I am a person who believes too much hatefulness and intolerance and self righteousness and self delusions are rampant and hurt those exposed to it as well as those who do it. We ALL have to work on not being this way, me especially. But I am aware and working hard on it. Mental pain has finally been proven by doctors to hurt like physical pain. Words do hurt. Tongues are like knives. And we should not judge on such petty things for we are not God. One of my zillion regrets is how long it took me to see this and this regret that I can only change myself although I hope someone stops and thinks about it.