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Sienna -- Going Down

9/10/2008 3:27 PM PDT BY TMZ STAFF

Balthazar Getty is married with four kids. His girlfriend, Sienna Miller, is a single woman. So why is she being vilified?

A swarm of pappers cornered Sienna yesterday as she waited for an elevator in Bev Hills, badgering her as she hid up against the elevator doors like a frightened animal.

So we ask...Is dating a married guy worse than cheating on your wife?

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91.

missD    

First time commenting-
F*CKING SLUT

2129 days ago
92.

Stephanie    

So you guys (the press) decide that since she is a homewrecker that it is your duty, right, responsibility to punish her for that with your crazy form of justice, ie: STALKING and basically HUNTING her. No matter how debase these celebrities are in their blatent lack of any moral code whatsoever, nobody, NOBODY deserves to be treated like this. Everybody out there in LA LA Land - photogs, celebrities, wannabes and the poor ignorant masses who perpetuate this crap should be ashamed of yourselves. Why not go and actually contribute to society instead of this completely unrealistic celebrity B.S.. Okay, getting off the soapbox now. I am just so sick and tired of this crazy altered reality you guys keep capitalizing on...

2129 days ago
93.

carmen2    

# 86

I see that the name of the game is "blame RG and tell lies about the status of her marriage". First it was "they were separated for 6 months" or "the marriage was over", and now its "they have an open relationship". If they had an open relationship then why would his wife say that she was humilated by the affair and those embarassing photos? If they had an open relationship, wouldn't she have come to SM defense by now instead of "letting her be mistreated"? If they had an open relationship, why would the wife need to flee her home and country to get away from the humilation of those "embarassing" photos and the affair? Nope, just like the first lie, no one is buying this nonsense that their marriage was "already brokern" before SM stepped in the picture.

SM and her defenders keep trying to redefine the status of BG marriage to make it appear that SM didn't do anything wrong by sleeping with a married man and flaunting it. These lies about BG marriage only make SM look even worse because it shows that she didn't give BG the time/space to settle his "broken" relationship. SM knew that BG had a wife and 4 kids at home and that still wasn't enough for her to WALK AWAY or tell the married man "no". She is 26 yo, it's time for her to act like an adult and take responsibility for her actions.

All of this would stop if SM would 1) stop sleeping with the married man and flaunting it 2) lay low: that means no photo-ops and PR stories, 3) stop playing the victim, own up to her wrongdoings, and show some sympathy for RG/her kids, and 4) stop informing tha papz of her where-abouts and going to places where the papz hang out. SM wants to be seen because she has to remind everyone, including RG/her kids, that she "won the oil heir". What a lucky girl, she "won" a man that cheats, treats his family like *****, treats her like a "friend with benefits", and has to get drunk just to tolerate SM.

2129 days ago
94.

Liz    

He's to blame. I'm sure she didn't hold a gun to his head.
She didn't "cheat " on anyone did she? If in fact he was still with his wife, he's a dog.
How does a tramp "steal" an honest family man?
This is 2008 and everyone is ready to stone her.
In my opinion the blame goes to the one who broke thier vows, no matter how much they are suduced.
Life is full of temptations.

2129 days ago
95.

Elle    

No, although they're both pigs, Balthazar Getty is the one who deserves the most scorn. So why aren't you guys (TMZ) cornering HIM the way you corner HER? Why aren't you and the other paps following him around and asking him all these questions? Hmm, could it be because he at least has enough common sense to LAY LOW right now?

2129 days ago
96.

carmen2    

#93

NO, BOTH SM AND BG ARE EQUALLY RESPONSIBLE. BG didn't hold a gun to SM head either, so why did she sleep with a married man knowing full well that he had a wife and 4 kids at home? Because she wanted money/gifts, attention, to fulfill her need to be in competition with other women, needed to feel important by sleeping with a "heir" of an oil fortune, likes causing other women/children pain, and is selfish. Based on your own "logic" SM is also responsible for the affair because she didn't resist the temptation to sleep with a married man.

If it takes two to tango, then why do SM defenders always keep trying to give SM a free pass, while arguing that BG should take FULL blame. That's a double standard, to say that SM is absolved for sleeping with a married man because she is single woman and didn't take wedding vows. She knew that BG had a WIFE and 4 kids at home and it was SM responsibility to REJECT (NOT ACCEPT) BG's offer and to not pursue this relationship until BG had gotten a divorce from his wife. There is no excuse for voluntarily sleeping with a married man or another woman's husband, none at all. Being single and not taking wedding vows does not absolve SM of sleeping with a married man nor does it give her the right to disrespect/interfere in other people's marriages. SHE KNEW HE WAS MARRIED AND SHE SLEPT WITH HIM ANYWAY AND THAT MAKES HER EQUALLY RESPONSIBLE.

What message are you sending teens and young boys/girls, when you say things like "In my opinion the blame goes to the one who broke thier vows, no matter how much they are suduced Life is full of temptations."? You are telling them that they don't have to take responsibility for their actions. You are telling teens that they do not have to respect marriages and can interfere with them because being single gives them that right. You are telling teen girls that they can have affairs with married men and hurt innocent people because they can always use the wife/kids and the married man(who they assisted in the affair) as "scapegoat".



2129 days ago
97.

carmen2    

MESSAGE 94 was directed at #92(SOwHAT), but since both of you are defending SM for sleeping with a married man, then by message applies to you as well.

2129 days ago
98.

Jenny Bean    

I'm so sick of hearing about this Sienna Miller business. Shame on everyone especially the Woman out there for harassing Sienna and shame on the TMZ staff who agreed that Sienna is getting what she deserved. Have we all forgotton that the MARRIED MAN, Balthazar Getty is the person here married with kids. Sienna wasn't married to Balthazar's wife and Sienna is not the one responsible for the children. SHE IS NOT MARRIED. I strongly agree both parties are wrong, but to write SLUT on her house, and call her a homewrecker is disgusting. Why isn't anyone calling Balthazar a BIG LOSER and CHEAT, shame on HIM for cheating on his wife and Childrent! I'm disappointed in all the woman out there who continue to feed on Sienna Miller's misery, LADIES go after the man in the situation for once who caused all this CRAP!

2129 days ago
99.

carmen2    

#96 or JB

You would have been more credible in you defense of SM if you hadn't tried to make her into a victim or resorted to trying to shame those posters that do not condone SM antics with a married man. You are here trying to scold people for "picking on SM" and then you have the audacity to say "Sienna wasn't married to Balthazar's wife and Sienna is not the one responsible for the children. SHE IS NOT MARRIED." You forgot to say shame on SM for not saying "no" to another woman's HUSBAND and shamelessly flaunting the affair. You forgot to say shame on SM for thinking that she would get a free pass for sleeping with another woman's HUSBAND by trying to use the "victim of double standards" argument. You forgot to say shame on SM for harassing RG/her kids and feeding on their misery with these pathetic photo-ops and silly PR releases. You forgot to say shame on SM family for enabling her relationship with a married father of 4 kids. BTW, where is your compassion for RG/her kids?

What a double standard, to say that SM is absolved for sleeping with a married man because she is single woman and didn't take wedding vows, while BG deserves FULL blame because he is MARRIED and took the vows. SM knew that BG had a WIFE and 4 kids at home and it was SM responsibility to REJECT (NOT ACCEPT) BG's offer and to not pursue this relationship until BG had gotten a divorce from his wife. You are sending the wrog message to teens. You are telling them that they don't have to take responsibility for their actions. You are telling teens that they do not have to respect marriages and can interfere with them because being single gives them that right. You are telling teen girls that they can have affairs with married men and hurt innocent people because they can always use the wife/kids and the married man(who they assisted in the affair) as "scapegoat".

BTW, NO ONE has been trying to absolve BG of any wrong or has ever tried to justify his actions by saying things like he is a "free-spirit", "nice person", or "just wants to live his life". While no one is making excuses for BG, there are always 3-5 people who keep trying to make excuse for SM role in this affair by attacking RG; putting all the blame on BG; resorting to insulting, name calling, or trying to shame people who won't give SM a free pass for sleeping with a married man and flaunting it; or attacking the marriage (ie-SM has the right to do whatever she wants because she is "single and didn't take wedding vows") .

SM WAS AND IS HAVING AN AFFAIR WITH A MARRIED MAN THAT STILL WON'T DIVORCE/LEGALLY SEPARATE FROM HIS WIFE, AND BEING SINGLE/ NOT THE "MARRIED ONE" DOES NOT ABSOLVE SM OF HER WRONG DOING OR FROM FACING THE CONSEQUENCES OF HER ACTIONS.

2129 days ago
100.

sunseeker    

sienna is getting more of the flack because she is still in the limelight where she wants to be , getty is keeping a low profile because he is a gutless bastard, if we all stopped calling each other we all have different viewpoints and get it right they are both heartless egotistical human being, who have no feelings or compassion for anybody else.getty was not separated from his wife that is a fact, miller knew he was married that was a fact let them get on with it . mrs getty will soon get on with her life and she has to because she has the children to support , hope all goes well for her.

2129 days ago
101.

midge    

She should have tasered or pepper sprayed him.

2129 days ago
102.

Dixie    

96. I'm so sick of hearing about this Sienna Miller business. Shame on everyone especially the Woman out there for harassing Sienna and shame on the TMZ staff who agreed that Sienna is getting what she deserved. Have we all forgotton that the MARRIED MAN, Balthazar Getty is the person here married with kids. Sienna wasn't married to Balthazar's wife and Sienna is not the one responsible for the children. SHE IS NOT MARRIED. I strongly agree both parties are wrong, but to write SLUT on her house, and call her a homewrecker is disgusting. Why isn't anyone calling Balthazar a BIG LOSER and CHEAT, shame on HIM for cheating on his wife and Childrent! I'm disappointed in all the woman out there who continue to feed on Sienna Miller's misery, LADIES go after the man in the situation for once who caused all this CRAP!

Posted at 11:06AM on Sep 11th 2008 by Jenny Bean

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Sienna's misery?? Are you kidding?? Ummm, what about Getty's wife and his children?? If anyone is hurting its Getty's wife and kids. That pig left his family for a slut and she deserves what she is getting from the paps and his time is coming too. Hes a coward in hiding.

2129 days ago
103.

vanessa    

i dont think its right for anyone to pass judgement because if he's seperated from his wife legally or not, the marriage is technically over....if he's openly dating or seeing other women then sienna should not be blamed for anything.

2129 days ago
104.

JustWondering    

Oh, leave her alone. Getty was separated from his wife when they hooked up. The paps are an incredibly rude bunch of losers that need to get real jobs. They're no better than stalkers. And all you people who leave comments about "what she deserves," what the f**k do you know about it? You never met these people and you never will. You just sit at your computer and make moral judgments about complete strangers. Pathetic.

2129 days ago
105.

Alix    

John McCain left his wife for Cindy, and became engaged prior to finalizing his divorce!

2129 days ago
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