not caring to do things the children would enjoy.

Do you supporters really think those boys love to be toted around in the car all afternoon while Britney drives around aimlessly from gas station to tanning salon. That is exactly what we see when we see her with them.

I have no hate for her and hope she is able to get her act together, but by this time in her life, she should have her act together in regards to the children.

In regards to Kevin not being drug tested etc. What basis would the judge have to do that? We don't see Kevin out and about all of the time. He is not partying out at clubs every night obviously getting high. Yes, he has taken a few trips to Miami and Vegas, but they have been few and far between.

Who cares if he smokes dope. It isn't really even a crime in California anymore. A misdemenor at most. He obviously isn't out making an ass of himself all of the time. He also seems to have a competent Nanny. Also his parents AND Britney's parents seem to visit the kids at his home all of the time. Can't get much more supportive than that!

Another thing. Shar Jackson has never ever said an unkind word about Kevin or his fathering skills. He sees his other kids, he just doesn't advertise it.

I have always thought that Kevin was the brains between the two of them. You could see it in the tapes of their show. lol

And ....for those of you who think she is being singled out because she is a star. How about taking into consideration that there are thousands of these kinds of suits going on in all of the States courts around the country at this very moment. They just aren't big stars so don't get the media attention. Britney brings the media scrutiny upon herself by not staying at home like other big stars do with their children.

Britney Spears = Gimme More, Gimme More, Gimme, Gimme Gimme More, Just like spoild brat Veruca Salt. She is all about herself (narcisistic (sic)).

Britney is a Stubborn Spoiled Adult and that isn't a pretty site.

I for one am glad that Kevin has the kids and that they get to see their grandparents all of the time and that they have a stable and routine homelife.

2514 days ago
159.

9    


159 - perfect summary except:

9. K-Fed is the total jerk loser

2514 days ago
160.

WHAT?    

That's what happens when you put yourself above your children.

YOU NEED A BABYSITTER YOURSELF.


Did NOT buy the CD because of how you haven't taken care of THE BABIES!


2514 days ago
161.

He's just another Idiot    

TMZ, are you going to stalk K-Fed 24/7 like you do Britney? You Britney haters would probably not help a drowning person. Due to her stage mother, Britney never had a normal childhood or normal teenage years. Then, she marries a guy obviously after her money. So, with a money mooching mother and a money mooching husband, Britney goes bonkers. I wish Britney had someone who cares enough about her to get her some psychiatric help. It's so sad. If I knew her, I would get her to a doctor if I had to tie her up to get her there. Have a little compassion for the mentally ill, people.

2514 days ago
162.

JDP    

Apparently Kevin Federline has been smoking mass quantities of weed on the set of “One Tree Hill”… he goes out for a smoke break and lights up a JOINT as if there’s nothing wrong with it… I guess it reeks and Kevin just acts like nothing is out of the ordinary… What will become of these poor children?

2514 days ago
163.

luv my TMZ    

Way to go judge!!

2514 days ago
164.

Daisy    

#160 If I remember right Brit dumped him

2514 days ago
165.

Sarah    

Give Brit a week off tmz and follow kfed around see what he's doing if you really love brit you would help her prove he's just as bad are you going to say he's sitting at home being a good dad are you kidding me plz check him out.... follow him around for awhile..,,GIVE BRIT A BREAK!!!!!

2514 days ago
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