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Tiger Woods' #1 mistress, Rachel Uchitel, never got paid a single penny ... at least not from the club throwing her birthday party later this month.
TMZ has learned Rachel will be celebrating her 35th at a club in Palm Beach, FL called 251 PB -- and though she's being billed on the flier as a "Celebrity Socialite," a la Paris Hilton, she's not charging them a cent to show.
We're told other celebrities are expected to attend ... though we're guessing Tiger won't be one of 'em.
Tiger's #1 Gal -- Free of Charge
1/17/2010 2:30 AM PST BY TMZ STAFF
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lisa
so she is famous for sleeping with a married man????
SOCIALPSYC
I have to admit, with my psychology knowledge, how all of you âHatersâ really revert back to Fraudâs proven history!
It seems this is âOLD NEWSâ to most people who comment⦠but most forget to se the actual topic being that Rachel is actually having a birthday party for herself, with friends. If she was trying to book herself as a celeb or socialite, she would be shopping herself to clubs around the world.
You may not know, but her family is very wealthy, and she could do this if she wished... But she chose to have a quaint, quiet, little party that became exposed by a money hungry guest as a promo opportunity.
It seems to me that most of the people who take time to comment on this story misinterpret it. You all have displayed a classic case of Sigmund Fraudâs âDefense Mechanismsâ
Sigmund Freud describes how the Ego uses a range of mechanisms to handle the conflict between the Id, the Ego and the Super ego, which is why these mechanisms are often called 'Ego defense mechanisms'.
Anxiety and tension
Freud noted that a major drive for most people is the reduction in tension, and that a major cause of tension was anxiety. He identified three different types of anxiety.
Reality Anxiety
This is the most basic form of anxiety and is typically based on fears of real and possible events, such as being bitten by a dog or falling from a ladder.
The most common way of reducing tension from Reality Anxiety is taking oneself away from the situation, running away from the dog or simply refusing to go up the ladder.
Neurotic Anxiety
This is a form of anxiety which comes from an unconscious fear that the basic impulses of the ID (the primitive part of our personality) will take control of the person, leading to eventual punishment (this is thus a form of Moral Anxiety).
Moral Anxiety
This form of anxiety comes from a fear of violating values and moral codes, and appears as feelings of guilt or shame.
Defense Mechanisms
When anxiety occurs, the mind first responds by an increase in problem-solving thinking, seeking rational ways of escaping the situation. If this is not fruitful (and maybe anyway), a range of defense mechanisms may be triggered. In Freud's language, these are tactics which the Ego develops to help deal with the Id and the Super Ego.
All Defense Mechanisms share two common properties:
⢠They often appear unconsciously.
⢠They tend to distort, transform, or otherwise falsify reality.
In distorting reality, there is a change in perception which allows for a lessening of anxiety, with a corresponding reduction in felt tension.
Freud's Defense Mechanisms include:
⢠Denial: claiming/believing that what is true to be actually false.
⢠Displacement: redirecting emotions to a substitute target.
⢠Intellectualization: taking an objective viewpoint.
⢠Projection: attributing uncomfortable feelings to others.
⢠Rationalization: creating false but credible justifications.
⢠Reaction Formation: overacting in the opposite way to the fear.
⢠Regression: going back to acting as a child.
⢠Repression: pushing uncomfortable thoughts into the subconscious.
⢠Sublimation: redirecting 'wrong' urges into socially acceptable actions.
So please do yourselves a little self improvement, and âGrow Upâ!
If I was near, I would attend with a heart shaped box!
Do unto others as you wish done unto yourself!
-Psyc.
Poindexter
Kate Gosselin has just been added as co-hostess!
Canadianbird
give it a break,the guy is trying to get help
golf is on his mind
i just saw him in montreal
at the bar chez parée
and he wasn't alone,,,trust me
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Simone
First!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Simone
TMZ, are you, guys, still giving attention to this boring Tiger Woods story?????!!!!!!! Move on, TMZ!!!! Tiger Woods's mistress are so last month...
Cant Watch
She kinda looks like Mariska Hargitay...except Rachel is a bit trashier.
I NEED REAL PROOF!!!
HAHAHA!!!! CELEBRITY SOCIALITE?!?!? ARE YOU F****** KIDDING ME? YOU'RE MORE LIKE A CHEAP WHORE WHO CRAVES FOR ATTENTION AND FAME! YES, CELEBRITIES WILL SHOW UP, LET'S SEE...SHAQ (HE'S GONNA WANT TO BANG YOU FOR FREE), RU PAUL (HE-SHE WILL WANT TO COMPETE WITH YOU ON WHO'S THE UGLIEST DRAG QUEEN), AND CELEBRITY PLASTIC SURGEONS (THEY'RE GONNA WANT TO FIX YOU UP COMPLETELY SO THAT YOU WON'T LOOK LIKE HALF MAN HALF WOMAN)!!!!
I HOPE YOU HAVE THE MOST BORING, SADDEST, LONELIEST, DEPRESSING, MISERABLE BIRTHDAY OF YOUR ENTIRE LIFE, SKANK!!! YOU AND THE OTHER WHORES DISGUST ME! DO EVERYONE A FAVOR AND LEAVE THE WOODS FAMILY AND RICH MARRIED MEN ALONE FOR GOOD!
TMZ, THIS IS OLD NEWS! I'M SURE YOU WILL BE THERE TO TAKE MORE NASTY PICS OF HER WITH HER LEGS OPEN FOR ANOTHER MARRIED MAN!!!
dropthatmoron
cheap wh***? after fame and money, nope. looks like typical american woman to me.
Donna S.
She's a "Socialite"? Is that what they call it now?
Q
Maybe Tiger can show up and go for his first real world sex test out in the real world after his rehab...sit there during her bday party and see if he still gets a woody...woody? he goes back to rehab in Mississippi. No woody? He goes home.
Simple test...take it Tiger...its the only one that will let us know if you are truly "cured"...only thing I know that gets cured, is a ham.
Freaking hambone you are...or was it houndog...take the test Tig.
Homer
celebrity socialite = golddigging tramp
Homer
Rachel, you're as ugly as a mule and twice as dumb. If a strange man offers you a ride, I say take it.
o rly
You know who's also free of charge for a night? SIMONE.
Fred Farkel
Put me on the list.
These days... Rachel is an example of a normal everyday female and I would gladly make her my date to my granddaughter's 2 year old birthday.
Elmo will be there and everything.