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Mel Gibson, Oksana Grigorieva

Settlement Hits a Roadblock

10/17/2011 9:42 AM PDT BY TMZ STAFF

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Oksana Grigorieva just made a beeline for family court after her settlement with Mel Gibson hit a snag ... TMZ has learned.

As TMZ first reported, Oksana and Mel struck a deal in which Oksana would walk away with $750,000, the house she's living in, and some other stuff. In return, she'll leave Mel alone.  They also agreed to 50/50 custody of Lucia.

The settlement agreement is scheduled to go before the family court judge tomorrow for final approval, but we're told the lawyers are still fighting over how it's worded and they've reached a stalemate.

Our sources say Mel's lawyers asked the judge for more time so they can hash it out, but Oksana showed up to court this morning to fight the request ... because she wants the deal done STAT.

Judge Scott Gordon gave Mel and Oksana an extension to sort out their differences -- but only until November 1st ... less time than Mel's people were hoping for.

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2idiots    

Courageous Rabbit: 3 hours ago
warm fuzzies are good!
I would rather give actual things too. When I worked as an environmental consultant (oo there's one for ya 4idiots) we would pick the names of the families off a tree and then buy the gifts accordingly. The names would be on paper cut out 'bulbs' with pics of the kids. It was fun. For us. I bet it was half humiliatng for the older kids. Always felt so bad for them since they knew full well what was going on. :(
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Sam,

by saying you were an "environmental consultant" did you really mean garbage man?

1036 days ago
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2idiots    

little aussie reader: 13 minutes ago
If it's a stretch Cuckoo, it's not mine, it's in the Bible. Gossip is mentioned in the same breath as murder, jealousy and malice. You're the Catholic and you're the one who was crapping on about the 7 deadly sins and the 10 commandments.

I hate when people say they believe in the words of the Bible and then cherry pick those words..... and you call me a hypocrite. Pfft!
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LAR - wouldnt Mel be a "cherry picker" of the words of the bible as well? I'm he's not in your eyes.

Thou Shalt not covet thy neighbors wife (hello - Oksana)
Greed is a sin (60...0K a month on "living expenses")
Children out of wedlock (frowned upon in the Catholic Church - remember MG did build one of his own - one that follows the "ancient ways" - a very "strict" form of Catholicism)

1036 days ago
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2idiots    

little aussie reader: 6 minutes ago
Given that Oxana was not anyone's wife when she met Mel - that argument is invalid.

Mel earns the money, Mel spends the money. I don't see anything greedy about that.

Jesus was not the child of his mothers' husband - got a problem with that? Take it up with the bloke upstairs.
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Given that LUST is a sin - i fail to see your point. Given that GREED is a sin, again, I fail to see your point.

Virgin Mary - immaculate conception....ask the "bloke" upstairs about that.

1036 days ago
634.

Cujeaux    

Getting back to the Timothy Dalton/Oxy relationship, you would think that if Sasha was a witness to the violence that took place on the night that Ox's teeth were busted, his father would have questioned him about it.


If Dalton was told by Sa*****hat he witnessed his mother shaking the baby, Dalton would have never supported her. On the other hand, if Sa*****old his father that Giblitz did in fact do these things - and possibly even waved a gun at her during that event as she claimed, Dalton would have supported her effort to get Giblitz out of their lives. From what is being reported the Ox/Dalton relationship was never as bad as flock made it out to be.


Here is an excerpt of Ox from one of the tapes.....


“Your relationship with Sasha is so f*cked up because of your violence,” Oksana tells Mel. “I was trying to make amends between you and him. Not make amends, be a diplomat between you and him.”

1036 days ago
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Bunny that earns scooby snacks!    

I see the lying hypocritical moron sistas have congregated here again. How nice. We needed someone to laugh at and poke with a stick. :)

1036 days ago
636.

Cujeaux    

I pulled this up from yesterday. This is an example of just one of the laundry lists I've seen on this site. Flock I know this is old territory for you, but please humor the newbies with the facts to back up some or all of these statements......


maya: 24 hours ago

Did the evil extortionist get paid for the People magazine interview?
Did she get paid for the Larry King Show?
Did she get paid for selling the tapes that ruined the man who spent MILLIONS OF DOLLARS on her?
Wasn't Mel upset with her because she spent $25,000 on ONE dress?
Didn't the extortionist spend an obscene amount of Mel's money on Christmas presents?
Didn't the extortionist snub her nose at $15MILLION DOLLARS because she thought that wasn't enough?
Didn't the extortionist accuse T Dalton of abusing her?
What kind of a MOTHER is she?
She is the kind of Mother who survives very nicely from the money she gets from the FATHERS of her children.
And how does she show her GRATITUDE????

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Cujeaux: 23 hours ago

How much money was she asking for in the extortion attempt?

What proof is there that she bought those items or that she wasn't given the ok to buy them?

Why should she NOT be allowed a vehicle such as People or Larry King to explain her side of the story.

Is there any proof she leaked or profited from those tapes?

Why wasn't she arrested for extortion if there was sufficient evidence?

What makes you so sure she wasn't abused by Dalton as well? Why isn't he mad at her for making those apparent claims?

Why would Mel spend millions of dollars on her if he didn't think she was worthy of it - as he says now (that she has no talent) Is it possible that MEL was the dumb one to believe that he could profit off of her and make her a star?

Why did he expect a woman with such a checkered past as you claim be a fit parent to raise a child with?

And most importantly - why didn't Giblitz get a vascectomy YEARS ago?
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Dancingcat: 19 hours ago

Cujeaux: No relevant proof was released that Ox accused TD of abuse. Also there is not any article where OX's mum claimed something like that. It would ve very good reported if Ludmilla did such accusation. So that's all BS

1036 days ago
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Curious    

Howdy Folks :)
So many cool suggestions for the children! Thank you all, gang. Of course, now I can't decide though I totally love the shoebox idea!
How does this sound? Since we're spread all around the globe and there are kids in need everywhere, what if we all promise to make a donation to a charity?


Cujeaux -
Hiya.
LOL, I'm frequently wrong about stuff. But I thought it was you and 2idiots that were convinced the Reilly Foundation was connected to the Church? Actually, you folks were right. And a little snooping brings for this 2004 article in FOX news, since Wiki apparently is no longer considered adequate info source.
* http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,111979,00.html
--The Gibsons' tax-free donations to Holy Family are made possible by a charity they established called the AP Reilly Foundation, which is named for Mel's late mother. The foundation was created on October 29, 1999 for the sole purpose of creating the church.--
* Did a little more snooping and came up with 2009 AP Reilly 2009 IRS 990 return -
http://www.guidestar.org/FinDo***ents/2009/954/768/2009-954768218-064c94a3-F.pdf
* As to what the Holy Family Church itself does, here's a snippet from their own website -
http://www.holyfamily.org/about-us
--As a community of gratitude, volunteers gather each week to prepare bags of food for those in need and distribute the food to 280 families. Each day lunches are prepared and given to as many as 60 homeless people. This effort is made possible in part, with food donations received from within our Holy Family community.--
And, of course, there are the usual fairs, benefits, walks/races that any religious organization will do to support itself and the needy in their community. Those funds are then administered by the Reilly Foundation.

1036 days ago
638.

Curious    

Dang filters . . . grumble grumble grumble . . .
Obviously the starred out portions in this -
http://www.guidestar.org/FinDo***ents/2009/954/768/2009-954768218-064c94a3-F.pdf


Is suppose to be doc....u.....ments.


Off to do stuff, catch ya'll later :)

1036 days ago
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2idiots    

Here's something from Agora365 on the HFC (aka CoM - Church of Mel)

http://agoura365.com/what-is-up/

Article states MG funds CoM via AP Reilly yet AP Reilly has no record of charitable donations (MG pumps in millions off-sets his taxable income and funds his church via AP Reilly).

Not sure how the taxes work for the "CoM" but it seems odd that Millions go into a foundation but not much comes back out (Tax shelter?).

Additionally, the article states CoM is Pre-Vatican II which absolves the Jewish people for Christ's death. Since MG doesn't subscribe to the "modern ways" of Catholicism one would believe that he still thinks the Jews are responsible for Christ's death (as depicted in THE PASSION). By denouncing the "modern thinking" of the Catholic Church, I believe (IMO) that is where the Jewish community has an "issue" with Mel (and why they've spoken out against his doing the Maccabee flick.

1036 days ago
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2idiots    

* As to what the Holy Family Church itself does, here's a snippet from their own website -
http://www.holyfamily.org/about-us
--As a community of gratitude, volunteers gather each week to prepare bags of food for those in need and distribute the food to 280 families. Each day lunches are prepared and given to as many as 60 homeless people. This effort is made possible in part, with food donations received from within our Holy Family community.--
And, of course, there are the usual fairs, benefits, walks/races that any religious organization will do to support itself and the needy in their community. Those funds are then administered by the Reilly Foundation.
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@ Curious,

thanks for the link however this is NOT MG's HFC...if you actually LOOK you'll find the link YOU provided is for a Holy Family CHURCH in South Pasadena (MG's church is in AGOURA HILLS). Nice try though.

Do you REALLY think MG would have a website for his "private church"?

1036 days ago
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2idiots    

Courageous Rabbit: 4 minutes ago
that's cuz you're 2 idiots worth.
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AAAAAAAHAHAHAHAH! Another FLOCK FAILURE. Curious just posted a link to a Church in South Pasadena thinking it was a link to MG's church.....go and look for yourself and then let me know WHO is the IDIOT (she didnt even LOOK at what she was posting to make sure it was right!)

Didnt u just LOVE how LAR tried to "dismiss" Lucia's being borne out of wedlock by referencing the Virgin Mary and Immaculate Conception (almost "approving" of children being born out of wedlock - which the Catholic church DOES frown upon)

1035 days ago
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kkg    

2idiots,

Curious made an honest mistake. Unlike you, she doesn't reside in California and isn't a practising Catholic and so was unaware that she had made a mistake. She has always posted with courtesy and respect towards those with whom she disagrees. I would have thought you would try to return the favor.


Kathleen

1035 days ago
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2idiots    

Courageous Rabbit: 5 minutes ago
so?
The real amazing thing is how flucking stupid you are! And you are completely clueless about it! While sad you can't be trained, it is also very funny!
Hey--you wear pampers still? In extra extra extra extra extra large?
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it's gotta tick you off to no end when a flock member FLOCKS up that bad! Trying to make the CoM out to be a REAL church....AAAAAAAAAAAAHAHHAHAH!

Go take a nap Sammie maybe you wont be so cranky later.

FLOCK UP!!!!

1035 days ago
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2idiots    

Come on FLOCKERS - if you're going to support the CoM, at least post links to the cult house....NOT to church in SoPas (South Pasadena).

1035 days ago
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kkg    

And regarding The Church of the Holy Family website; why would they need one? If the membership is as small as has been reported, a bulletin board would do. The only ones served by a website would be curiousity seekers like you and I.

Kathleen

1035 days ago
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