Bruce Beresford-Redman -- Wrestled with Reality

6/2/2010 4:30 AM PDT

Bruce Beresford-Redman -- Wrestled with Reality

Bruce Beresford-Redman was working on a brand new reality show right up until his wife was murdered -- a show that revolved around professional wrestling.

TMZ spoke with Stacy Carter -- aka Miss Kitty from the WWE -- who claims BBR had contacted her roughly two years ago to discuss a reality show based on her life ... specifically her transition from wrestling into her new career as a real estate broker.

Carter says she and some of her famous friends -- including "Hacksaw" Jim Duggan, Greg "The Hammer" Valentine, Jimmy Hart and Al Snow -- shot a bunch of footage with BBR ... and it seemed like they were going to get a deal.

Carter tells us she had spoken with BBR in recent months ... but the calls stopped in April ... right around the time BBR's wife was murdered.

Now that BBR has been charged with the crime in Mexico -- Carter tells us she's pretty confident the show is kaput.

Then again ... crazier things have happened in Hollywood.