
We're told Spencer -- who's currently hocking sex tapes starring himself, Heidi and a Playmate -- still "loves" his estranged wife ... and is willing to do whatever it takes to stop the divorce.
In fact, we're told Spencer has finally admitted to having a "fame addiction" ... and wants to seek help for that too.
As for Heidi -- we're told she's down to work things out ... despite all of the public drama he's put her through recently.
Stay tuned ...