Jon Speaks -- I Never Cheated on Kate!

I watched the show last night and for the first time didn't let my daughter and am really glad I didn't. I DVR'ed the shows durning the day and glad I did. I will not be letting her watch this season if this is how they are going to be. Yes, while she should know that thier is good and bad in a realitionship I don't want her seeing it on a show she looks up to. Last nights show was completely sad. ANd, while some are saying it looks like Jon is guilty to me it seems he is looking depressed. Sorry to say but, she looks LOTS more happy then him. I think she is more guilty then him!!!

It's amazing...she gets help from medicaid when they're little and everyone nitches,
she is now working, and everyone bitches.

It was ok when he was at work and she was stuck alone all day with all those kids.

They both seem like nice people under a whole lot of stress but if he doesn't want the show then don't take the perks.
That car he bought could've been a college education for 1 of his kids.

And it seems she has to treat him like a child because he sure as hell doesn't act like an adult.
That house would be chaotic if there wasn't structure.

i was so uncomfortable watching the premiere last night. i used to love watching this show because of the kids. But there was so much tension between them, that it made the whole show itself awkward. i feel sorry for them though..i really do. it's sad to see how much they just fell apart

YES LONA some pictures do lie.. Pictures clearly state he didn't have his wedding ring on CLEARLY in the pictures he did. And, he never said he didn't go out with someone he said he didn't cheat. If we as people can't have friends or go out with people of the other gender then it's a pretty messed up world!! Then also the pictures of Kate and her body gaurd we all seen would mean she is cheating too RIGHT??

omg seriously i watched the show last night and i wanted to cry.....i mean i really didnt think they expected the show to blow up this big and even if she is doing it for the money almost all of it is going toward the kids. yes she has a 1.3 million dollar house but who benefiting from it the kids too. both of them dosent have any jobs so they have to make money period..i think kate dosent believe jon and she's mad at him and i think jon just dosent care anymore. wat was even more sad was wen one of the girls asked told him he dosent want him to leave anymore and he had to lie and say he has to work..so sad and people saying that their faking it and all they want is money fact remain they are a family and they all have feelings..and so wat if they are not talking rite now it may look like they are giving up but people sometimes need space u cant just takt things over in one night at expect it to be alright and who know maybe they've talked it over a lot away from the cameras and just cant come to an agreement.. leave them alone and just watch the show

I didn't watch the show last night, but I can guess what happened... I never really liked the show to begin with because it didnt seem real. I mean, yea they're parents and their kids, but you dont see what goes on behind the scenes. Anything is possible when a couple who has a large amount of kids has a tv show. Jon and Kate loved eachother and with all these rumors of who's cheating on who, they're growing apart. All I can say is that I hope this is the last season and after that they get some family counciling. Those kids are beautiful kids being used as a cash cow. Jon needs to go back to work, Kate needs to get a normal job, and the kids need to be in school.

Their show needs to be canceled as in now! All I ever saw Kate do to her husband was put him down and drive him away. And thats exactly what he did..run right into the arms of someone who would listen to what he had to say without constantly criticizing him. The oldest twin, Maddy, is a psychological wreck who needs counseling. Kate runs the house like a drill sergeant or worse. What kids don't get dirty at times? She is in it for the money and the fame. It doesn't matter at what cost. How many people is Kate Gosselin estranged from? 40 nannies? Her father? The list goes on and on.............

Maybe I missed something during all this, but why is when the tabloids reported on Jon, Kate was so ready to believe it and make him suffer for it, but when she talked about her own tabloid "rumors" (about her bodybuard), she was livid and felt it was unfair. So it's ok for everyone to believe what was written about Jon, but not about her? I'm not on anyone's side, but even her article in People made her come off as a martyr. We don't know what he did or didn't do, but she uses the rumors against him but when it's rumors about her, it's another story.

Also, during the last episode of last season, he kept saying he didn't want to do the show again, and she just ran right over his feelings and concerns and said they were doing it. It takes two...

They should stop the show and everything else and do whatever it takes to save their marriage. That is what is best for the kids. Not being on a reality show each week, followed around by paparazzi, having no privacy, etc etc. It's just so sad what they have done to their children! Greedy greedy people!

He looks like a blow up weiner on the grill..she is so fake as her teeth. This is a sick couple they need help.... No time for crying idiots you fk up...

Regardless of how the marriage works out, I think Kate needs some serious therapy to figure out why she is such a control freak. On the episode last night she couldn't light the candles on the cake due to the wind. He took over for her and got them lit. Instead of saying "thank you", she started telling him which candles to light first! Her need for control over even the smallest thing is really out of control--pardon the pun. If she doesn't address this huge issue and make serious changes no one will put up with it--not Jon or any new man in her life. Her kids are little and adoring now, but in a few more years they won't put up with it either and will rebel. She said last night that she was doing what she was supposed to be doing. I don't this so....

I remembered crying when I saw how overwelmed Kate was when she was handling these children when they were so tiny. I am proud of this woman for seizing this chance to not "sell" her children, but to provide the best she can as a mother for her children's future. The oddity of having two sets of multiples was a blessing in that it did draw attention of sponsers
and opportunties they have shown an appreciation for-- and I like how they have payed it forward to others in need.
I don't mind if they have some nice material things. They have come a long ways in 5 years.
I understand her bantering nature. She is very aware now how that has broke Jon. Too late to fix? Maybe. Clearly he stated he was there for the kids... Never mentioning he was for his wife, despite him stating he had not cheated. My opinion...
he has, I would rather see him over the garage than down the rode. Even with a divorce, they are both needed to raise these children. He hasn't worked in two years... I have no problem with that, but he does need to buck up and quit whining, he is doing what he wants, but this show is providing him with the means, so smile Jon, be there and show us you can do it when Kate is promoting and doing a job you can't stand to do. Don't sabotage this~
Be the better half of fun with the kids, supportive of your wife, and learn how to deal with the press...
Unlikely this will run another few years~

I predict this will be the last season for this show...at least I hope so. Oh how the show has changed with all the media attention. First Kate laughing when the bugs were everywhere at the bday party....Pah-lease....now that is some acting...based on what we have seen over the last seasons she would be going balistic about the bugs! Seeing her with the mom's of the kids that came to the party - it is painful to watch her try to interact with them. Oh...and the visibility of the assistants helping wtih the party...guess they decided not to try to hide all of her 'help' this season. When Jon showed up with the cakes...she instructed her assistants to go help him with them. Whatever...I did not buy her sob story at the end. I have no doubt she is tired of American saying what a witch she is and she told TLC to flip it around. The biggest heartbreak here is that the kids are being exploited.

I have not been a Kate fan for a while. I think she has changed but think the tabloids crucified her and she did not deserve It. its not her fault that Jon cheated I don't care how mean she was to him They are crucifying the wrong person Jon is the one who did wrong not Kate

WHERE'S DR. PHIL WHEN YOU NEED HIM....HE IS ALWAYS THERE FOR EVERYONE ELSE...LIKE OCTO-MOM