You can't ball like Steph Curry ... but you can at least be romantic like him -- 'cause Ayesha Curry is giving TMZ Sports the superstar's Valentine's Day secrets!!!
We asked the real chef Curry to spill the beans on her hubby's go-to V-Day plans while out in New York on Wednesday ... and she gave us a rough outline of how it goes down in the Curry household.
Ya gotta hear it straight from her -- there's some steak ... some wine ... and "lots" of secret ingredients!!!
Tough to argue with the results ... three kids didn't show up in Steph's nursery by magic!!!