DMX is trying his hand at the whole conscious uncoupling thing by keeping his divorce from his soon-to-be-wife Tashera civil, down to child support checks.
X and Tashera hugged it out Thursday outside a New York courthouse ... not the norm for a couple on the outs after meeting with lawyers and a judge, but we're told it's because they've raised the white flag on the money situation.
A lot of it has to do with X being in and out of jail the past year. He also blamed his old manager for messing up previous child support payments.
Truth is ... X's income has changed drastically for the worse and Tashera's agreed to wait until his lawyers figure out his current revenue before striking a divorce settlement.
Tashera's been getting $5k a month up until now ... so it could be a gamble.