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Mel Gibson, Oksana Grigorieva

Settlement Hits a Roadblock

10/17/2011 9:42 AM PDT BY TMZ STAFF

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Oksana Grigorieva just made a beeline for family court after her settlement with Mel Gibson hit a snag ... TMZ has learned.

As TMZ first reported, Oksana and Mel struck a deal in which Oksana would walk away with $750,000, the house she's living in, and some other stuff. In return, she'll leave Mel alone.  They also agreed to 50/50 custody of Lucia.

The settlement agreement is scheduled to go before the family court judge tomorrow for final approval, but we're told the lawyers are still fighting over how it's worded and they've reached a stalemate.

Our sources say Mel's lawyers asked the judge for more time so they can hash it out, but Oksana showed up to court this morning to fight the request ... because she wants the deal done STAT.

Judge Scott Gordon gave Mel and Oksana an extension to sort out their differences -- but only until November 1st ... less time than Mel's people were hoping for.

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91.

Just Saying    

Contrary to what people have suggested, this dispute has nothing to do with payment to Alexander or custody of Lucia. The Alexander issue has already been resolved. There is no problem with the "civil" settlement which include the $750K Oksana got. This dispute has to do with the child support part (details of which were kept confidential, unlike the "civil" part). Like I suspected, Oksana is furious that she is getting less in child support. I predicted back when the settlement was reached that Mel would give no more child support to Oksana than he gave to Robyn. Indeed it was reported that this was one of the terms. Oksana is finding out now that Robyn is getting less than 20K a month for Tommy. This makes sense since Robyn is likely to be getting 50% custody, and Mel's child support to her (Robyn) would be less after taking into account alimony and other monetary settlements from Mel to his ex wife. Now Oksana wants to issue settled quickly so that she gets no less than what she was getting before. She is not going to wait around while her child support is reduced from 20K a month previously. She wants the wording in the settlement to take into account monies given to Robyn so that Oksana is not disadvantaged. Not supporting Oksana, but telling it how I think it is turning out.

1063 days ago
92.

igotfleasfromtmz    

This is how it goes. Whoever Mel has watching lucia becomes and extension of Mel. As if he was married and she stayed with his wife while he saw his father in Phx. NOthing Ol Konsie can do about it. 50/50 custody is what it is. It would be different if he wanted to take her out of school ect. But since she isn't in school and such it is none of her d.aa.mn buiss. what Mel does with his time with cute adorable little Lucia.
And to think she has to find out what Mel is doing by reading the internet. I never laughed so hard in my life.

1063 days ago
93.

Firefly    

Good morning Everyone,

I just wish that the Judge would tell her in words she would understand that she was never married to Mel and can not have the same privileges as the wife!

Judge: "OK Bitch, get this and get this straight! NO wifey NO money, period! Now back off!"

1063 days ago
94.

Tellthetruth59    

Video of RDJ's speech about Mel. You'll enjoy it. RDJ is really funny.

http://www.accesshollywood.com/robert-downey-offers-his-support-for-mel-gibson_video_1362736

1063 days ago
95.

Cujeaux    

Well, well, well. What do we have here? Pages and pages of the flock eating crow like a sickening form of cannibalism. Wasn't too long ago when Frieda, Alicia and What you really want to barf attacked me for suggesting that Mel was trying to cover up his payoff to Alexander and now there's news that Mel wants a delay so he can 'reword' the agreement. Now all you fraus can do is 'wonder' this and that and come up with more lame excuses for him.

NOT A MONTH into the custody agreement and Giblitz has already F*ed up. Sticking his child with a nanny for 4 days while he's out of state being seen at bars and getting into car accidents. I knew this BS was all for show. He doesn't want to spend time with that baby, so much so that he'd rather see his nazi father - who BTW should be living closer to Mel if he's in such poor health.

Giblitz didn't expect this to get out? Just another example of his lack of judgement due to his alcohol pickled brain syndrome. And for all you fraus thinking that he told Ox he was leaving without the baby - your out of your freakin minds. WHY DO YOU THINK SHE WOULD TAKE HIM TO BACK TO COURT IF HE HAD SOME KIND OF PROOF THAT HE TOLD HER? Sticking that baby with a nanny for 4 days at her age amongst the turmoil she's already endured shows a shocking lack of judgement and caring for that baby. He will be taken to task for it in court MARK MY WORDS.

Sinc is still the only voice of reason amongst the flock of Giblitz apologists. She should have been asked to take the baby if he couldn't handle spending 4 days straight with her. Ox had every reason to believe Lucia was with him in the car due to the lack of info in those reports. He's lucky he dodged a 4th DUI. There was plenty of damage to his car - I saw the pics!

Giblitz seems more interested in trying to hob nob with fallen celebrities like Downey who thinks he can tell others who to forgive. Tell it to the blacks who support your movies Downey you f*cktard! That little speech was even more sickening than Mickey Rourke asking people at an awards banquet to give Eric Roberts - another abusive addict who destroyed his career - a second chance.

Like I said before - it's all for show. Baby shaking my ass.

1063 days ago
96.

realist    

Cujo, Such vitriol so early in the morning. Was the toilet seat cold?

1063 days ago
97.

canook    

The "REALITY" is that Ole Greedy as Lucia's mother CAN CHALLENGE "ANYTHING" that doesn't seem to be in her child's best interests WHETHER PEOPLE "LIKE" HER OR NOT!!! If I'm not mistaken, she's already demanding that the court revisit their "50/50" shared custody status. Don't be mistaken, she does have more "LEVERAGE" now and WON'T HESITATE TO USE IT!!!
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Sincerity
just b/c Oksana's team is stalking Mel and get some pictures from bar, car accident and who knows what more did came with, did not gave Oksana LEVERAGE
just praying that Mel have some PI on Oksana too..

Oksana lost her case
1- Lucia was not put into ICON Trust
2- Oksana did not get $ 200 000 000 tigerwoodmoney
3- 50/50 custody?
so Mel have Lucia 50% of Lucia time,
PLUS
Mel could enter Lucia's house WHEN ever Mel WANTED
with WHOEVER Mel wanted even Robyn, Hanna or other children=Lucia's step brothers
but Oksana could not enter Mel's Malibu house
now Oksna WANT to sign peace deal as soon as possible? WHY? if she is challenging 50/50 custody?
Mel's lawyer need more time?

Looks to me, that Mel's lawyers need more time to
express all offences Oksana did since August 31
1-Ludmilla interview to KP
2-ROL article about absentee father
3-?only PI knows that....

1063 days ago
98.

Belinda    

What emergency situation? Some of you are trying to make it out like little Lucia was left home alone. Mel went to see his father in the hospital. Lucia was safe and snug in her home as usual. We don’t even know how long Mel was in Arizona. Could have been less than 24 hours. I understand the whole concerned parent thing and I do agree. But then when Oksana realized that Lucia was safe at home. Case closed.


Does Oksana have to state her whereabouts at all times? I imagine not.


As long as the child in question remains in the safe haven that is the child’s home and is cared for in exactly the same manner as usual I don’t see the problem. Maybe Lucia invited her big sister over for a sleepover so she could play with her nieces and nephews. I can’t imagine that Oksana has absolutely no contact with Lucia when she is at home with Mel. I am certain that Oksana calls Lucia everyday to say hello as I imagine Mel does when Lucia is at her home with Oksana. So I think Oksana was well aware of Lucia’s whereabouts. I think this just another episode of ‘Oksana wants to be relevant’. She is trying once again to make it about her. She is publicity starved and desperate. Pathetic.


And as far as Mel being an absentee father … give me a break … this man has gone through hell and high water to be his daughter’s life. I think this is a cheap shot using Mel’s visit to his father in the hospital to say Mel is absent. But it’s a really stupid move for her, her parents aren’t getting any younger either and if one of them ever has to be hospitalized it won’t be a day trip like Arizona. Hope Mel gives it back to her.

1063 days ago
99.

canook    


http://truthdive.com/2011/10/18/Mel-Gibson-gets-settlement-extension-in-daughter-s-custody-dispute.html
Mel Gibson gets settlement extension in daughter’s custody dispute
October 18, 2011 – 6:20 pm By News Desk |
Washington, Oct 18 (ANI):
Mel Gibson and his ex-girlfriend Oksana Grigorieva, who split in June 2010, have been given an extension until November 1st to conclude the custody arrangement of their 23-month-old daughter Lucia.
According to TMZ.com, there is still a disagreement on how to go about the final settlement, which states that the couple will share equal custody of their daughter, with the Hollywood actor paying the Russian-born singer 750,000 dollars.
Judge Peter Lichtman had stated in August that Oksana and Lucia will stay in the home they are currently living in, which was purchased by Mel.
Gibson, however, is permitted to visit his daughter at any time as long as a designated person accompanies him.
But when Lucia turns 18 the house will be sold with all the proceeds going to her.
The judge has also ruled that the broken couple is not permitted to speak or write about their turbulent relationship. (ANI)-
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LEVERAGE?
ROL article about Mel as absentee father
was a disrespect from Oksana to judge and court order...

1063 days ago
100.

canook    

it's all about money..
Lucia is not in ICON trust as heir
so Oksana want out of this peace treaty..
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from Ludmila's greedy mouth:
and voices from Russia
http://www.kp.ru/daily/25746.4/2733730/
..."Oksana never engaged in extortion. Which was confirmed by the Court of Los Angeles. In December 2009 she signed a do***ent and fully abandoned the legacy of Mel and his family, - says Lyudmila G.. - During the divorce, Robin Moore (Gibson's first wife, they lived in wedlock 25 years, raised seven children - Ed.) demanded that Oksana signed an additional do***ent and agreed to the denial of inheritance to Lucia by "Icon" (in this company are almost all Mel Gibson's assets). Oksana refused. Robin did not allow divorce. Still, Mel wrote off his little beloved daughter of the number of his heirs. Oksana found out about this the other day, when it signed a settlement agreement. Each child of Robin get to the their account $10 million. And other $12 million was added to them from this company's "Icon". Initially, Mel insisted that Oksana confirmed its agreement on withdrawal of Lucia's inheritance from the company "Icon." Oksana has not signed the treaty. Mel wanted to justify his dastardly deed in relation to his youngest daughter by Oksana signature.

- My daughter did not require $ 15 million from Gibson. It's a lie. Any reasonable person understands that if the lawyers would find Oksana against the slightest evidence of guilt, she would have had time in jail. In Russian there is no ceremony. Mel escaped serious punishment because he is rich. He kept a staff of lawyers, about two hundred people. Only one of his campaign
has cost him $ 10 million.
Resource Oksana - lack of money. At the moment, her personal duty counsel is 200 thousand dollars.

- Ludmila G., but because Mel pay child support?

- Alimony paid by Mel at Lucia - this is 20 thousand dollars a month. However, only utilities for living in his house cost in 5000 dollars per month. The house in which she lives with Lucy is not Oksana's, Gibson gave them 16 years. Once Lucy turns 18, Oksana has to leave home and housing will be sold on the condition of the contract.

- Ludmila G., do you think Oksana and Mel eventually be able to forgive each other?

- Surprising phrase of Mr. Gibson, which he delivered during the PR campaign of the film "Beaver": "I tell Lucia, when she grows up everything!"
What he will tell, I wonder? How he mocked and beaten her mother? How Lucia deprived of her inheritance and he tried at the same time blame Oksana, and got hold of her signature by deception? Oksana - believer. She forgave all Mel. And he never apologized to her. Maybe Mel let the sins of his personal life to priest. But he is servant of the Lord. But there is also a God above us ...

September 1 - Mom of Oksana Grigorieva:
"I fear for the life of my daughter."
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tatyana d.: 09/09/2011, 17:56
That's really the truth, God - not Timoshka sees a little bit. Gibson punished for drinking, partying, putting with gold digger silicone. She milked him well, aging Elaeagnus, who had abandoned his old wife and children for the sake of piranha with "young" (?) Serves ...

Guest (=could be Ludmila): 09/08/2011, 12:47
The horror! He probably thinks that I should not apologize .. But Gibson just pose as not just a believer, but super-believer ... Such movies filmed religious and cruel!
Hypocrite ... Guys who have a lot of children, his wife at some "island" is often thwarted, even a star like Gibson, "priest" hypocrite.

Guest: 09/06/2011, 1:21
Kp on August 18, 2011: "Gibson lost. The fact that he now works, it seems to pull his foot in its death throes."
Well Oksana won on all fronts, now she can afford to buy a trailer, if it turnout a temporary apartment.

Guest: 09/04/2011, 19:02
She continues to take that 30 pills a day? Keep or to bring in men with level of her lover/guard with a criminal record? The court should be beaten with good evidence, does not trust her own upbringing of the child if court was given a 50/50 custody in which he initially did not claim without waiting for the 3 years o****e and a visit (read test) at any time and bring a witness with him.

Not for long ... the music played: 03/09/2011, 14:30
That Grigorieva, who sings a little bit and poses on the podium, was the mysterious brunette, who was photographed last year coming out of the trailer on the set of Gibson's "The End of Darkness" in Boston, and resting with him in Costa Rica.

Lady with no moral brake: 03/09/2011, 14:27
Would you, mamma, would you teach your daughter that it is sin breaking someone else's family. You did that, and would not be now afraid for the life of your daughter. And even though some are offended by your Oksana could and crush her as annoying fly.

Mind: 03/09/2011, 13:28
over 750 thousand dollars and do not tolerate this. More on this and denial

No Dalton: 03/09/2011, 12:52
I wonder why Dalton dropped rosy Oksana? Does anyone know? Enlighten me, it is curious

NJ: 03/09/2011, 7:52
With all due respect to the author of the article, the article is inaccurate:
According to the author, "... Melo faced up to six years in prison, but after the public" just "in front of dozens of cameras were replaced by anger at the judge's mercy ..."
Next interview Lyudmila Chernukha, where it says:
"Oksana - believer. She forgave all Mel. And he never apologized. Perhaps Mel let the sins of his personal priest. But this servant of the Lord. And there is also a God above us ..."
You Murashkina Rice, too, decide ...
In fact, no apology to the media was not. The fact what Oksana has done, Gibson called treason, and said anyone could have imagined that they would do that.
I understand the Russian language. Here, you would have seen life outside of Russia, would have communicated with Russian speakers, listen to what they say about Russia, if this contributes to profit, or are all Russian, it would change the point of view. And how many Russian substituted! Now known to the world of her meanness, "Russian pianist."

Vinegar: 03/09/2011, 7:13
It turns out that Grigorieva takes temporary shelter in landlord lady Lucia Anna's Gibson?

From USA: 03/09/2011, 4:43
Chernukha you spelled here
"and there is a God above us .."
He sees who advise your daughter to violate the laws of America, for which she nearly landed in jail, and only by the nobility of your dirt Gibson is still at large. Will his anger again rise, because she threw for extortion.
He has the proof, and if there was not,
your daughter would not signed in all respects humiliating treaty.

1063 days ago
101.

Frieda    

@Sincerity Anger management issues, eh? You make stuff up as you go, then when someone calls you on it, you flip out and rage in all caps. And you have the nerve to condemn Mel for the same?

@Cujo Same for you. It's downright pathological that you come here just to berate those of us who defend an innocent man. It's always the same pack of "Masterhaters" as someone so aptly pointed out. Go ahead, hypocrits, and pose as Puritanical bastards - it just makes Ox look even worse.

1063 days ago
102.

Alicia    

Yay Fuddy! Does Oksa want to give lessons in parenting? Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha! Ha ha. Federal law trumps your little tantrum Oksa!! Ha ha!

What's really happening here is that Oksa is demanding to be included in Gibsons life and having a public melt down over it. She wants to be kept informed about Gibsons comings and goings, not Lucia! She could care less about the kid. And she wants to punish and abuse Gibson every chance she gets. She doesn't care that she's punishing Lucia too.

How could Gibson not be constantly worried when his daughter is in the custody of a child abuser, (baby shaker). He's virtually put his whole life on the line to save his baby from the old greedy. He was willing to sacrifice everything for her, has taken more punishment from this rotten bitch, the media and a corrupt system than anyone. He could have had it easier, but he went through all of this BS for the sake of trying to save his child from the witch who has used him and continues to use Lucia unmercifully.

So whoever said that he probably doesn't think about what happens to Lucia when she's with Oksa, is presuming something that doesn't make sense, considering what he has been through at the hands of the witch. Who wouldn't be in a constant state of anxiety over their Childs safety if Oksa had them?

But is she required to inform Gibson of anything she does? I don't think so. I'm sure that he couldn't care less what Oksa does, but he cares deeply about the welfare of his daughter.

Unfortunately Oksa has made it impossible for Gibson to communicate with her, because she is an untrustworthy liar to put it mildly. That never changes, and there is no way that ANYONE (especially Gibson), would ever want speak to her on the phone, after she has set it up for recording her conversations. It's probably still in place! And that dingle berry that hangs off of her ass, (Jimmy Hoison, her own personal sound man), is probably still in place too, at the ready to help record and edit once more!

1063 days ago
103.

Cujeaux    

So the facts sound like vitriol to you fraus when they happen to land egg on Giblitz's face, but if it was discovered that Ox left Lucia with a nanny for 4 days, went out of state, was seen in a bar and smashed her car - YOU WOULD HAVE BEEN SQUAWKING ABOUT IT LOUDER THAN A FLOCK OF CANADIAN GEESE FLYING SOUTH FOR THE WINTER.

Instead of second guessing the 'real reasons' why they're headed back to court and digging up russian and canadian news reports with questionable grammar, why not just accept what facts have surfaced - that Giblitz wants a delay to cover his tracks. That's all that's really known so far.

Flock would like to think that Ox uses any opportunity to see Mel, yet he was the one who insisted that he is allowed to visit Lucia at Ox's home ANY TIME HE WANTS. It's another example of how she got screwed into meeting his demands -so much so that it seems inconceivable that there wasn't more on the table than the $750 Gs. If not, she's bent over backwards, to put it mildly.

Tell: using other celebrities to downplay Giblitz misogyny and racism isn't fitting the bill. I couldn't care less what Sarandon spouts off, and she certainly doesn't represent the majority in Hollyweird.

Frieda: You are the nastiest frau of all so you're in no position to point the hate finger. Even Giblitz would be tempted to shove a bar of Dove in your mouth.

1063 days ago
104.

Sincerity    

Sincerity, you're a Puritanical little bastard, aren't you?
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@Frieda:


I HAVE ABSOLUTELY "NO" RELATIONSHIP WITH THE "LIKES OF YOU"!!! YOU DON'T KNOW ME AT ALL!!! MEL GIBSON "CHOSE" TO CRITICIZE THOSE WHO DIDN'T FIT INTO HIS RATHER "MYOPIC", "PURITANICAL" DEFINITION OF "MORAL" FITNESS!!! HOWEVER, GOD SITS HIGH & LOOKS LOW AND NOW THIS MAN IS BEING FORCED TO DEAL WITH "ALL" OF HIS PERSONAL DEMONS IN ORDER TO SURVIVE!!! PERHAPS THE TIME HAS COME FOR YOU TO TAKE A "SERIOUS" ASSESSMENT OF YOUR "OWN" SHORTCOMINGS!!! FRANKLY, I CONSIDER "YOU" TO BE NOTHING MORE THAN A "SYCOPHANTIC" ENABLER. I CONSIDER MYSELF TO BE A FAR BETTER HUMAN BEING THAN "YOU" DUE TO MY ABILITY TO "CALL A SPADE A SPADE", PERIOD!!! LOL!!!
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@Frieda


SINCE YOU JUST "ADORE" MY CAPS, HERE'S SOME MORE FOR YOUR "READING" PLEASURE!!!


YOU MADE THE MISTAKE OF CALLING ME A "PURITANICAL LITTLE BASTARD" WHICH FORCED ME TO "CHECK" YOUR "DELUSIONAL", "DISRESPECTFUL" AZZ BIG TIME!!! I DON'T NEED "ANGER MANAGEMENT" -- "YOU NEED A SERIOUS "PSYCHIATRIC" EVALUATION BECAUSE YOU CAN'T KEEP TRACK OF WHAT YOU "POST" LET ALONE ITS POTENTIAL "IMPACT"!!! AS I SAID EARLIER, YOU'RE NOTHING MORE THAN A "SYCOPHANTIC" ENABLER WHICH LEADS ME TO BELIEVE THAT YOU HAVE A DIRECT "FINANCIAL" INTEREST IN THE FORTUNES OF MEL GIBSON. I DON'T WHICH AUTOMATICALLY GIVES ME THE FREEDOM GUARANTEED BY MY 1ST AMENDMENT RIGHTS TO STATE MY OPINION WHETHER "ANYONE" LIKES IT OR NOT!!! YOU CAN HATE ON ME, CUJEAUX, AND OLE GREEDY TO YOUR "HEARTS DESIRE" BUT IT WON'T ALTER THE CHAIN OF EVENTS THAT HAVE TRANSPIRED WHICH MORE THAN LIKELY WILL "DERAIL" THIS LATEST PROPOSED CUSTODY AGREEMENT. ENDLESSLY SLAMMING OKSANA GRIGORIEVA FOR EXERCISING HER "LEGAL" PARENTAL RIGHTS AND RESPONSIBILITIES WON'T CHANGE A THING. EVERYTHING HAD FINALLY LINED UP IN MEL GIBSON'S FAVOR BUT HE CHOSE TO OPEN "PANDORA'S BOX" AND NOW THE "PENDULUM OF FATE" HAS SWUNG BACK TOWARDS OLE GREEDY'S CORNER. FOR SOME PEOPLE, COMMON SENSE JUST ISN'T THAT "COMMON" AND IT'S ABOUT TIME FOR "YOU" TO REALIZE YOURS IS "WOEFULLY" LACKING!!!

1063 days ago
105.

Cujeaux    

Hi Sinc: Another thing I'd like Frieda to enlighten us with is this - If Giblitz was in fact in Arizona ONLY to visit his father, why not bring his daughter along to visit her grandfather?

After all his legal wranglings, proclamations and fan support, he has the nerve to dump that baby with a nanny for 4 days and take off. I wonder how much history this nanny has with either parent, esp. considering that Ox has spent almost all of her time with the baby. *disgusting*

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