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Oksana to Mel: Don't Yell Like Timothy Dalton!

11/27/2010 11:00 AM PST BY TMZ STAFF

Mel Gibson isn't the only one Oksana Grigorieva accused of flying off the handle. TMZ has obtained one of Oksana's emails which accuses her first baby daddy, Timothy Dalton, of raging.

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The email obtained by TMZ -- sent from Oksana to Mel on January 8, 2010, just two days after their blow-out fight -- was admitted into evidence in the custody case.  

Oksana writes, "Lucy has been crying a lot.  She is jerking at every little sound.  She stopped smiling.  I hope there is no damage from ur violence the other night.  I'm very warried (sic) for her and Sacha.  He is acting out and yelling at me.  Since his father always yells and u yelled and hit me."

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Sacha is the 13-year-old boy fathered by Dalton. 

TMZ previously reported ... Oksana had previously complained to Mel and her attorneys that she was the victim of Dalton's rages.  At the time Oksana told TMZ, "Tim is a wonderful father."

In the email Oksana ends by apparently referring to their January 6 fight: "Immagine (sic) what would happen if he tells his dad.  I could loose (sic) the custody and u will loose (sic) ur carrier (sic), and never work again."



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76.

garnet    

I am not questioning her logic in blaming Mel or Tim for the kids' behaviour or whether she was making them up or not.

I do notice, however, that she was quite confident in blaming Mel. This doesn't like someone who is in great fear of her life.

1374 days ago
77.

champix_o    

Well, the cat is coming out of the bag :-)
With Eric George, the Mel’s medicine picture and now Dalton .. Oxy has opened the Pandora Box, a can of worms – whatever you want to call it – and will have to suffer the consequences now .. She always was a ‘short vision player’. Most likely because she is a clever but not in the least an intelligent female and because, up to now, nobody has challenged her. She didn’t expect for Mel to have balls !!! hehe Big mistake :-))

I guess LIAR Oxy has lost her manipulative battle either way ---
- if she told people / wrote in her email(s) to Mel that Dalton was abusive to her and now is denying it herself IT PROVES SHE IS CAPABLE OF LYING
- if Dalton is called to testify – and strongly refutes her allegations (as expected), it will again prove her CAPABLE OF LYING
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And the “…Sacha. He is acting out and yelling at me. Since his father always yells and u yelled and hit me. I guos he can too.” = poor poor me! ____ next she will be accusing her own son of abusing her too :- ))

1374 days ago
78.

little aussie reader    

after going public and spinning her gypsy tale of woe and how she could not afford a gift for alexander ..(why mel has to finance a gift for daltons son is quite low), it gives a glimpse of his growing angst and embarrassment, and tearing him apart having to stick up for her while seeing and knowing the truth.

Posted at 2:59 AM on Nov 27, 2010 by wondering

It's just not right. I've said it before: A boy his age should be playing in the mud, catching frogs, insects and have a dog. Not subjected to adult mind games. It's appalling she is involving her son this way.

1374 days ago
79.

Your Aunt Bea    

Good pic of dalton by the way. I don't think we should be too hard on him. Lord knows what the man has been through. I suspect someone has been doing Zumba with his nutz for years,... 'and twist, and squeeze and twist, and wrench them off'! Poor man!

1374 days ago
80.

roz    

Oksana is still unhappy with the Tim/Oksana agreement and is now determined that Mel will not get off as easily as Tim did. I still disagree with the Court's decision to give $20,000 per month plus house (with Mel covering all costs for the house). I believe he is also covering her and Lucia's medical insurance. She is perverse. If she loses custody, she loses all of child support, etc.

1374 days ago
81.

Parker    

"Dalton choices are narrowing down as each of these emails are made public and the fires of his fiercely fought for privacy is dwindling down and soon only the dirt and ash will remain."

wondering. This email, which you'll notice is incomplete, doesn't tell us why Dalton yells at her. If she felt she could lose custody (it was shared custody btw but it's possible there is now a private agreement but handled through lawyers, allowing her only liberal visitation now, who knows?) than it's unlikely she has anything on Dalton. Harvey claimed she said he hit her but it's not stated in this email. He has yet to show that one or this one in it's entirety. Some of us feel he SHOULD have been outraged and pulled his son out.

Posted at 2:26 AM on Nov 27, 2010 by roz
" I just hope that Dalton, after having had his own legal battles with Oksana in Britain, mans-up --forgets his ego and privacy issues (and stop acting British -- they embarrass so easily) and HELPS and protects his son. The custody hearing regarding Alexander happened in Britain because that is where they lived.

The fact that Oksana said she was fearful that Alexander would tell his father and a custody battle would ensue hopefully demonstrates that Dalton has some kind of back bone.

FREE ALEXANDER................."

roz. Dalton seems to move between both residences but they mostly lived in the States. It appears they separated long ago but he does everything quietly, which would have made it easier on the boy.

It is also possible that he knew the situation was bad and as I mentioned above had already handled it privately through lawyers. Since the email is incomplete, we don't know if there is reference to him having already threatened about doing Malibu sleepovers.

In any case if he did move on it, he moved far to slowly.

1374 days ago
82.

igotfleasfromtmz    

Hang in there Dalton, only 5 years and 150,000 left to pay then your FREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

1374 days ago
83.

Your Aunt Bea    

next she will be accusing her own son of abusing her too :- ))

Posted at 3:04 AM on Nov 27, 2010 by champix_o

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shhh! you just let her back up retirement plan out of the bag

1374 days ago
84.

Sorntolc    

Why didn't Grigorieva tell the pediatrician about this?

Posted at 2:33 AM on Nov 27, 2010 by Maya

She begged her dentist to be confidental, but she knew that the pediatrician would inform the authorities & she wasn´t happy about the consequenses as stated in the e-mail.

That said, I don´t suppose Dalton was ever eager to have full custody of a minor child. As many old fashioned men he probably believes that a child should be close to the mother, he isn´t a family man & probably satified with some distance & Oksana taking care of the daily tasks.

I suppose Oksana intends to make a good home for her children & long as she dosn´t interfere too close on partners with anger management problems, it may be no problem.

No doubt, beauty combined with ambitions has given her partners a hard job, but it´s no excuse for abusive behavior, love her or leave her, but don´t slap her.

1374 days ago
85.

Your Aunt Bea    

She begged her dentist to be confidental, but she knew that the pediatrician would inform the authorities & she wasn´t happy about the consequenses as stated in the e-mail.

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So, you were there Sorntolc? Tell us the rest. You are the biggest whack job on here. If anyone could leave her they would... don't ya think?

1374 days ago
86.

champix_o    

@ Aunt Bea
For fun, I 'anagrammed' Sorntolc and got 'controls'... got the trols part right. Still wondering on the con part? or is that the cont part?

Posted at 3:01 AM on Nov 27, 2010 by Your Aunt Bea
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Aunt Bea, BRAVO !!!!!!!!!!!!!! - very funny and .. telling!

And to think the Oxy trolls AGAIN thought they way the clever ones :-))Theirs and the Oxy camp arrogance will be their undoing!

:-))

1374 days ago
87.

igotfleasfromtmz    

No doubt, beauty combined with ambitions has given her partners a hard job, but it´s no excuse for abusive behavior, love her or leave her, but don´t slap her.


Posted at 3:14 AM on Nov 27, 2010 by Sorntolc
he he just EXPOSE HER

1374 days ago
88.

framed-heart    

Good pic of dalton by the way. I don't think we should be too hard on him. Lord knows what the man has been through. I suspect someone has been doing Zumba with his nutz for years,... 'and twist, and squeeze and twist, and wrench them off'! Poor man!

Posted at 3:09 AM on Nov 27, 2010 by Your Aunt Bea

I think you are right, Oksana probably has something on him. Back when the news broke that she had claimed that Dalton had abused her it seemed odd that Dalton would need to contact and discuss the issue with Oksana. It seemed like he didn't trust her and wanted to check what had been said. And them there was that statement afterwards from Horrowitz that they were 'friends', and that whoever was alleging Oksana had claimed Dalton had abused her was a 'liar', but there was still no statement of support for Oksana from Dalton himself. Frankly, after Horrowitz made up the claims about the DV support groups working with Oksana, I don't believe anything that lawyer says.

1374 days ago
89.

Parker    

The birthday gift.

That likely mostly a tabloid-fic story, which if anything MAY have an element of truth. Since the Lakers had been recently mentioned when the tapes were broadcast, they may have taken it upon themselves to send a basket of goodies, which would be good promo for them. That's IF the story is true at all.

The recent drug story is another dead end. Probably a lawyer's tactic to attempt to level the playing field since it was recently disclosed that Mel's drug bottles were photographed and submitted as evidence. There was no mention in the rants about her having a narcotic habit or of him moving for custody bc she had one. We have no idea how long ago the drug was prescribed or what it was prescribed for. I have some bottles left from years ago that I never finished.

Like the Lakers gift story, the drug investigation is probably meaningless.

1374 days ago
90.

roz    

Sad, sad situation. Two wealthy prominent actors actually fell in love with Oksana and this is how she treats them. Dalton wanted to marry her and it went down the tubes when he wanted her to sign papers (presumably a pre-nup). Mel was willing to pay her but she wanted it all hush-hush under the table and no IRS involved. She just doesn't get it.

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