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Oksana to Mel: Don't Yell Like Timothy Dalton!

11/27/2010 11:00 AM PST BY TMZ STAFF

Mel Gibson isn't the only one Oksana Grigorieva accused of flying off the handle. TMZ has obtained one of Oksana's emails which accuses her first baby daddy, Timothy Dalton, of raging.

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The email obtained by TMZ -- sent from Oksana to Mel on January 8, 2010, just two days after their blow-out fight -- was admitted into evidence in the custody case.  

Oksana writes, "Lucy has been crying a lot.  She is jerking at every little sound.  She stopped smiling.  I hope there is no damage from ur violence the other night.  I'm very warried (sic) for her and Sacha.  He is acting out and yelling at me.  Since his father always yells and u yelled and hit me."

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Sacha is the 13-year-old boy fathered by Dalton. 

TMZ previously reported ... Oksana had previously complained to Mel and her attorneys that she was the victim of Dalton's rages.  At the time Oksana told TMZ, "Tim is a wonderful father."

In the email Oksana ends by apparently referring to their January 6 fight: "Immagine (sic) what would happen if he tells his dad.  I could loose (sic) the custody and u will loose (sic) ur carrier (sic), and never work again."



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91.

wondering    

the fact that cawksana up and left a newborn lucia to go to moscow and do press and scam a charity event should give the court a very clear picture of just how concerned she is with the welfare of the child not to mention the welfare of alexander as well.....

even when pressed and advised not to travel to russia in lieu of a possible terrorist attack, she didn't hesitate in the slightest, but instead scrambled to get on the first flight out she could, after demanding that mels publicist set up press for her and finding out there was little to no interest she took matters into her own hands and forced herself upon the russian press

1237 days ago
92.

Anonymous    

".. u will loose (sic) ur carrier (sic), and never work again."
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By carrier, did she mean the agency William Morris ?

1237 days ago
93.

Sorntolc    

I guess LIAR Oxy has lost her manipulative battle either way ---
- if she told people / wrote in her email(s) to Mel that Dalton was abusive to her and now is denying it herself IT PROVES SHE IS CAPABLE OF LYING

- if Dalton is called to testify – and strongly refutes her allegations (as expected), it will again prove her CAPABLE OF LYING

Posted at 3:04 AM on Nov 27, 2010 by champix_o

Oh please, Mel (or his spokesmen) have been lying a lot too, simply to protect privacy & family matters. They insisted there was no problems in his marriage & no affair with Oksana long after things were leaked into the media. Just like Oksana, Mel didn´t inform anybody about the meltdown, he kept a straight face, hoping problems would be solved in private. Only as the evidence was delivered to the authorities by Oksana, he fired back & gradually told his version of the story, which doesn´t sound too consistent on all details either.

Oksana & Dalton solved their problems in private & they are not necessarily about to walk into a public battle just becuase a private e-mail is leaked. That Mel & Robyn aren´t showing much disagreement in public might also rely on "little lies" & facts hidden from the media to keep it that way.

1237 days ago
94.

roz    

By carrier, did she mean the agency William Morris ?


Posted at 3:36 AM on Nov 27, 2010 by Anonymous


i think she met career

1237 days ago
95.

champix_o    

@ Roz

Sad, sad situation. Two wealthy prominent actors actually fell in love with Oksana and this is how she treats them. Dalton wanted to marry her and it went down the tubes when he wanted her to sign papers (presumably a pre-nup). Mel was willing to pay her but she wanted it all hush-hush under the table and no IRS involved. She just doesn't get it.

Posted at 3:29 AM on Nov 27, 2010 by roz
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Roz, I don't believe that Dalton has asked Oxy to marry him.

There are NO LEGAL PRE-NUPS in UK like there are in US or France! Even now, although there was recently a sort of precedent in the Hight Court of Appeals re: German heires but that's another story ..

I believe that he REFUSED TO MARRY HER and the story that Oksana's Mother was spinning re: money and pre-nup was just a part truth story (money was discussed obviously) as a FACE SAVING excercise on part of Oxy and her family ..

1237 days ago
96.

wondering    

carrier? baby carrier? career? carrier pigeon? mel had a carrier pigeon delivery service? carrier? as in cawksana is an std carrier? or carrier as in rearlove trunk

1237 days ago
97.

garnet    

She lies to suit her purpose.

1237 days ago
98.

Parker    

@Sorntolc
It is very difficult for dads to get full custody, unless the mother herself is physically abusive. I know this from someone close to me. They had shared but hopefully that has changed.

@roz
the marriage proposal was a bogus story. Stop ready Russian (and even British press.) Dalton isn't old school on the subject of marriage, which if you read more legit press you'd know.

@wondering.
I agree about Oksana leaving Lucia behind to act a dubious charity spokesperson (photo ops). However she lied about Alexander who was with his did in Italy on the set of The Tourist.

I suspect Mel's audience is a bit more mainstream in their taste but having read a bunch of articles when Hot Fuzz was released, WAY before this current debacle took place, when asked if his son knew what he did, Dalton claimed his kid was always with him on the set. So being with him for The Tourist shoot was nothing unusual.

1237 days ago
99.

chunx    

whatever happened to the story that TMZ had about an email where Oksana mentioned Dalton had hit her as well? I wonder why it wasn't at least partially shown like this email was?

1237 days ago
100.

wondering    

whatever happened to the story that TMZ had about an email where Oksana mentioned Dalton had hit her as well? I wonder why it wasn't at least partially shown like this email was?

Posted at 3:54 AM on Nov 27, 2010 by chunx

probably sitting on her sisters computer in russia..... but i bet harvey has a copy of that bit of information

1237 days ago
101.

Swinson    

What we are not getting is that it was her SON who hit her, allegedly, NOT Mel Gibson.
It will be interesting if Gibson seeks the medical records of her son, and his therapy records. Besides Ox being a "danger" to her daughter, Mel is really worried about the danger posed by the son and his actions and issues, allegedly.

1237 days ago
102.

roz    

Re: bogus marriage proposal -- see article from 1997 (yes from British press)

http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_qn4161/is_19970615/ai_n14464925/

which states:

"According to friends of Oksana's family, Dalton has even asked her to marry him - but she turned him down in a bizarre dispute over a marriage contract."

Now I agree that because it is "according to her family" that it makes the claim suspect-- however this article was written in 1997 and it further says:

("Ever since 50-year-old Dalton bumped into Oksana at a star- studded London film premiere two years ago, friends of the actor have raised eyebrows at how quickly such a previously eligible bachelor has become so smitten.

They were even more stunned when the man, who has had a string of beautiful women on his arm and is a self-confessed workaholic, announced he was sharing his Chiswick home with Oksana - and she was carrying his child.")

This is information coming from his friends, not Oksana's people. I think there is something to the claim and I can imagine that Dalton wanted to be with his child and the so-called dispute over the marriage contract (probably similar in form to protecting Dalton's property and money, like a pre-nup) happened because she is greedy.

Yet in the last analysis, none of us really knows what happened between Dalton and Oksana.

FYI, I don't read Russian papers but am not turned off by British press.

1237 days ago
103.

Parker    

@chunx
For that matter, why not show THIS email in it's entirety too?

Simply saying he yelled at her a lot, tells us nothing. For all we know he yelled at her BECAUSE she gets the kid into awful scrapes like this one, which to some of us seems likely since we'd be yelling and furious too.

1237 days ago
104.

Sorntolc    

the fact that cawksana up and left a newborn lucia to go to moscow and do press and scam a charity event should give the court a very clear picture of just how concerned she is with the welfare of the child not to mention the welfare of alexander as well.....

Posted at 3:33 AM on Nov 27, 2010 by wondering

Lucia was six month at this time & Oksana´s mother was around in CA to take care. Shouldn´t it then be alright for a Oksana to perform in her homeland for a couple of days?

http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/2910442/mel_gibson_baby_mama_oksana_grigorieva.html?cat=40

Dima Bilan & Oksana on scene in Moscow on April 20th 2010:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4x0Czsqleeg

1237 days ago
105.

Anonymous    

Notice how she's always blaming on others instead of herself.

Lucy is not acting right -- cause you yelled loud and made her a brain retarded idiot.

Sasha is yelling and acting out -- cause Dalton yells to him always and he's taking examples.

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