Bode insisted he has a good track record as a dad ... citing his relationship with another child, from a previous relationship.
Now, Bode has filed docs, asking a judge order Sara to take the baby out of New York ... and return to San Diego, where Bode lives. He also wants an order stating she needs written consent, if she wants to take the kid out of CA.
And there's this ... Bode's asking the judge order the child's last name be changed from McKenna to Miller.