The Dallas Cowboys defensive back and the former "Basketball Wives LA" star have been on-again, off-again, on-again for months ... after dating for roughly 2 years.
But now, our sources connected to the couple tell us Draya broke things off with Orlando on January 1st ... after their relationship turned sour once again.
We're told the couple had been spending way too much time apart -- with Orlando in Dallas and Draya in L.A. -- and things finally came to a head.
Our sources tell us ... Draya does not want to cut Orlando out of the picture and wants to be able to co-parent the child once he is born.
Meantime, she's gone to Instagram to vent ... saying, "I've been hurt, abandoned, lied on, and disrespected. I've realized you can't change people.. And the thing about rough times is, I've survived every single one."
"Today is a celebration for me .... I've made 6 months.... And I'm ok rejoicing alone. I have a son and another on the way, soon to be surrounded by 2 kings. Protectors."
As for Orlando, he seems pissed -- 'cause as our friends at BSO pointed out, he already scrubbed his Instagram account of all traces of Draya ... and that's not usually a ringing endorsement of a post-breakup friendship.